Big Hormone Enneagram

Big Hormone Enneagram

By John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-AcevedoComedyReligion & SpiritualityEducationSelf-ImprovementSpirituality
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Big Hormone Enneagram episodes

  • BHE 150 - 2 lone swordsmen telling instinctstories

    Deserted by the others, the two lone swordsmen continued into the abyss of the unknown. With only memories of forgotten ancient texts to guide them. These are their stories.

    — (5:25) The role of cultural differences in the expression of type / confrontational blunt 9s from other cultures

    — (12:20) How our early life experiences and environment create an unexpected relationship with certain instincts / Emeka and food
    — (22:01) Digging up John’s leftover concept of each instinct having a close vs distant optimal distance
    — (28:28) The difference between 9s merging and sexual instinct merging / instinctual dynamics in relationships
    — (36:45) Wild topic switch to social-contextual dynamics in dating / race as an overlooked significant contextual layer / female vs male gaze
    — (43:40) Most people are making sexual choices with social reasons 
    — (50:49) John’s ‘effortlessly masculine’ and Emeka’s black artist with masc/fem interplay
    — (56:10) When we feel safe those optimal distance polarities dissolve

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    1 hr 7 min
  • BHE 149 - 2.STOLEN YOUTH

    Part 2 baby.

    — (1:39) The grounded reality of this cult vs the ridiculousness of Holy Hell

    — (7:45) We’re all vulnerable to sources of idealized parenting
    — (19:25) The school was for outcasts primed to fall for a parental manipulator
    — (28:35) 9’s attaching to a story as a form of maintaining psychological comfort
    — (31:34) We should watch Holy Hell and Wild Country
    — (39:08) Applications to become part-time BHE slaves are now open

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    47 min
  • BHE 148 - 1.STOLEN YOUTH

    Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu and get into this.

    — (5:13) Larry is an 8w9 862 Wouldn’t Hurt a Fly

    — (9:18) What’s so compelling about a type like Larry?
    — (13:00) The government and military as social hooks used to manipulate victims
    — (24:43) Setting an attachment landscape and opening the door for alternative realities with ‘taking responsibility’
    — (29:53) 8’s leveraging victimhood and why Larry is sp/so
    — (44:29) Shaping reality with relentless alternative memories / attachment as a survival strategy
    — (48:39) The seductive pull of a being given a scapegoat for why your life sucks / rejection creating parental dynamics

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    54 min
  • BHE 147 - OPS INTERMISSION

    Check out our prior episodes on objective personality if you haven’t already. John - Ti/Se-CS/P(B) / Alexandra - Se/Fe-PB/S(C) / David - Te/Se-PC/S(B) / Emeka - Se/Te-PC/B(S).

    Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu for next week.

    — (5:59) 3 Playas vs John’s Play-last / What is Blast

    — (10:28) Play is co-creative real time learning / PC vs PB
    — (14:51) Blindspots and tidalwaves / Emeka’s Sleep-last
    — (17:46) Alexandra and John’s Play vs Play-last relationship dynamic / Emeka’s Play and De as a reclusive 8 rejection type
    — (21:00) Hopefully eventually the enneagram gets integrated into OPS
    — (24:04) The mental style of OPS vs the enneagram and typing objectively
    — (28:59) Consume and Sleep last tidalwaves

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at typing people and seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Austin Butler, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    31 min
  • BHE 146 - II.SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

    Cont’d.

    — (6:02) This is now a 9 enabling self-pres podcast

    — (11:26) Become a hope machine / lift some weights
    — (18:14) We should do an episode on the self-pres love language
    — (21:11) John’s sleep vs Emeka’s sleep last as recluse cavemen
    — (26:29) Tackling big life topics through the lens of the enneagram / most relationship advice is missing the thing it most needs - the sexual instinct
    — (31:15) Finding your attraction orientation apart from what’s generally accepted as attractive

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Refining your intuition of the types to see them more clearly and become a more accurate typer. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    42 min
  • BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

    We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.

    — (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it

    — (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all
    — (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships
    — (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means
    — (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being
    — (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being
    — (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp
    — (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other
    — (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    1 hr 6 min
  • BHE 144 - alexa, play the wingsplainers on shuffle

    Riffing and winging it.

    — (4:25) Josh’s new object relational theory of the centers and the superego triad

    — (10:20) The hornevians might explain why certain types are next to each other
    — (11:18) 8w9 vs 8w7 centralized vs decentralized leverage
    — (17:06) 1w9 vs 1w2 
    — (30:25) 4w5/5w4 ephemeral self-invention
    — (44:00) The hell of the double hexad types
    — (47:43) Plans for more soul intercourse episodes

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram and see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and 3 vs 9. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    53 min
  • BHE 143 - NO LOVE LOVELINE

    Haven’t done one of these in a while. Applications to join the cult of cream are open today.

    — (10:32) Someone had a lot to be sorry for

    — (11:28) Borderline personality disorder, suicide, and 4 / mental illness and enneagram types 
    — (18:08) Our body impressions of the heart types
    — (26:07) Heart types are rare / why are most people 6 or 9 and why are 4s so rare?
    — (35:37) We’re the most unsuccessful cult leaders and grifters in existence / 49 reasons to join Alexandra’s cult of cream
    — (45:12) Object relational affect of the wings and how they work with the types that cross centers 
    — (51:39) 5 rejection of exogenous orientation vs the remixing entertainment machine of 7

    Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:

    https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and Meghan Markle. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    1 hr 6 min
  • BHE 142 - PART2.DREAMWORK Therapy Hang - Kristen Oberly

    Picking up where we left off with Nancy’s homecoming. Then onwards to David and Alexandra.

    — (8:04) David’s shares a haunting dream he had after his mother’s death

    — (17:03) Kristen probes David for more and interprets what be might represented
    — (36:41) Alexandra shares a dream she had about bleeding middle fingers on subways
    — (41:27) Kristen draws the connections between middle fingers and saturn; which is associated with austere standards and discernement

    To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1

    Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:

    https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    1 hr 3 min
  • BHE 141 - DREAMWORK Therapy Hang - Kristen Oberly

    We’re not crying you’re crying. Kristen is back to psychoanalyze our dreams and traumas. Starting with Nancy.

    — (10:37) 9s sleeping all the damn time / hit up the Loveline if you’re an insomniac 9

    — (15:38) Nancy tells us the story of her traumatic disaster move to the Netherlands 
    — (30:34) And how it directly relates to a juicy dream she had about a beheading
    — (41:01) Kristen interprets the competency themes in Nancy’s dream
    — (50:27) And being confronted with the feeling and disappointment of failure as a 3

    To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1

    Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:

    https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com

    Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group

    DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:

    https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about dreams and/or 9s sleeping at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

    1 hr 1 min

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⚠️DISCLAIMER: This enneagram podcast contains highly charged elements. Contents may cause unexpected states of psychological depth and trigger unconventional insight. Listener discretion is advised.…

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