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Do not attempt to go out into the dating world, as a single dad, until you have learned this game-changing strategy for not just finding love, but your soulmate.

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

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If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

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In this episode of Be The Torch, Cletus Coffey calls out entrepreneurs stuck in the hustle and grind, and shows how to step into their power by redefining their role in business—and life. Creatively crafted through the language of sports, discover how to level up from being the overwhelmed, overworked athlete/player to the true owner of your business. 

🎙 What You'll Learn:

• [00:02:45] The surprising connection between sports and entrepreneurship
• [00:07:30] Why most business owners are stuck thinking like employees
• [00:13:15] The five roles in the "business-as-sport" framework
• [00:20:10] How to identify your current role—and what it means for your life
• [00:26:45] The steps to move from being a player to becoming the owner
• [00:32:15] Why self-mastery is the foundation of success in business and relationships

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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In this powerful episode of Be The Torch, Cletus Coffey dives into a topic often reserved for women’s podcasts—orgasms—and explores how they, along with vacations, are meant to release tension and stress, but in the big picture of life are only fleeting moments of relief that are keeping men stuck.. Discover a new approach to living a life of daily freedom, presence, and pleasure beyond these temporary escapes.

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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Do you sometimes feel like you’re carrying a heavy load and no one really knows how hard it is?

In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, I dive into the widespread struggle men face when they place all their energy into their relationships, children, and businesses—without nurturing their own purpose. As a single father and entrepreneur, I get it, I too lost myself in my responsibilities and and had to shift my focus inward to unlock a new level of fulfillment and freedom.

Tune in to discover:

• Why making your family and business the focal point can lead to burnout and unfulfillment.
• How to identify where your true purpose lies.
• Actionable steps to realign your life around your mission while still serving those you care about.

Whether you're a father, entrepreneur, or simply someone searching for more, this episode is packed with insights to help you reclaim your power and live authentically.

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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If you are a man in pain, struggling, feeling broken and need someone to talk with, please do not hesitate to dial 988. An anonymous call to talk it out with someone. 

In this episode of the Be The Torch Podcast, we dive into the often overlooked struggles of high-performing men. Whether you're a man living this experience, or someone who loves and supports a man, this conversation sheds light on the silent battles men face. From external success to internal turmoil, we'll uncover why men feel broken, disconnected, and lost despite appearing to "win" on the scoreboard of life. Learn how to recognize these signs and what we can do to support the men we care about.

Episode Highlights:

• [02:10] Why men are struggling in silence
• [06:30] The signs of a broken man: physical, emotional, and spiritual exhaustion
• [12:15] The athlete mentality: why vulnerability feels like weakness
• [16:45] External success vs. internal fulfillment: why men feel like they're losing
• [22:00] Lack of purpose and direction: the spark vs. the torch
• [29:40] Avoiding shame and guilt: how men suppress their feelings
• [35:55] Low-frequency activities: alcohol, drugs, and distractions
• [42:30] Identity crisis: how men lose themselves in work, sports, and fatherhood
• [48:10] How to support the men in your life without judgment

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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Ever feel like you don't have enough time to be a parent AND a business owner? Would you believe that if your focus is primarily on your business and your children, you are cheating everyone, including yourself, out of a life worth living.

In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, Cletus Coffey dives deep into what you should REALLY be focused on so that you can live the life you truly desire and lead others in your life and business. If you’re an entrepreneurial dad striving for more freedom, flexibility, and fulfillment in all areas of your life, this episode is a must-listen. Cletus shares personal insights, practical strategies, and the three core elements you need to focus on to transform your business and life.

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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Do you have an Olympic Hangover like I do?

In this Olympic edition of the Be The Torch podcast, I dive into the lessons from the track and field events, particularly the men's 100-meter dash. If you’re feeling the Olympic hangover and missing the excitement, this episode will give you a fresh perspective on how the principles of sprinting apply directly to your journey as a man, father, and entrepreneur.

I share insights as a former collegiate decathlete and masters world champion, breaking down the four key phases of the 100-meter dash and how they mirror the stages of life. Whether you're just starting, accelerating, at top speed, or facing deceleration, this episode will guide you on how to apply these principles to succeed in your own race of life.

