Beyond the Letter

What are the non-negotiables that keep a marriage grounded when life gets busy—especially with kids in the picture? In this practical and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about how parenting has challenged and strengthened their relationship. They unpack the values that keep them aligned, the systems they’ve put in place to stay connected, and how they navigate tough moments without losing sight of what matters most.From spiritual rhythms to dividing up household responsibilities, this conversation offers wisdom for couples trying to balance family, faith, and each other. If you’re in the thick of parenting—or just want to build a healthier foundation before you get there—this one’s for you.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What happens when your brain doesn’t shut off—but you're still called to lead? In this raw and relatable episode, Adam sits down with Pastor Will to talk about how they each navigate life, ministry, and mental health while living with ADHD. From rapid thoughts and decision fatigue to overcommitting and emotional overload, they get honest about the behind-the-scenes struggle that high-functioning leaders often carry.This conversation isn't about excuses—it's about awareness. Through biblical insight and real-life experience, they share how ADHD impacts their leadership, relationships, and connection with God… and how they’ve learned to manage it with grace, rhythm, and Spirit-led discipline. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your mind or misunderstood in your calling, this episode will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re just built different.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this inspiring episode of Beyond I Do, hosts Adam and Ashlee Mesa sit down with Lester and Kirsten Baron—longtime friends and cherished members of the Patria community. Together, they dive into the journey of building a life side-by-side in marriage, business, and parenthood. From pursuing separate careers to launching a financial planning practice together, the Barons share the real and raw moments that shaped their path—including their experience with infertility and the beautiful story of adopting their daughter.This honest conversation is full of insight on navigating life as partners, staying grounded in faith, and holding onto vision through every season. Whether you’re married, running a business, or walking through your own challenges, you’ll find encouragement and hope in their story.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with Lester & Kirsten Baronhttps://www.instagram.com/globalmoneymaster/https://www.instagram.com/kirsten_baron/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

How do you know if it’s God’s voice or just your own thoughts? In this deep-dive episode, Adam, Sammy, and Will unpack the tension between being emotionally led vs. Spirit-led, and why so many believers wrestle with discerning God’s voice in their everyday lives. He breaks down the dangers of assuming God always affirms your desires—and how the Holy Spirit often challenges, corrects, and sanctifies us rather than just co-signing our feelings.Drawing from both Scripture and lived experience, this conversation brings clarity to confusing moments in faith, relationships, and major decisions. If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s your emotions, your trauma, or truly God speaking… this episode will help you pause, discern, and follow with confidence.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/

Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does it really mean to be led by the Holy Spirit in relationships? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee—joined by pastors and marriage coaches George and Tondra Gregory—dig into what spiritual discernment looks like when you're choosing who to marry, how to navigate conflict, or just trying to figure out if you're on the same page as your spouse. It’s not just about hearing an audible voice from heaven—it’s about walking in daily partnership with the Holy Spirit, especially when your emotions, opinions, or logic want to take the lead.Together, they break down common misconceptions about what being “Spirit-led” means, why timing matters, and how to build a relationship rooted in surrender instead of self-will. Whether you're dating, married, or in a season of waiting, this episode offers a real, biblical perspective on what it looks like to let God lead your love life.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Connect with George & Tondra Gregoryhttps://www.instagram.com/georgeagregory/https://www.instagram.com/tondragregory/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

When the door doesn't open, is God saying "No"... or just "Not yet"? In this faith-stirring episode, we dive into the power of perseverance through the lens of Walt Disney’s relentless dream to build Disneyland—despite 300+ bank rejections. Through that story and Scripture, we explore how God often uses delay to develop character, and how enduring trials can actually prepare us for the purpose He’s promised.James 1:12 reminds us that the one who “perseveres under trial” is blessed—and that's the kind of faith we’re after. Whether you’re in a season of waiting, disappointment, or doubt, this conversation will encourage you to trust that God isn’t withholding your breakthrough… He’s preparing you for it.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Al Nassar: https://www.instagram.com/al.j.nassar/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What happens when your spiritual walk is strong—but your spouse's isn't? In this raw and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tension that arises when couples find themselves spiritually unequally yoked, even after marriage. They unpack the biblical responsibility of the believing spouse, offer encouragement from personal experience, and share tools to avoid bitterness, pride, and disconnection.Whether you're married to someone who’s lost their fire or you're the one who’s struggling, this conversation is packed with grace and real talk. It's not about dragging your spouse to church—it’s about modeling Jesus in the quiet, everyday faithfulness. Tune in for a powerful reminder that even when your marriage feels uneven, God is still working in both hearts.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this solo episode, Adam unpacks the rising tension between Catholicism and mainline Christianity, not from a place of debate, but from honest cultural observation. Why does it feel like some Catholic leaders are targeting Protestants more than unbelievers? Is unity still possible with so much division in how we worship and understand authority? From personal DMs to viral TikToks, Adam offers a pastoral perspective on the Catholic Church’s public stance, the challenges of tradition vs. transformation, and how to stay centered on Jesus through it all.Rather than getting caught in theological weeds, this episode takes a seat at the lunch table—where real conversations happen. It’s a call to humility, spiritual awareness, and the kind of unity Jesus prayed for in John 17. Whether you’ve got Catholic roots or just questions, this one’s for you.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Can a Christian marriage survive when only one person is willing to fight for it? In this raw and deeply honest episode, Adam and Ashlee tackle one of the toughest realities many couples face: what to do when your spouse checks out. With biblical wisdom from 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 and real-life counseling insights, they explore how faith, patience, and self-work play a role in standing strong when the other person has given up.They also dive into the different ways men and women communicate distress, how to recognize emotional breadcrumbs before it’s too late, and why personal healing is often the first step to marital healing. Whether you're in the thick of it or supporting someone who is, this conversation brings perspective, hope, and the challenge to stay anchored in God's calling—even in the loneliest seasons of marriage.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

What happens when pastors, IV therapy, and artificial intelligence collide? In this hilarious and eye-opening episode, the crew explores how AI—especially ChatGPT—is shaping the way we approach leadership, study Scripture, manage relationships, and even recover from burnout. From naming your chat assistant to feeding it your life story, we discuss how far AI has come and how it’s quietly integrating into ministry, therapy, sermon writing, and daily life.But the conversation doesn’t stop at tech. The guys also reflect on boundaries, ethics, and spiritual caution when using tools that feel almost prophetic. Whether you’re a skeptic or already feeding your macros into the AI overlords, this one will leave you laughing, reflecting, and wondering just how far this technology will go.--Connect with:Pastor Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/