I got tired of talking about other people, let alone hurting them.

I'm beyond tired of hurting myself.

So, I'm on the road to change that, ALL OF IT.

Here's all about how f*cked up John is!

Join me as I struggle to learn from my mistakes.

#AbuseAwareness #FamilyLegacy #BreakFree #NPD

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Experience the harrowing reality behind abusive family traits which persist across generations in this deeply personal video.

This raw and painful conversation takes us back to the unprovoked assault on our lives while we experienced the unimaginable pain of losing Tony.

We spotlight a letter sent by a third generation of abusive individuals who consistently and continuously attempt to destroy our lives through surreptitious and tortuous interference.

We seek to provide explicit details revealed to us through these viscous accusations.

We disclose the intricate web of manipulation  employed by former family members with the intent to push us over the edge.

By sharing these distressing details, we aim to shed light on the importance of recognizing and addressing these patterns of behavior.

Join us as we struggle to learn from our mistakes.

#AbuseAwareness #FamilyLegacy #BreakFree  #NPD

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We revisit previous conversations in order to provide clarity and/or updates.

We begin to discuss how our abusive family members create dissent in order to attain/maintain corrosive control over targeted individuals.

Multiple generations use the same tactics on children/grandchildren/nieces and nephews while they simultaneously portray a false favorable public image of themselves.

Grandparents/aunts/uncles/cousins will and do stalk/harass/ambush targeted individuals within the family.

Adults require children to participate in conversations and abusive conduct in order to 'push targeted individuals over the edge.

'In order to understand the trauma we need to demystify the past through honest, EXTREMELY difficult conversation.

As we attempt to unravel the roadblocks which impacted our lives we invite you to join the conversation below.

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In this episode, John and Holly discuss where Holly is at in life, why Holly missed some episodes, and what Holly thinks about our past, growing up.

It is the first of a more needed, in depth conversation.

Learning to be adults has been daunting and we're clearly in our infancy here, not polished ... please, be kind.

In order to understand the trauma we need to demystify the past through honest, EXTREMELY difficult conversation.

As we attempt to unravel the roadblocks which impacted our lives we invite you to join the conversation below.

Find Your Truth

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In this episode, we were able to finally settle some dust and see some hard work pay off in the form of what we'd consider a 'better' conversation.

There is still much work to be done.

In order to understand the trauma we need to demystify the past through honest, EXTREMELY difficult conversation.

As we attempt to unravel the roadblocks which impacted our lives we invite you to join the conversation below.

Find Your Truth

https://iamnotok.com/truth/

In this episode, we're discussing, or attempting to, what we want and need from each other as a family unit.

In this episode, we're discussing the devastating, abusive, generational patterns that have taken hold in our lives, and what we can do to deconstruct them so that we stop hurting each other.

In this episode, we're discussing the devastating effect that losing Anthony Joseph (Tony) Bair has had within our family.

In this episode, we're discussing the devastating effect that losing James Keith Kling (Jimbo) has had within our family.

Listen to Jimmy's music below ...

https://www.soundclick.com/jameskling

As we attempt to unravel the roadblocks which impacted our lives we invite you to join the conversation below.

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https://iamnotok.com/truth/