Episode Markers:

• [00:00] - Introduction and Olympic Hangover
• [03:15] - The 100-Meter Dash: A Life Metaphor
• [07:30] - Phase 1: The Start – Understanding Your Beginnings
• [12:45] - Phase 2: Acceleration – Finding Your Drive
• [18:20] - Phase 3: Top Speed – Hitting Your Stride
• [23:10] - Phase 4: Deceleration – Slowing Down Gracefully
• [28:50] - No Comparison: Running Your Own Race
• [34:00] - Real-Life Application: How to Stay on Track
• [39:30] - Call to Action: Join the Be The Torch Academy Waitlist

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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Welcome to the Be The Torch podcast with your host, Cletus Coffey. In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of self-mastery for men, focusing on the power, purpose, passion, and play that lead to true freedom and fulfillment.

If you're a single father and an entrepreneur, seeking growth in all areas of life, this episode is for you.

We'll explore the importance of healing, building meaningful relationships, and taking ownership of your life to attract and maintain a healthy, fulfilling partnership.

Cletus shares his personal story of transformation, offering insights and steps to help you navigate your own journey.

📍 Episode Highlights:

• 00:00 - Introduction: Why Self-Mastery is Essential for Men
• 04:15 - Building a Lifestyle First: Prioritizing What Matters
• 08:45 - The Impact of Unhealed Trauma on Relationships
• 13:20 - The Truth About Yourself: How to Face and Own It
• 20:10 - Importance of Vulnerability: A Game-Changer for Men
• 25:30 - Steps to Attract a Healed Partner into Your Life
• 33:45 - The Power of Healing Together in a Relationship
• 38:00 - Final Thoughts: Creating a Thriving Relationship
• 41:30 - Join Be The Torch Academy: Unlock Your Full Potential

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, we dive deep into the art of communication—an essential skill for any entrepreneur, father, or leader. Join us as we explore the three core steps that can transform your business, relationships, and personal life. Learn how to communicate authentically, correct effectively, and shift behavior for better outcomes in every area of your life.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction: Why communication is vital for entrepreneurs and fathers.
• [02:15] The overlooked importance of investing in communication skills.
• [04:50] Personal story: How poor communication impacted my business and relationships.
• [07:30] The three core steps to mastering communication.
• [08:10] Step 1: Communicating authentically and vulnerably.
• [12:45] The impact of ego on authentic communication.
• [15:00] How authenticity invites openness in others.
• [18:20] Step 2: Being specific in communication and correction.
• [20:30] The dangers of vague praise like "good job."
• [22:50] How specific feedback improves behavior and results.
• [26:15] The impact of specific correction on leadership and parenting.
• [30:40] Step 3: The 5-to-1 ratio for improving behavior and performance.
• [34:10] Why saying "I'm proud of you" can be problematic.
• [37:00] How to praise without making it conditional.
• [40:20] Conclusion: Recap of the three steps and final thoughts.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it! Let's grow together and become better communicators in every aspect of our lives.

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey

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In this important episode, we address a segment of men who do not have much support, resources or community to help them grow and evolve. Single Fathers who own and run businesses.

We explore the unique challenges single fathers face and outline a roadmap to transform their lives.

This episode serves as a bridge, connecting practical strategies with the ultimate goal of achieving a fulfilling life. Join us as we dive deep into why single fathers need specialized support and how they can ignite their inner fire to become the torch in their own lives.

What are your biggest takeaways from this week’s episode? We want to hear from you! Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag @cletuscoffey

In this episode you'll gain clarity on:

• The Struggles of Single Fathers: Identifying the Gap
• Why Focus on Single Fathers?
• The Importance of a Playbook and Community
• Core Elements for Personal Growth
• Statistics on Mental Health and Stress in Single Fathers
• Three Core Strategies for Immediate Impact
• The Power of Self-Mastery
• Being a Torch: Attracting Like-Minded Individuals
• Revolutionizing Fatherhood and Business
• Aligning Life and Business
• Creating a Lifestyle First, then a business that fits in it. 
• Building a Community and Accountability for men like you. 

Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life?

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Learn to Master Your Morning!

Discover what one single dad, who owns a successful business, did to dedicate 2 hours each day to improve his mind, body and relationship with his kids, without missing one second of work.

Before you can master you life, you have to begin by learning how to master your morning.

Download the Master Your Morning Cheat Sheet Now!

If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources are for you:

1. The registration for the next Be The Torch Academy opens soon...so jump on the priority list to be the first notified when the doors open. JOIN NOW! https://www.bethetorch.com/academywaitlist

2. For more tips and training, subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thecletuscoffey

3. Follow Cletus on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey