Becoming Porn Free with Hunter Clark

In today’s episode, we’re diving into 3 simple yet game-changing hacks that have genuinely transformed my life. This isn’t the usual fluff or gimmicks you hear about, these are real, practical strategies you can start applying today. No bs, just stuff that actually works.

In today’s episode, we answered questions from our Instagram, and wow—we got some really interesting ones!

We talked about things like:

• What do we think about a spouse masturbating?
• How can you support a spouse who watches porn?
• Is there such a thing as ethical porn?
• What to do when you are bored of sex with your partner? 
• How do we feel about posting pictures of our daughter online, especially when we’re talking about something as sensitive as pornography?

We’re not experts—just sharing from our own experience. But this was a really fun episode to record, and we loved getting to talk about these big topics!

In this episode, we dive into how pregnancy transformed Sarah’s mental health, our intimacy, and my entire perspective on attraction. We talk about how sex changed during and after pregnancy, whether masturbation is okay when intimacy slows down, and the advice we wish we had before this journey. It’s raw, real, and the conversation no one prepares you for.

In this episode, we dive into The Drop, Breath Method—the most effective, research-backed way to quit any unwanted habit, whether it’s porn, overeating, or anything else that feels out of control. I break down exactly how it works, why it’s different from willpower-based approaches, and how it rewires your brain to make quitting feel much easier. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of trying and failing, this episode will change everything for you.

n this episode, we talk about how true freedom comes from being able to say both yes and no to whatever habit you want to quit. That’s right—fully allowing yourself can actually help you stop. I also share how I couldn’t quit porn for my wife or the church—it had to be for me. And once I made that shift, everything got so much easier. We also dive into the real benefits I’ve seen since quitting—like a confidence boost, more energy and motivation, and greater satisfaction in my marriage and sex life. 

In this episode, we explore the topic of attraction and how acknowledging it has actually brought us closer, making us even more drawn to each other. We also tackle the dreaded "D-word"... divorce. While Sarah and I are in a great place in our marriage, discussing divorce actually strengthened our relationship. It shifted our mindset from feeling obligated to stay together to consciously choosing each other every day.

This episode is a game-changer. We dive into three eye-opening studies that could completely change the way you think about porn recovery—not just for yourself, but for future generations too. It’s not about white-knuckling your way through with suppression, avoidance, or sheer discipline anymore. We break down why that old model fails and explore how a more mindful, accepting approach can actually set you free. If you’re ready to stop fighting against yourself and start building real freedom, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

In this episode, we talk about the wild back-and-forth of the TikTok ban and how it's back on now. We also dive into why banning porn sites or OnlyFans would never really work. Instead, we explain why the real work should focus on the demand—helping people change what they want, not just blocking the supply. Plus, we share how meditation has played a big role in both of our journeys and how it’s helped us grow. It’s a fun and honest conversation. 

Today, we’re talking about how Utah and several other states have effectively shut down one of the largest porn sites on the internet.... or... was it Pornhub that left Utah? 

We dive into the details, breaking down the pros and cons of this decision. While it might sound like a win at first, we talk about why it might not be as beneficial as you think. 

In this episode, my wife and I talk about how we handle feeling attracted to other people while being married. Nobody ever told us this was something we’d deal with, we thought once we got married, those feelings would just go away. Guess what... they didn’t.

After lots of trying and learning, we found a way to make it work—and even have fun with it. The big secret? Learning to feel confident in ourselves and not trying to control each other.

We’re also watching Love Island Australia right now, and we joke about our “TV crushes” 

If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with stuff like this in marriage without it being weird or stressful, this episode is for you! 

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