Better Divorce Podcast

Dr. Holly helps sincere, kindhearted, conscious single clients find the love of their dreams.  

With a doctorate in clinical psychology and a successful career in executive search, she is uniquely qualified to find your perfect match.  She founded Find Love At Last in 2014 to help sincere women and men find lasting love and has been a matchmaker, coach, and image consultant for over 8 years. Working with sincere, commitment-minded single men and women who are ready for love, she introduces you to high-caliber matches to create the love you desire.  

Dr. Holly is a dating expert and inspiring speaker who empowers, advises, and speaks on image, strategy, online dating, partner suitability, communication, and commitment.  Her office is in San Francisco, California.  Additionally, she brings more than 15 years of rich personal dating experience before finding the wonderful man with whom she is happily committed.  She created this boutique love life agency to expedite your path to love.

Cultivating love one client at a time is her passion and she would love for you to be her next success story!                                 

So let's get started.  Haven't you waited long enough?

Paulette’s personal 8.5 years litigated and appellant experience and expertise make her strive to create clear efficient direction, move resiliently through extreme stress, and save precious time and money to create a satisfying solution and find purpose, means, pleasure and freedom.

As Founder of Better Divorce Academy, she breaks down divorce from the earliest stages of contemplation to the necessary final steps of healing using practical tools, inspiration, and a proven mediation/negotiation model.

Her specialty is working with high-achieving professional and entrepreneurial women in high-conflict narcissistic abuse divorce cases. Her community saves time, money, heartache and is changing the landscape and outcome of the divorce journey for every family member, particularly the children.

Paulette is an E-RYT 500, Sacred Space Yoga School RYS teacher trainer, a certified birth doula, a coach, and a personal guide and facilitator in The Four Desires. She has additional training and experience in Pilates, Reiki, Thai bodywork, macrobiotic cooking, and counseling through The Kushi Institute.

Drawing on her thirty-five years of experience, Paulette is a pioneer in the world of wellness and transformation and brings strength and breadth to her ability to help her clients heal.

She’s an ex-Bostonian, ex-pat Belizean who now loves living in Atlanta. She is an avid traveler, obsessed plant-based foodie, passionate minimalist, wife to her remarkable husband Steven, and mom to 5 amazing kids, and the sweetest Chiweenie, Lulu. She loves Sade, Plant Based Cuisine, Sushi, SUP, Aerial yoga, and The band: America.

Paulette Rigo CDC, CDS

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About Jill:

Jill Barnett Kaufman, LCSW, is a Licensed Therapist, Divorce Coach, Author & Co-parenting Expert. After going through her own difficult divorce, she made it her life’s mission to help others not have it so tough. Her book and online course, I’m Getting Divorced, Now What? and her transformative coaching program, Thriving Through Divorce, help parents navigate the overwhelming process of divorce with less stress, more confidence and a greater sense of peace. She’s recently married and the mother of 3 adult children and 3 adult step children.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Challenges

02:57 The Shift from Parenting to Co-Parenting

06:01 Understanding the Impact of Divorce on Children

09:03 Effective Communication Strategies for Co-Parents

11:54 Navigating Parenting Plans and Schedules

15:06 Starting Divorce on the Right Foot

17:56 Avoiding Common Divorce Mistakes

20:49 Managing Emotions During Co-Parenting

23:57 Utilizing Technology for Co-Parenting

26:54 Final Thoughts on Co-Parenting Success

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About Nikki:

Nikki Tucker, a Speaker and founder of The FIIRM Approach, is known as a problem solver since her experience and her time involves helping female breadwinners strategically exiting their marriage and work on their new financial life post-divorce, as a Personal Financial Strategist.

As a 20+ year financial professional, she firmly believes that all women deserve financial security and she enjoys teaching new ideas about money, and reinforcing sound ones. Nikki finds joy in connecting her clients to great resources to help them gain clarity, confidence and control of their finances through live workshops and digital resources.

When she is not working with clients, she is eating amazing food and drinking an oat milk latte or a French 75. Her friends and those close to her describe her as reliable, honest and resourceful which comes in handy when she's working with women going through major transitions like divorce

Separation & Divorce:

Surviving divorce and starting over for women.

How to avoid common financial mistakes when divorcing your husband.

You don’t have to be wealthy to build a divorce support team.

How to ensure you get the support you need as you prepare for divorce.

How to be confident in your financial decisions during and after your divorce.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Divorce and Financial Planning

02:45 Nikki's Journey: From Finance to Divorce Support

10:50 Understanding the Costs of Divorce

18:20 Funding Your Divorce: Options and Strategies

26:14 The Importance of Financial Literacy in Marriage

32:44 Conclusion and Resources for Support

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Meet Donna Shin: a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and holistic wellness coach specializing in helping women recover from grief, trauma, and loss caused by narcissistic emotional abuse.

Join Paulette and Donna for this deep dive into Narcissistic Marriage awareness, survival and recovery. Donna has been there and knows her stuff. She can help and her story will shine the light for so many.

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Amy Sanders is a mother of 7 kids, a master-certified mindset and a life coach.

For more than two decades she has taught and inspired thousands of women through weight loss, mindset, relationships and business.

Amy works with women to uncover their purpose by exposing their strengths and slaying their demons that hold them back in life.

This includes helping women heal from divorce, abuse, and other life-altering circumstances that cause trauma and keep them from reaching their true potential.

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About Sydney:

Sydney Ryker is an entrepreneur, business owner, and transformational speaker who started her journey eight years ago sleeping on a mattress on the floor. She has driven a health company with over 7,000 active customers and multiple 8-figure global sales organizations, speaking on dozens of stages worldwide. Sydney empowers individuals through her "Identity Deconstruction" method, guiding them to shed societal conditioning and rediscover their true selves. With the support of ancient spiritual practices and her mentor, Mitch, she helps people find peace and fulfillment within their authentic selves without needing anything outside of themselves.

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Perhaps you are stuck in the cycle of not being able to get over your difficult divorce from a Narcissist Ex? 

Meet Tracy Malone!

She has been abused her whole life but only learned a short time ago her mother, her sisters, her x-husband, his crazy family and ultimately a boyfriend of 2.5 years that caused this transition in her life with his horrific discard.

After a narcissist, education is the medicine of recovery. 

To get Tracy's BOOK order here. Her book is brilliant! It is required reading for all Better Divorce Academy clients. 

⁠NarcissistAbuseSupport.com⁠

⁠TracyAMalone.com⁠

⁠TargetedHealingJournals.com⁠

https://www.amazon.com/Divorcing-Your-Narcissist-Cant-Make/dp/173650780X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1636575558&sr=1-3

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Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt Biography

An attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach, Lora Cheadle helps women overcome the devastation of betrayal and confidently engage in life again. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, she uses her experience to help others reclaim their identity, self-worth, agency, and enthusiasm for life after betrayal, whether that betrayal is from their body, life, or someone that they love.

Lora is the creator of the Life Choreography® betrayal-recovery process and leads both FLAUNT! and Step into Your Moxie® workshops and training that help participants reclaim their identity, own their worth, and speak up for what they want.

She is the author of the bestselling book, "FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy and Spiritual Self" and has written for Elephant Journal, Om Yoga Journal, Yoga Magazine, Thrive Global, Aspire Magazine, and The Girlfriend.

Named an Exceptional Woman of Excellence by the Women Economic Forum in India in 2019, she was the plenary speaker on "Reclaiming Voice With Validation" as well as a breakout workshop leader and presenter. She has spoken at DisruptHR, for Alexia Vernon Empowerment, SecondAct Woman, American Association of Healers, Optimist and Rotary International. She is the host of the top-rated radio show and podcast, “FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle and Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.”

Download “The Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide” at ⁠www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com

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Jaimie Sherling is a joy seeker, drag ambassador, and the founder/designer of YDY, Sweets—a clothing line created for her sister breast cancer survivors. She lives in Wisconsin with her two kids. When she’s not working at her day job or trying on piles of clothes at thrift stores, you can find her screaming YAASSSS surrounded by a bunch of queens.

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and you must get her book~ From Queens to Queens! 

Reach for your tissues and prepare to belly laugh as Jaimie Sherling takes you on her wild adventure through breast cancer and divorce, love and triumph, dancing and falling, in her breakout memoir, From Queens to Queens: How the Madison Drag community saved my life. Meet the Queens who helped her keep it all together from the dark days to the sunshine.

"Life is a roller coaster. The highs don't last forever, and you can't escape the lows. That's why it's important to learn to embrace the ride. Things will bottom out when you least expect it. Celebrate the heck out of the ups and lean on those who love you during the downs. You know-the people who hold your hair back when you puke." - Jaimie Sherling

Buckle up, stock up on some chocolate, pour yourself a drink, as you dive into her story. If she didn't get thrown off the coaster, there's hope for all of us.

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Join Paulette and AJ as they share their tips on how to have a better divorce experience!! 

A.J. Grossman graduated from San Jose State University with a degree in business administration and at the top of his Florida law school class. He immediately went on to achieve his Master of Laws degree in Dispute Resolution from The Straus Institute at Pepperdine University Law School in California, which is the #1 ranked Dispute Resolution program in the country.

As the son of a Navy Officer and the founder of several businesses, he learned quickly about service to others. A.J.’s goal is to help people solve problems, plain and simple. Being in the right place, doing the right thing, at the right time, for a person (or couple of people) in need, drives A.J. to continue growing his legal practice. He focuses his efforts on providing solutions that protect the interests of those who seek amicable resolutions in their lives.

Protecting your rights and providing solid legal counsel through one of life’s most difficult and stressful situations.

You can find AJ here: https://www.leapfrogdivorce.com/

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