Beyond the Letter

What do you do when your spouse is going through something heavy—and you're not sure how to help? In this heartfelt episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of showing up with empathy and patience when your partner is facing grief, anxiety, or health struggles. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, this conversation is a reminder that marriage isn’t about

convenience—it’s about commitment, especially when things get hard.Whether you're walking through a tough season or preparing for one, this episode will challenge you to think long-term, love sacrificially, and stay grounded in grace. Because real support isn’t about fixing—it’s about being present, and trusting God to work in the middle of the mess.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Sometimes we chase a promise so hard, we end up building something God never asked for. In this episode, the guys dive into the tension between trusting God’s timing and taking matters into our own hands. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar as a reference point, they explore what it means to accidentally “birth an Ishmael”—a version of purpose that we have to sustain ourselves—when God is calling us to wait for His “Isaac.”It’s a conversation about patience, obedience, and surrender—especially for anyone navigating calling, relationships, or big life decisions. If you’ve ever been tempted to rush the process, this episode will challenge you to pause, seek clarity, and trust that what’s truly from God won’t need to be forced.--Connect with:Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Jeff Osborne https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Control might feel like safety—but in marriage, it can become a silent wedge. In this heart-check of an episode, Adam and Ashlee dive into what it means to truly trust God in your relationship. Whether it’s trying to force outcomes, micromanaging your spouse, or holding onto fear disguised as “leadership,” they unpack how surrendering control creates space for both people to thrive spiritually and emotionally.Grounded in faith and full of practical insight, this conversation challenges couples to examine their dynamic and re-center on grace, trust, and God’s guidance. If you’re ready to release the pressure of perfection and walk in peace together, this episode is your sign.

--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

--Connect with Andy Lopezhttps://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

As artificial intelligence reshapes how we live, work, and connect—what does it mean for our spiritual lives? In this episode, Adam and the crew unpack how tools like AI can support, challenge, and even disrupt our walk with God. From digital Bible apps to algorithm-driven connection, they explore both the opportunity and the danger of technology becoming a substitute for intimacy with the Father.

Drawing from the story of Adam and Eve, this conversation reminds us that no matter how advanced our tools become, nothing can replace genuine human relationship and divine connection. As the Church enters the digital age, we’re challenged to use these tools with wisdom—anchored in truth, led by the Spirit, and committed to staying fully human.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Weddings are beautiful — but they’re not just about the flowers, the dress, or the guest list. In this week’s episode, we talk about what it means to enter marriage as a sacred covenant, not just a celebration. From the meaning of communion at your ceremony to the weight of commitment before God, this convo challenges couples to keep Christ at the center — even in the chaos of planning.If you’re engaged, dating, or even already married, this one will reframe how you see your wedding day and the lifelong promise that follows.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this powerful roundtable conversation, Adam is joined by Sammy, Kevin, Ben, and Daniel to talk about what it really means to prioritize your home as your first ministry. Inspired by Jesus’ love for children and the call to servant leadership, they reflect on how spiritual formation starts in the family. From bedtime Bible readings to reshaping daily routines, this episode unpacks the practical ways we can lead our households with intentionality and humility.Whether you're a parent, future parent, or someone trying to lead with purpose in your home, this conversation will challenge you to shift your focus from public success to private faithfulness. Because at the end of the day, the most important ministry you’ll ever have might be sitting right across the dinner table.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Daniel https://www.instagram.com/worldwidelovecampaign/Kevin Seo https://www.instagram.com/thekevinseo/Ben Chung https://www.instagram.com/btek_benchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does it look like to truly wait on God’s timing—especially in love? In this moving episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Eric and Thalia Bradley to unpack their 40-year journey of sexual purity before marriage. Their story is a powerful reminder that faithfulness is never wasted, and that God’s promises often exceed what we could ask or imagine. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 6, their testimony challenges cultural norms and highlights what it means to honor God with your body and trust Him with your future.Whether you’re single, dating, or struggling to stay the course, this episode will stir your faith and encourage you to embrace God’s timing over your own. Through honesty, grace, and spiritual wisdom, the Bradleys share how patience and obedience led to a love story that only God could write.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Eric & Thalia Bradleyhttps://www.instagram.com/p/DG1ydCBveSp/https://www.instagram.com/thali_j_lira/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What does it mean to be Christian and compassionate in a divided world? In this timely episode, Adam and Will dive into the biblical mandate to care for the marginalized—especially the widow, the orphan, and the foreigner. Drawing from Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and the life of Jesus Himself (who was once a refugee), they challenge believers to approach modern immigration not just with policy opinions, but with a heart shaped by the gospel.This conversation invites you to reflect on how your faith shows up in how you treat the vulnerable. Are we more loyal to our political ideologies than to Christ’s example? Or are we willing to become “spiritual medics” in a broken world—offering dignity, love, and healing where it’s needed most?--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

How can you raise godly children if your marriage isn’t united? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of unity in parenting and why your relationship as husband and wife sets the tone for your entire household. From handling in-law dynamics to the biblical principle of "leaving and cleaving," they share how oneness in marriage creates stability, safety, and spiritual clarity for your kids.This conversation is full of practical insight on conflict resolution, modeling Christ-like behavior, and making sure your faith isn’t just taught—it’s lived. If you’re a parent, planning to be one, or just want to build a marriage that speaks louder than your words, this episode will challenge and encourage you to lead with love, humility, and unity.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

How do you honor God while building something big? In this raw and motivating episode, Adam is joined by Pastors Sammy, Aaron, and Fuego to unpack the intersection of creativity, calling, and entrepreneurship. They open up about the highs and lows of starting businesses, leading ministries, and staying faithful to God's voice in an era where hustle and hype can easily drown out purpose.From battling self-doubt and burnout to navigating risk, resistance, and revenue, this episode is full of practical wisdom and spiritual fire. Whether you're launching a brand, growing a ministry, or simply trying to steward your gifts well, this conversation will help you embrace the tension between dreaming big and staying grounded in God.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/Pastor Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Fuego Padilla https://www.instagram.com/iamfuegopadilla/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/