Be Your Own Kind Podcast

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  • EP: 92: BYOK w/ Andre Quinn: Finding Purpose in Chaos

    In this episode of the BYOK Podcast, I sit down with my nephew, Andre Quinn, as he shares his powerful story of resilience, growth, and transformation.

    When I asked Andre what he wanted to talk about, he simply said, "I've been through it all and then some — and I'm ready to share my story." And he truly delivered.

    We dive into topics like the power of influence, working within systems to create real change, and his perspective on how Black people are portrayed in the media. Andre also shares his thoughts on quantum physics, black holes, emotional intelligence, and the disturbing news surrounding the 85,000 missing children — with Child Protective Services (CPS) now under pressure for answers.

    This conversation is filled with wisdom, real talk, and reflections that will leave you thinking long after the episode ends.

    🛎️ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations around healing, growth, and empowerment.

    Timestamps:
    Intro – 00:00–02:00
    Quantum Physics/Black Holes – 02:01–06:04
    Time is a Concept – 06:05–09:42
    Andre’s New Ambition – 09:43–14:01
    Be the Change – 14:02–21:03
    Putting Down the Phone – 21:04–24:14
    Internet Distractions – 24:15–26:13
    Is It Still About Race? – 26:14–28:23
    How Blacks Are Portrayed in Media – 28:24–32:20
    Detriment in Our Neighborhoods – 32:21–34:11
    Importance of Emotional Intelligence – 34:12–35:31
    Missing Children and CPS – 35:32–41:29
    Advice for Young Men – 41:30–44:06
    BYOK Signature Question – 44:07–44:54
    Contacting Andre – 44:55–45:15
    Outro – 45:16–48:35

    Connect with Andre Quinn:
    📧 Email: [email protected]


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    49 min
  • EP 91: BYOK w/ Ann Hince: Tapping into Peace

    Guest: Ann Hince
    Title: Inner Explorer, Author & Spiritual Teacher
    Role: Creator of the Method Behind Physical and Emotional Release through EFT

    Ann Hince is an inner explorer, author, public speaker, and spiritual teacher who has made incredible strides in both physical and emotional healing. Her journey includes releasing trauma through EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), which led to a physical transformation—including the shifting of her skull bones and a growth of ¾ of an inch. Through her book A Pathway to Insight: Re-capture your childhood buzz, Ann shares how deep inner work can lead to lasting peace, and she encourages others to begin their own journeys to healing.

    In this episode, I had the opportunity to speak with Ann about the powerful effects of letting go of negative energy through EFT, also known as tapping meditation. We explore how releasing trauma has not only emotional but also physical benefits. Ann also shares insights from her book A Pathway to Insight and details the pain and resilience behind her path to inner peace.

    Intro – 00:00:01–01:21
    Ann’s Story – 01:22–06:41
    What is EFT? – 06:42–13:48
    Emotions Affecting the Physical – 13:49–15:42
    After Effects of EFT – 15:43–16:27
    Forgiveness vs Forgetting – 16:28–19:18
    A Pathway to Insight – 19:19–22:44
    EFT Demonstration – 22:45–25:33
    Handling Distractions While Healing Trauma – 25:34–29:16
    Establishing Inner Peace – 29:17–31:31
    Advice for a Peace-Seeker – 31:32–32:57
    The Detriment of Holding On – 32:58–36:33
    BYOK Signature Question – 36:34–38:55
    Where to Contact Ann – 38:56–40:28
    Ann’s Final Words of Encouragement – 40:29–41:36
    Outro – 41:37–44:21

    🌐 Website: annhince.com
    📘 A Pathway to Insight: Re-capture your childhood buzz: https://a.co/d/2F1frX0
    📷 Instagram: @ann.hince
    📺 YouTube: @annhince

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    45 min
  • EP 90: BYOK w/ Rich Vysion: From Victim to Victor

    Guest: Rich Vysion

    Title: Conscious Rapper & Author

    Role: Creator of a Platform Bridging Music & Mental Health

    About the Guest:

    Rich Vysion, the conscious rap luminary born in the Bronx and now flourishing in Brooklyn, unveils his latest chapter as a published author—a testament to his unwavering triumph against all odds. His book, From Victim to Victor: Transforming Trauma into Triumph, chronicles his journey of overcoming mental health struggles and using art as a tool for healing. Known for his braggadocious lyricism and cinematically musical tracks—crafted from orchestral pieces, haunting piano motifs, and ominously entrancing basslines—Rich has created a platform that bridges the gap between music and mental health.

