Navigating Divorce While Parenting: How to Put Your Kids FirstSeth and Pete sit down with Heather Brooke Quick, the founder and CEO of Florida Women's Law Group, to discuss how to become a better, stronger parent during and after divorce. Heather shares her expertise on helping clients navigate co-parenting challenges and putting their children's needs first.Seth, Pete, and Heather dive into the importance of focusing on the big picture and remembering that co-parenting is a lifelong commitment. They discuss strategies for keeping animosity in check, even when dealing with contentious issues like finances. Heather emphasizes the value of taking the high road and modeling positive behavior for your children.Questions we answer in this episode:

• How can I shield my kids from the negative aspects of divorce?
• What's the best way to communicate with my ex about parenting issues?
• How much should I share with my kids about the divorce process?

Key Takeaways:

• Always prioritize your children's well-being over conflicts with your ex
• Be mindful of your reactions and behavior, as your children will learn from your example
• Consider therapy or counseling to help your children process their emotions during divorce

The conversation also touches on the importance balance of maintaining transparency with your children about age-appropriate aspects of the divorce, such as changes in finances or living arrangements. Seth, Pete, and Heather offer guidance on how to have these conversations without putting your children in the middle of adult issues.This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of parenting during and after divorce. With Heather's expertise and Seth and Pete's relatable insights, you'll gain valuable tools for putting your children first and building a strong foundation for your post-divorce family.Plus, we tackle a listener question – with Heather! – about when to file for divorce when pregnant.Links & Notes

• Find Heather on the web, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube
• Tune in to Heather’s podcast Women Winning Divorce
• Schedule a consult with Seth
• Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!

• (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
• (00:26) - Meet Heather Quick
• (01:28) - Becoming a Better Parent During Divorce
• (02:00) - Your Role in the Discussion
• (04:40) - Reminding People to Love Their Kids
• (07:29) - Men vs. Women in Divorce
• (10:05) - Financial Conversations
• (12:39) - Divorce Transparency?
• (16:52) - The Line of Role Modelling
• (17:46) - Sunshine Law
• (18:40) - Resources for Kids
• (21:32) - Parenting During Parallel Parenting
• (24:15) - Behavior as Divorcing People
• (26:26) - End Result
• (30:11) - It's Not Their Fault
• (31:55) - Knowing When to Step Back
• (33:19) - Finding Heather
• (34:43) - Listener Question
• (39:21) - Wrap Up