Most men believe that the best legacy they can leave behind is financial—wealth, inheritance, or handing over the family business. But here's the truth: that mindset might be hurting your children more than helping them.

In this episode, I reveal the three powerful shifts every man must make if he truly wants to leave a legacy of freedom, fulfillment, and happiness:

1. Possibility Over Wealth
2. Character Over Comfort
3. Freedom Over Security

Your kids didn’t come here to repeat your path. They came to learn their own lessons, through their own struggle, setbacks, and self-discovery. By trying to pave the road for them, you might be robbing them of the very strength they need to succeed.

This episode will challenge everything you think you know about legacy, and give you a powerful new lens to lead your family forward.

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

Divorced. Distracted. Drowning in business? 

If that’s you, and you’re tired of pretending everything’s fine while secretly struggling to keep it all together—this episode is your roadmap back to power.

I reveal:
- The 3 lies every divorced dad entrepreneur believes
- The framework that rebuilt my life after burnout
- How to lead from peace, not pressure

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Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

Brother, if you feel constantly drained, overwhelmed, or pulled in a million directions, this episode is a must listen. 

I drop the hammer on one of the biggest silent killers of self-respect, productivity, and peace: poor boundaries.

Whether it's your ex (co-parent), your clients, your employees, or even your kids—if you can’t hold the line, you’re not leading. You’re leaking energy. You’re betraying yourself. And your business, family, and sanity are paying the price.

You’ll learn:

• The brutal truth about why you feel frustrated and burnt out
• A simple 3-part framework to set powerful boundaries minus the guilt
• How to communicate them like a leader, not a doormat.
• What to do when others cross your line, and how to stay cool, calm, and in control.

Your freedom begins with one decision: to stop betraying yourself for the comfort of others. This is the Torch Standard. 

🔗 Ready to go all in on YOU? Join the waitlist for Be The Torch Academy:
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Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

The success of your business is a direct reflection of YOU.
 In this episode, I’m calling out the trap most entrepreneurial single dads fall into: building a business at the cost of their health, relationships, and peace of mind.

I break down:

• Why building a business before building yourself is a dead-end
• How your current struggles are mirrors—not roadblocks
• The 5 areas of self-mastery that drive true growth
• How to stop being chained to your business and start leading your life

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about becoming the man who can handle more.

🔥 Join the Be The Torch Academy priority list now → https://bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

No really...The #1 Investment in Your Business is You. 

Most men think if they grind harder and make more money, their business will thrive. The truth? Your business can’t outgrow the man running it.

In this episode, I lay down the hard truth: if you’re out of alignment, your business is too. Whether it’s your relationships, your mindset, or your energy—you are the single biggest investment in your company.

You’ll learn:

• Why chasing money first is killing your alignment.
• How your personal energy sets the tone for your entire culture.
• The hidden cost of living a lie and how it blocks business growth.
• How to build a personal culture that fuels leadership and freedom.
• The three biggest myths keeping high-achieving men stuck.

Don’t just work on your business—work on you....and watch your business grow. 

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

In this episode, I break down the 3 hidden power leaks that are silently sabotaging your leadership and business. If you’re a business-owning single father who’s tired of burnout, pressure, and underperformance...this one's for you.

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

Why Happy Wife, Happy Life is Holding Your Business Back is not for weak men. 

This is for men who want to feel loved, find happiness, meaning and purpose in their lives. 

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

Your morning routine might be the silent killer of your energy, focus, and freedom.

You’re just too afraid to admit it.
You know damn well that tapping your phone, slurping coffee, and shoveling garbage in your mouth is NOT the way a man who’s on a mission starts his day.

Yet your body and mind? It’s addicted. Conditioned.
You’ve become a prisoner to your weakness before the sun even comes up.

This isn’t about motivation. This is about discipline.
And in this episode of the Be The Torch Podcast, I break down 3 brutal signs your morning routine is holding you back from becoming the man, father, and entrepreneur you were built to be.

If you’re a single dad juggling business and kids—or just stuck in survival mode—I DARE YOU to try something different.

This episode is not for the weak. It will light the fire, shift your mindset, and hand you the tools to finally take control of your mornings—and your life.

Key Topics Covered

• The victim mindset that keeps high-performing men stuck
• Why your phone is sabotaging your day before it starts
• How caffeine is like a credit card for your energy—and why you’re in debt
• The deadly cycle of living in survival mode
• 5 areas to focus on each morning to become your best self: Focus, Family, Fitness, Fortune, and Foundation

🔗 Grab your FREE Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet NOW: https://www.cletuscoffey.com/morning

 🔥 Join the next Master Your Morning Challenge: https://www.bethetorch.com/challenge

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

If you clicked on this episode, respect to you. Most men won’t even approach this conversation because they’re afraid of what they’ll find inside themselves.

The truth is, when you get triggered, it’s not about THEM. It’s about YOU.

Your partner makes a comment, your kids push your buttons, someone at work challenges you...and boom, you react. 

Are you tired of that experience? 

Tired of the impact it's making on those you lead?

You know you can do better, but don't know how?

A man who has mastered himself doesn’t get triggered. He stands in his power, unshaken, untouchable. But guess what happens when you reach this level of awareness?

All these answer and more are inside episode #83. Jump in and prepare to learn a ton about yourself. 

This episode is about shifting your mindset, using triggers as teachers, and building self-mastery so nothing and no one can shake you.

Be the Torch brother 🔥

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

Men are taught from a young age that success equals happiness. The belief that if they grind harder, make more money, and achieve more, they’ll finally feel fulfilled.

 But what happens when you check all the boxes—business, money, relationships, status—and still feel empty?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the biggest lie about success and why your achievements aren’t making you happy. 

You’ll learn:

✅ Why external accomplishments don’t lead to fulfillment
✅ The difference between experiencing and achieving
✅ How to shift from doing to being and start feeling joy NOW
✅ The biggest myths keeping men trapped in stress and disconnection

🔥 Ready to take control of your life and build real fulfillment? Start with my FREE Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet → CletusCoffey.com/morning

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a brother who needs to hear this!

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

START HERE:

Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey