How do you talk with someone who’s always giving, always helping, and always putting others first? In this episode, Damon and Kelly dive into the warm, people-focused world of the Enneagram Two — and why communication with them can feel like a hug, a therapy session, and a pep talk all in one.

Whether you are a 2 or love one, this conversation unpacks what motivates them, how to respond to their generosity, and why setting boundaries is key to real connection.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Twos: empathy, generosity, and relational radar
• Why Twos ask “how are you?” — and really mean it
• The danger of overextending: when helping becomes self-forgetting
• How to communicate with a Two instead of being steamrolled by one
• A growth path: pausing before saying “yes” and practicing self-care

New here? Catch Episode 100 to hear how each Enneagram type handles change — and how this series came to life.

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How does an Enneagram Six communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the loyal, thoughtful, and cautious communication style of Sixes — and how trust, safety, and preparation shape their voice. Whether you’re a Type 6 or trying to connect with one, this episode will help you understand what’s behind their questions and what they need to feel secure.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Sixes: loyalty and preparedness
• Why Sixes ask a lot of questions — and why that’s a strength
• How to communicate with Sixes: clarity, consistency, and trust-building
• Common challenges: anxiety about worst-case scenarios
• A growth path for Sixes: learning to trust their inner guidance

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How does an Enneagram Type 3 communicate — and what’s really going on beneath the polish? In this episode, Damon and Kelly dive into the world of the driven, adaptable, and image-conscious Three. Discover why communication for a 3 is all about connection, competence, and results… and how to speak their language without assuming they’re just putting on a show.

Whether you are a 3, love a 3, or work with one, this episode will help you affirm their value beyond performance — and deepen the kind of relationship they truly crave.

In This Episode:

• Why 3s often shape-shift to meet expectations — and how it can look “fake”
• The deep drive for success, and how it impacts how they speak and listen
• How to affirm the 3 for who they are, not just what they do
• The challenge of slowing down, showing weakness, and sharing feelings
• A growth path for Type 3s: vulnerability, authenticity, and self-acceptance

🎧 New to Beyond Your Number? Start with Episode 100 to hear how each type handles change — and where this podcast is heading next.

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How does an Enneagram Four communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the creative, emotional, and deeply authentic style of Fours — and what it means to truly be with them in conversation. Whether you are a 4 or love one, this episode helps you understand their inner world, and how to connect with empathy, not just answers.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Fours: authenticity in emotion and expression
• Why Fours crave depth in conversations and often avoid small talk
• How to communicate with Fours: using presence, empathy, and validation
• Common challenges Fours face: feeling misunderstood or dismissed
• A growth path for Fours: learning to balance logic with emotion

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How do you respond to change? In our 100th episode, we explore how each Enneagram type handles change — from resistance to adventure — and why it matters. Plus, a big shift is coming for the podcast (and we finally reveal it).

How do you respond to change? In our 100th episode, we explore how each Enneagram type handles change — from resistance to adventure — and why it matters. Plus, a big shift is coming for the podcast (and we finally reveal it).

🎉 Episode 100! We’re talking about change — how it feels, how we resist it, and how each Enneagram type tends to respond when the status quo is disrupted.💬 Reflection questions from Kelly for each number:

• Type 9: Does this change interrupt my peace?
• Type 8: Does this change restrict my freedom?
• Type 7: Does this change bring excitement?
• Type 6: What could go wrong if I change?
• Type 5: Does this change disrupt my personal space or clarity?
• Type 4: Will this change help me express who I really am?
• Type 3: Will this change help me be more effective or succeed?
• Type 2: Will this change help others?
• Type 1: Does this change make things better?

🆕 And yes… we reveal the new name at the end of the episode.

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In this episode of EnneagramU, we explore how different Enneagram types communicate, focusing specifically on Type 1. We discuss the strengths and challenges of Type 1 communication, including their tendency to be precise and honest, but also potentially critical. We also provide tips on how to effectively communicate with Type 1 individuals, emphasizing the importance of active listening and gentle feedback.

1. Overview of Enneagram Type 1 Communication Style
   - Precise and detail-oriented
   - Focus on improving things and getting them right
   - Matter-of-fact and straightforward communication
   - Tendency to use the word "should"

2. Strengths and Challenges of Type 1 Communication
   - Strength: Honesty and integrity in communication
   - Challenge: May come across as judgmental or critical
   - Growth area: Practicing active listening

3. How to Communicate with Type 1s
   - Explore different perspectives gently
   - Be gentle with criticism, as they are already self-critical
   - Provide clarity and directness in communication
   - Acknowledge and appreciate their good decisions and efforts

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Last time, we used ChatGPT and Marvel characters to guess Blake’s Enneagram type. This time, he took the official WEPSS test — and the result was not what we expected. Why did AI miss it? And what does that reveal about typing, personality, and self-awareness?

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This week on EnneagramU, we embark on a unique journey of self-discovery with special guest Blake Fontinel, as he takes a Marvel-Themed CHATGPT Enneagram quiz LIVE on the show. Through a series of fun questions comparing Blake's personality to Marvel characters, we guide him towards uncovering his potential Enneagram type. 
Next week we will reveal his true type based on a professional assessment and see if the super heroes got it right!

1. Introducing Blake and his Enneagram journey
   - Blake is Damon's son, new to the Enneagram
   - First time taking an Enneagram test

2. Marvel-themed Enneagram quiz
   - Kelly created a unique quiz using ChatGPT and Marvel characters
   - Five questions based on personality traits and motivations
   - Each answer option corresponds to a Marvel character and Enneagram type

3. Preliminary Enneagram type assessment
   - Listen to discover where he lands!
   - NEXT WEEK -  Blake to reveal the official WEPSS test for a more accurate result

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This week we explored the true self and false self of Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9. We discussed how each type can move from their false self tendencies (like avoidance of pain for 7s, denying vulnerability for 8s, and avoiding conflict for 9s) back to their true selves through practices like sobriety, innocence, and taking action. We provide insights into the core struggles of these types and offers practical ways for people to recognize and overcome their false self patterns to live more authentically.

1. Type 7 (The Enthusiast):
- True self reflects joy and optimism
- False self avoids pain/negativity through excessive positivity and planning
- Path back: Practice sobriety and recognizing both positive and negative emotions

2. Type 8 (The Challenger):
- True self uses strength to protect others
- False self denies vulnerability and seeks to dominate/control
- Path back: Embrace innocence and childlike qualities

3. Type 9 (The Peacemaker):
- True self brings harmony and understanding
- False self avoids conflict and can become slothful/inert
- Path back: Take action, be assertive, and step into purpose

4. Communicating growth to others:
- As people work on moving from false self to true self, it's important to communicate changes to close relationships
- This helps others understand new behaviors that may seem out of character

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This week we continued our exploration of true self vs. false self for each Enneagram type, focusing on types 4, 5, and 6. We discussed how these types can recognize when they're operating from their false self, and explored practical ways they can return to their true self, including processing emotions, practicing detachment, and cultivating courage. This episode is helpful for understanding the core struggles and growth paths for these types, providing insights that can lead to greater self-awareness and personal development.

I. True Self vs. False Self
   A. True Self: Who we were created to be by God
   B. False Self: An illusory persona we mistakenly believe is real

II. Emotional Processing
   A. Importance of regularly processing emotions
   B. Comparison to daily dental hygiene habits

III. Enneagram Types 4, 5, and 6
   A. Type 4: Creative, unique individuals prone to envy
   B. Type 5: Knowledgeable, wise people who can become overly protective of information
   C. Type 6: Loyal, security-seeking individuals who can struggle with fear and self-doubt

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