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Big Hormone Enneagram
By John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-AcevedoComedyReligion & SpiritualityEducationSelf-ImprovementSpirituality
Big Hormone Enneagram episodes
- BHE 170 - OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM
We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.
— (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles
— (14:18) What does flex mean?— (20:03) Flex vs friends— (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends— (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1?— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization— (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka— (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic— (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition— (56:32) What’s specialization?— (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone— (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex— (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram typeTo sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayHelp us buy new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 25 min - BHE 169 - [LIVE POD] GOATS AND MODELS IN THE BACKROOMS
Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.
Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks— (2:32) How important is trifix order?
— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes— (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake?— (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem?— (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers?— (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations— (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion?To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayHelp us buy new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr - BHE 168 - THE SHAME
The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.
— (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame
— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator— (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignationTo sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayHelp us buy new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 16 min - BHE 167 - THE RAGE
The fuming and stewing gut types.
— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood
— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everythingTo sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayHelp us buy new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
57 min - BHE 166 - THE FEAR
Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types.
— (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated
— (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn’t robust enough to be fully exposed in the world— (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8— (16:30) Ways to work on 5 avarice— (19:18) 5 fear as one way endless monologues— (24:17) How Emeka and John experience 5 fix fear— (33:52) 6 fear of fear itself— (37:02) 6 considering all possibilities / fear disguised as responsibility and logic— (46:48) 6 preemptive call outs and self-deprecation / the essence quality of 6 is to be the universe’s eye— (50:33) 5 subjectivity vs 6 objectivity— (57:37) Toxic 7 fear— (1:06:30) 7 is running from the limitations of what is— (1:10:47) 7s need to get in touch with their own generation instead of just consuming— (1:15:04) 7 anxiety showing up as manic consumptionTo sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayYou can support the show with a donation here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 19 min - BHE 165 - S O C I A L Instincity
— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency
— (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for?— (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by— (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body— (26:42) Social-blinds aren’t updating social impressions as the connection evolves— (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction?— (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they’re being cared for or that they care?— (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it’s not— (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections— (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it’s distortedTo sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayYou can support the show with a donation here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 9 min - BHE 164 - ** FOURFOURSTRATION INTENSIFIES ** - JOHNXJOSEPH
A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar.
— (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4
— (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity— (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity— (13:30) Joseph won’t laugh at your jokes / 4 image ego self-editing and controlling natural heart expression— (16:37) John’s 4 frustration shows up in his romantic relationship and creativity— (21:05) The crippling self-limiting image rigidity of 4— (25:06) Joseph’s social 4 frustration and shame with social chemistry— (29:57) Getting dumb and allowing humiliation as a pathway to loosening up 4 image rigidity— (46:02) Feeling deficient about getting into the body— (52:27) Getting embodied in sexuality— (57:51) Timeless sense of identity of heart types— (59:26) Dat sweet syrupy line to 2 overcorrecting for being self-absorbedYou can support the show with a donation here:
venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormoneDAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 9 min - BHE 163 - THE SP/SX & SX/SP ROASTATHON - Courtney Joseph & Kristen
A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends.
— (7:55) Let the roasts begin
— (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers— (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds— (14:33) Joseph’s social 4 impressions of working with social blinds / social blinds being terrible judges of people— (20:21) Podcasting in the dark vs the social of communicating and being perceived on video— (29:36) Are the social types actually roasting the social-blinds? / social blind roasts sound like personal grievances— (37:30) SX/SP’s annoying fixation on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat— (42:50) The social blind life or death objectifying approach to social connections / the stagnation around sx flavor— (50:14) Missing out and not participating in the field of relatedness and social co-regulation— (1:03:10) Social blind obliviousness is hilarious and freeing— (1:08:14) The personal personhood of social vs the personal flavor of sexual— (1:10:36) Personal anecdotes of the feeling in the body of each blindspot— (1:15:26) Why the social blinds are so amazing— (1:23:29) What the social blinds hate about social blinds20% OFF -END OF SUMMER- SALE ON ALL TYPING ORDERS BEFORE SEPT 1ST:\/:USE CODE “SMR23” DURING CHECKOUT WHEN YOU ORDER AT enneagrammer.com/get-typed
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, Bad Bunny, Marianne Williamson. Join to watch classes at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show:
https://paypal.me/bighormonevenmo - @bighormonecashapp - $bighormoneCheck out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 36 min - BHE 162 - SOCIAL PAIN AND HEARTBREAKS - Ikram & Kristen
We’re joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct.
— (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing
— (16:44) Potential dangers in social space— (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game— (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up— (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world— (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics— (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection— (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions— (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social woundingGet the last spot on Alexandra and Josh’s new Attachment Support Group:
https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-groupDAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, iShowSpeed, Marianne Williamson. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
20% OFF -END OF SUMMER- DISCOUNT ON ALL ORDERS BEFORE SEPT 1ST:\/:USE CODE SMR23 DURING CHECKOUT
Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show:
https://paypal.me/bighormonevenmo - @bighormonecashapp - $bighormoneCheck out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TBuy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
1 hr 41 min - BHE 161 - THE ATTACHMENT SUPPORT GROUP - Josh Lavine
Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh.
— (12:36) Why do attachment types need support?
— (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are— (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment— (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility— (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding— (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief— (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group— (48:58) The goal isn’t to become like hexad types— (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classesFor more on the Attachment Support Group visit:
https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-groupIf you enjoy the show support us with a donation:
cashapp - $bighormonevenmo - @bighormoneCheck out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2TDAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Theo Von, Couple’s therapy, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-grayCall the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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⚠️DISCLAIMER: This enneagram podcast contains highly charged elements. Contents may cause unexpected states of psychological depth and trigger unconventional insight. Listener discretion is advised.…
Hosted by John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
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