You can know every detail of a case - the when, what and who - but if you miss out the why, you’re playing a losing game. In this episode of Between the Briefs by Steno, hosts Joe Stephens and Adrian Cea welcome Kaelyn Gustafson, Litigation Associate at Friedman, Kaplan, Seiler, Adleman and Robbins, to explore how genuine human connection, strategic preparation, and technological literacy are reshaping modern legal practice.
What You’ll Learn:- How service industry experience builds the foundational empathy lawyers need to understand client motivation and case strategy
- Why authenticity is the primary credibility meter in litigation
- The critical difference between understanding the "what" and the "why" in case strategy
- How to leverage closed-loop AI systems strategically while protecting client privilege and sensitive information
- The necessity of transparent client communication about AI use in legal services
- How judges evaluate counsel credibility through written work product and courtroom behavior
This episode serves as a reminder that authenticity, even in the age of AI, is every lawyer’s biggest winning bet.
Highlights:
00:00 Introduction & Meeting Kaelyn Gustafson 02:22 From Waiter to Complex Litigation: An Unconventional Path07:26 Building Empathy and Credibility Through Hospitality Experience09:10 Kaelyn’s Aha Moment & Overcoming Impostor Syndrome 16:20 Where Authenticity and Strategy Converge in Legal Practice18:43 Understanding Client Motivation: The Irreplaceable "Why" in Litigation23:25 Using AI as a Tool for Access to Justice27:23 Being Human Beats AI: Storytelling in the Courtroom 28:17 Kaelyn’s Lessons from Clerkship 30:35 Life Without AI: Written Advocacy and Courtroom Credibility 35:03 Navigating the Modern Litigator Life 41:12 Kaelyn’s Hot Take: Empathy is Every Lawyer’s Biggest Advantage 41:57 Key Takeaways & Final Thoughts
Quotes:
1. "I think everyone should work in the service industry at one point in their lives because that is what shaped me as an empathetic person, but also as someone who can manage a myriad of personalities."
2. "If you don't know the why for what people are pursuing a case for or what you know, on the opposite side, like, the why of an individual's actions that may have led to a lawsuit, then you're not gonna get it right."
3. “Authenticity, I think, is the number one credibility meter, and credibility, by the way, is most of a trial court's determination."
4. "The lawyers still standing at the end of this AI revolution are the ones with empathy and who understand the client's problem, and that can only be done with a human connection."Between The Briefs is handcrafted by our friends over at: fame.so