    Episode Highlights:

    In this episode, Rich Vysion opens up about his battle with depression, the importance of having a strong support system, and how he harnessed the power of art to aid in his healing journey. We explore cyberbullying, safe spaces for healing, and the role of music in emotional recovery. Rich also shares insights on how anyone can start their healing journey and gives us a glimpse into his future projects.

    Timestamps:

    Intro – 0:00-2:24

    Cyberbullying – 2:30-4:45

    From Victim to Victor – 4:46-13:03

    Safe Spaces – 13:04-14:59

    Importance of a Support System – 15:00-19:13

    Healing Music – 19:14-24:27

    Other Avenues for Healing – 24:28-34:08

    How Does One Start Their Healing Journey? – 34:09-39:05 Rich’s Future Projects – 39:06-45:05

    BYOK Signature Question – 45:06-48:20

    Outro – 48:21-50:09

    Connect with Rich Vysion:

    📖 Book: From Victim to Victor: Transforming Trauma into Triumph

    📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richvysion/

    🌐 Website: richvysion.com

    🎵 Music: https://www.youtube.com/@richvysion

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    51 min
  • EP 89: BYOK w/ Cristie Cerniglia: Change Your Mindset, Change Your Marriage

    Guest: Cristie Cerniglia

    Title: Relationship Coach
    Role: Founder of Relationships with a Map
    About the Guest:
    Cristie Cerniglia has been married for 30 years, is a proud mother of 4, and grandmother of 3. After experiencing her parents' divorce during her senior year of high school, Cristie became passionate about helping women build thriving relationships. Through her coaching, she empowers women to be "ridiculously happy" in their marriages and other important relationships. Her mission is to end world divorce and create stronger, healthier connections.
    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Cristie Cerniglia discusses the transformative power of mindset shifts and how they influence the way others respond to us. She offers three practical ways to revive your marriage, shares advice on navigating relationships, and dives into emerging relationship trends. Cristie also introduces the concept of transitioning into the Soft Girl Era, embracing femininity, and fostering deeper emotional connections in relationships.
    Timestamps:
    Intro – 0:00-0:51
    Navigating Relationships – 00:52-1:37
    Getting to Know Cristie – 1:38-11:08
    Reviving Your Marriage – 11:09-25:32
    New Look on Marriage – 25:33-30:56
    How to Transfer to the Soft Girl Era – 30:57-36:35
    Future Relationship Trends – 36:36-38:02
    Cristie’s Future Plans – 38:03-39:17
    BYOK Signature Question – 39:18-41:17
    Outro – 41:18-42:19
    Contact Information:
    Website: relationshipswithamap.com
    Instagram: @relationshipswithamap
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    43 min
  • EP 88: BYOK w/ Marcus Norman: Turning Setbacks Into Startups

    Guest: Marcus Norman

    Title: Serial Entrepreneur
    Role: CEO of a Real Estate Investment Firm, ATMs, Cannabis Dispensary, and Airbnb
    About the Guest:
    Marcus Norman is a dynamic entrepreneur from St. Croix, a small Caribbean island, and a former U.S. Navy serviceman with 8 years of service. He has built a diverse business portfolio including real estate investments, ATMs, cannabis dispensaries, and Airbnb properties. His journey from military life to entrepreneurship is a testament to his resilience, strategic thinking, and passion for giving back. Marcus is also the host of the Gentlemen Style Podcast, where he shares insights on business, relationships, and purpose.
    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Marcus Norman shares his journey from military service to becoming a multi-business owner. He discusses the importance of pivoting during challenging times, the value of relationships in entrepreneurship, defining purpose, and the need for giving back to the community. Marcus also delves into his personal experiences with dating as an entrepreneur and offers his unique perspective on “ghosting” and loneliness.
    Timestamps:
    Intro: 0:00-03:24
    Branching from MLM: 03:25-07:09
    COVID Transferred Hobbies to Businesses: 07:10-09:42
    Old Corporate Mind: 09:44-14:30
    Marcus’ Investing Journey: 14:31-21:58
    ATM Business Insights: 21:59-31:41
    Navigating Dating as an Entrepreneur: 31:42-36:33
    Definition of “Ghosting”: 36:34-44:22
    Avoiding Loneliness: 44:23-47:14
    Gentlemen Style Podcast Overview: 47:15-52:17
    What’s Next for Marcus: 52:18-55:27
    BYOK Signature Question: 55:28-57:57
    Contacting Marcus: 57:58-58:48
    Outro: 58:49-59:51
    Marcus Contact Information:

