This moment is as it should be because the whole universe is as it should be

You need to accept things as they are, not as you wish they were in this moment 

You can wish for things in the future to be different, but in this moment you have to accept things as they are 

When we wish things to be different, we waste our energy and effort. The past is history, and thinking something else would happen differently is nonsense. Accept it!

Things don’t always go as planned in life, and they certainly don’t always go the way we want them to. But, no matter how bad a situation is, it’s critical to be proactive and face the problem head-on.

Don’t wait until the last minute to handle the problem. At some point you will lose all energy and enthusiasm for life. You will lose hope and give up. Don’t think your passion will stay the same over years. You will change and same with your passion.

It doesn’t matter how many setbacks you come across, it’s the comeback that makes your story stand the test of time. So, be the comebacks. Defy odds.

The world doesn’t really damn care about you. They have no problem seeing you fail. But don’t give in, don’t give them a chance to see you fail. You can fall as many times as you want, but stand up and do it again. 

People won’t hear or really show empathy to you until you succeed. You don’t have any other options besides SUCCESS.! Success is vital. You don’t have an option to give up. You already pay a high price, you must keep going. Stand up and take action until you succeed. Every time you feel like you have a thousand mile to go, just remember that one success will make everything all worth it in the end.

Almost everything is outside of your control. You may take all the right action and fail. You may take no action and win. All you can do is put yourself in positions to win. Be consistent. Patience will eventually get luck on your side. 

The reality is you have to put in a lot more effort than anyone else and there is no guarantee that you will succeed. This is not to discourage you, but to accept and motivate yourself to work even harder. Because of these hard things, you will find a true meaning. 

Life is not fair and it is not expected to be fair. However, it is very worthy to live if you are not willing to surrender to its reality and do whatever it takes to go

You don’t need to take a big action every time in order to change your life. Sometimes, life changing opportunities come in small ways, in a little moment. It’s important to value every little opportunity and take action when it arises. 

You can’t move the mountain in one day, but your daily action can make a difference for tomorrow and for the next few years. 

Stop making excuses and value and take action every little opportunity that comes your way. Your next day will need your action today!

One of the biggest regrets of the dying is they wish they hadn’t worked so hard. Yes your job is important, but so are other things like your relationships. 

Nobody really cares about what you accomplish or how much you make at your job when you are lying on your deathbed. What you only remember is memories that you create with people that you love and care for. 

Work hard on your job, work harder on your dreams and relationships.

We often only say “YES” to opportunities when we know for certain that something will happen. We seek that “Guarantee”. However, the only certainty in life is the UNCERTAINTY. By only taking action when something is certain, we miss out on many opportunities that could change our lives. 

 

So start saying “YES” to opportunities. Not for others, but for giving yourself a chance!

Human being wants to believe in something tomorrow, and a dream gives us HOPE.

Whether you reach your dreams or not, IT DOESN’T MATTER.

Because of a dream, it gives you strength, hope, energy, love for life and strives to become better each day. A dream will give you FAITH to see what is impossible becomes possible.

The only way that gets you a result is ACTION. Don’t fall into a trap of keeping learning without taking consistent action. We often think that learning is equal to making progress. But it is an illusion! Your mind is changed, but your life won’t change until you show up!

Showing up may not get you what you want, but I can guarantee that you will NEVER get what you want if you don’t show up! 

Showing up is fundamental to everything. It is very simple, but often skipped by many people. In order to master anything else, you must master the art of showing up!

The most effective way to overcome self doubt is to gain confidence. And the only way to gain confidence is to take action consistently.

How to overcome it? 

Embrace it. Stop resisting to it 

Remove expectation and accept imperfection 

Take new massive action to build a new belief 

Focus on learning

 

Make decisions based on what you believe, even if it’s wrong. Because you will discover that mistakes won’t really kill you and it’s not as scary as you think it is. The fact is no one wins 100% of the time, even 80%. You will make some right decisions and some wrong. After all, you will build trust with yourself. 

In your self development journey, self doubt is inevitable. Instead of looking at it as a bad thing, I challenge you to change that mindset to see it as a friend telling you that what you want is on the other side and you just have to take action to get there.