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Becoming Regulated
By Tunisha Renee | Fierce Without the Fiery BehaviorSociety & CultureRelationshipsParentingKids & Family
Becoming Regulated episodes
- These 5 “Helpful” Parenting Habits Are Backfiring
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode covers a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Today, we're talking about the hidden parenting patterns that create dependency, resentment, overwhelm, and tension in the relationship with your teen.
A lot of what moms do in the name of love and support is actually backfiring without us realizing it.
In this episode, I break down the 5 Dependency & Resentment Makers (D&R Makers), how they show up in everyday motherhood, and why these patterns create frustration, emotional overload, and disconnection for both moms and teens.
Links
Want the 8 connection killers that are unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.comWant a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/resetHate the way motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply19 min - Why Motherhood Still Feels Hard (No Matter What You Try)
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
If you've ever asked yourself, "Why does motherhood still feel so hard no matter what I do?" This episode will show you why everything you've tried has only made you feel better temporarily — and what it actually takes to make it feel better for good.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
18 min - Christian Mom says, "My son doesn't believe in God."
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Today, we're gonna talk about navigating life with a teen who doesn't believe in God and doesn't want to go to church. There's only one way to handle this that matches what Jesus modeled.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
16 min - How to Get Your Teen to Open Up (Without Forcing It)
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Today, we're gonna talk about what’s actually happening when teens shut down — and why forcing connection almost always pushes them further away.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
15 min - Your Kid IS Learning From You–Just Not What You Think
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Today, we're gonna talk about parenting as a journey of shaping the heart with patience, self-control, and emotional ownership.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
16 min - I Almost Crushed My Son's Spirit Forever
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
4 min - We're Going in a New Direction
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
6 min - How to Study the Bible as a Beginner
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
12 min - "You Can't Pour From an Empty Cup" is a Lie
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Links
Want to know how you could be unintentionally pushing your teen away?
https://tunisharenee.com
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
12 min - How to Be a Soft Mom (Without Losing Your Authority)
Welcome to Feminine AF. Each episode will cover a new topic within the world of Christian motherhood–intentionally developing ourselves into the stewards of our teenage children that God has called us to be. We focus on restoring our joy in motherhood, increasing closeness with our kids, and bringing more peace into our lives.
Links
Want to participate in Feminine AF Bible study?
https://tunisharenee.com/biblestudy
Want to get more fulfillment out of motherhood–but not sure where to start?
https://tunisharenee.com/blindspots
Hate the way Motherhood feels and ready to work with me?
https://tunisharenee.com/apply
Want a better relationship with your teen in 12 weeks?
https://tunisharenee.com/reset
14 min
About Becoming Regulated
From the publisher's feed
Becoming Regulated is a podcast for moms who know a lot about what they should do, how they should respond, and who they want to be but are discovering that knowing and becoming are two very…
different things.
Because regulation is about so much more than staying calm.
It’s about noticing yourself. Questioning what’s driving you. Owning what needs to be owned. Catching the old beliefs and patterns that keep showing up in your parenting, relationships, work, faith, and everyday life—and deciding who you want to be when they do.
I’m Tunisha, and these episodes are honest conversations about what I’m noticing, learning, unlearning, getting right, getting wrong, and seeing differently as I practice becoming the woman I say I want to be.
We’ll talk about identity, relationships, regulation, motherhood, disappointment, growth, and all the uncomfortable places where what you believe about yourself meets how you actually live.
There’s no finish line here.
Just the ongoing work of paying attention to who you’re becoming.
This is real life, everyday regulation.
Do your becoming with the support of community in The Regulated Mama Membership: https://tunisharenee.com/membership
Apply for 1 on 1 coaching: https://tunisharenee.com/apply