    Website: gentlemanstylepodcast.com
    Instagram: @gentlemanstylepodcast
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    1 hr
  • EP 87: BYOK w/Kristal DeSantis: Dating in the Digital World

    Guest: Kristal DeSantis

    Title: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
    Role: Author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man
    About the Guest:
    Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, celebrated for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy. Her book, STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, provides practical insights and guidance for navigating contemporary relationships. Through her work, Kristal emphasizes the significance of understanding modern dating dynamics and promotes the empowerment of men in developing meaningful connections.
    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Kristal DeSantis dives deep into the complexities of dating in today’s world, the motivation behind her book, and why men need practical relationship guidance. She provides valuable dating advice and shares strategies for maintaining intimacy and safety in relationships, along with key advice for marriages. The conversation also touches on the importance of navigating the digital dating landscape and the balance between love and family values.
    Timestamps:
    Intro: 0:00-01:32
    Kristal's Book Motivation: 01:33-07:19
    Men Are Not Mind Readers: 07:20-08:58
    Biggest Challenges in Modern Dating: 08:59-14:43
    Navigating Dating in a Digital Age: 14:44-16:43
    Is It Love Over Family Values?: 16:44-18:49
    Maintaining Intimacy in a Relationship: 18:50-24:03
    Creating Safety in a Relationship: 24:04-26:53
    Kristal's Future Plans: 26:54-28:32
    Kristal's Advice for Marriages: 28:33-31:52
    BYOK Signature Question: 31:53-32:26
    Contacting Kristal: 32:27-32:49
    Outro: 32:50-34:14
    Contact Information:
    Website: strong.love
    Instagram: @atxtherapist
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    35 min
  • EP 86: BYOK w/ Natalie Bedard: Finding Safety in Self-Discovery

    Guest: Natalie Bedard (NatNat)

    Title: Energy Healing Specialist
    Role: Founder of Lift OneSelf, Host of Lift Oneself Podcast
    About the Guest:
    NatNat, also known as Natalie Bedard, is an Energy Healing Specialist dedicated to guiding others on their path to emotional well-being and self-discovery. As the founder of Lift OneSelf and host of the Lift Oneself podcast, NatNat has been transforming lives since 2019 by offering tools to regulate the nervous system, relieve emotional pain, and turn anxiety into empowerment. Her trauma-informed approach encourages individuals to embrace their fullest potential through small, actionable steps.
    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, NatNat shares her insights on the importance of safety, meditation, and the power of acknowledging and basking in your feelings. She discusses her journey in energy healing, the concept of creating safe spaces, and the impact of understanding and embracing one's emotions.
    Timestamps:
    00:00-09:20 – Understanding Energy
    09:21-14:01 – Protecting Energy
    14:02-19:27 – Origin of People Pleasing
    19:28-20:25 – Separation from Intuition
    20:26-26:18 – Conquering People Pleasing
    26:19-29:19 – What is LiftOneSelf?
    29:20-32:32 – Definition of a Safe Space
    32:33-34:56 – Processing Your Sh*t
    34:57-39:28 – Escaping Judgment
    39:29-43:56 – Approaching Inner Child
    43:57-49:13 – Feeling Authentic Emotions
    49:14-52:22 – Purpose of Meditation
    52:23-55:06 – Healing Requires Play
    55:07-1:00:21 – Natalie's Meditation Origin
    1:00:22-1:04:29 – Shifting Perspectives
    1:04:30-1:06:31 – Life is Not Linear
    1:06:32-1:07:07 – Uncomfortableness of People Pleasing
    1:07:08-1:09:23 – Contacting Natalie
    1:10:23-1:11:41 – BYOK Signature Question
    1:11:42-1:12:54 – Getting Rid of the "All or Nothing" Mindset
    1:12:45-1:15:13 – Outro
    Contact Information:
    Website: liftoneself.com
    Instagram: @Liftoneself
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    1 hr 16 min
  • EP 85: BYOK w/ Nina Manolson: Ending the Body War

    Guest: Nina Manolson

    Title: Body-Peace® Coach
    Role: Therapist, Body-Trust® Guide, Psychology of Eating Teacher
    About the Guest:
    Nina Manolson is a Body-Peace® coach dedicated to helping women end the struggle with food and body image. With over 30 years of experience, she supports women in feeling at home in their bodies and advocates for a deeply feminist, anti-diet approach to body peace. Her work empowers women to create a trusting and respectful relationship with their bodies and food.
    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Nina Manolson shares how her journey led her to the concept of "Body Peace." We discuss the impact of societal standards on body image, the limitations of the body positivity movement, and the importance of self-acceptance. Nina offers insights into navigating past traumas, holiday eating, and how her Body-Peace App can help women embrace their bodies as they are.
    Timestamps:
    00:00 – Intro
    02:24 – Relationship with the Body
    06:17 – Affects of Body Positivity Movement
    09:14 – What is Body-Peace?
    15:00 – Fighting the Body War
    18:28 – Body Peace App
    22:40 – Tapping into All of Us
    28:48 – Holiday Eating
    35:46 – Nina's Personal Story
    41:57 – Creating a New Perspective
    43:03 – Navigating through Past Traumas
    44:16 – Walking into the Body Peace Path
    46:43 – Contacting Nina
    48:43 – BYOK Signature Question
    49:25 – Outro
    Contact Information:
    Website: ninamanolson.com
    Instagram: @ninamanolson

    Follow Nina to learn more about her Body-Peace® approach and gain valuable insights into developing a positive relationship with your body.
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    52 min
  • EP 84: BYOK w/ Keila Strong: Brushstrokes of Black Tradition

    Guest: Keila Strong
    Title: Visual Artist
    Role: Painter and Mosaic Artist

    About the Guest:
    Keila Strong is a visual artist from Chicago, IL, who tells beautiful stories through her paintings and unconventional mosaics. Her work celebrates the stories and traditions of Black culture, drawing inspiration from the fashion and cosmetology industries. Keila's art is known for being innovative, jubilant, and hopeful, portraying the vibrancy and richness of Black experiences.

    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Keila Strong shares how she found her artistic voice and the journey that shaped her unique perspective. We explore the significance of Black hair in her artwork, including how she uses hair as a medium to reflect identity and culture. Keila also discusses the importance of having a strong support system in her career, emerging art trends related to Black hair, and her future plans in the art world.

    Timestamps:
    00:00 – Intro
    02:19 – Documenting the Good Ole Days
    04:43 – Keila’s Artistic Journey
    08:43 – Renita’s Fixation on Bubble, Bubble Gum Artwork
    10:58 – The Importance of Support
    12:40 – Keila’s Muses
    14:41 – Influences of Black Hair
    19:05 – Hair as a Sense of Identity for Black Women
    24:29 – Emerging Art Trends
    26:08 – Future Plans
    28:46 – Keila’s Contact Information
    30:16 – Outro

    Contact Information:
    Instagram: @keilastrongart
    Website: www.keilastrongart.com (adjust if needed)
    Email: [email protected]

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    32 min
  • EP 83: BYOK w/ Jeff Patterson: The Art of Yielding

    Guest: Jeff Patterson
    Title: Founder of Northwest Fighting Arts, Portland Tai Chi Academy, and The Yielding Warrior
    Role: Meditation and Martial Arts Expert

    About the Guest:
    Jeff Patterson, based in Portland, OR, has over 36 years of experience practicing and teaching meditative and martial arts. As the founder of Northwest Fighting Arts, Portland Tai Chi Academy, and The Yielding Warrior, Jeff emphasizes the transformative power of meditation and martial arts practices, with a focus on the concept of yielding. His work centers on helping individuals master mindfulness, balance, and energy regulation through his signature Yielding Warrior program.

    Episode Highlights:
    In this episode, Jeff Patterson discusses the profound importance of yielding in all aspects of life—body, mind, emotions, breath, and spirit. He introduces the five pillars of meditative practice and explains the concept of understanding the language of energy. Jeff also touches on the necessity of having a meditation guide, the misconceptions about meditation, and the dangers of relying too much on meditation apps.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:00 - Intro
    • 02:00 - Jeff’s Transition to Meditation
    • 05:04 - Five Pillars of Meditation
    • 08:07 - Yielding Warrior Program
    • 11:23 - Importance of a Meditation Guide
    • 13:04 - Meditation Doesn’t Eliminate Distractions
    • 15:08 - Five Regulations in a Meditative Practice: Body Regulation
    • 16:47 - Regulating the Breath
    • 19:07 - Regulating the Mind
    • 21:00 - Regulating Energy
    • 27:37 - Regulating the Spirit
    • 28:59 - The Caution of Meditation Apps
    • 31:15 - Yielding Warrior Book
    • 33:18 - Mental Yielding
    • 34:15 - Emotional Yielding
    • 36:15 - The Language of Energy
    • 36:55 - Connecting with Jeff
    • 38:02 - BYOK Signature Question
    • 38:42 - Outro
    • Contact Information:

      Contact Information:
      Website: www.theyieldingwarrior.com
      Instagram: @theyieldingwarrior

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