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Psychologist Ethan Kross explains that emotional regulation starts right after birth, with something as simple as skin-to-skin contact. As kids grow, we can help shape how they understand and manage emotions.
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“All information technologies up to the 21st century were organic networks based on our organic brain.”
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**🔥 Dating Apps Are a Mess (and Kinda Messing *Us* Up Too) 💔📱**
Back in the day, people met through friends, family, work, or school 👨👩👧👦🎓.
Now? It’s swipe-swipe culture. Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. You name it.
Sure, dating apps have helped — especially for people in marginalized communities 🏳️🌈🤝.
But they’ve also brought along some serious issues.
👻 Ghosting? Normalized.
📸 Unwanted photos? Unfortunately, common.
🚨 Harassment? Way too frequent.
🤖 People often act worse when they feel there are no real consequences.
Some stats that say it all:
- 56% of women have received inappropriate images 📲
- 40% were contacted repeatedly after cutting someone off 🚫
- 37% were insulted, 11% even felt physically threatened 😟
- 64% of men felt insecure due to low responses 📉
This isn’t just awkward — it’s exhausting 🧠💤.
Apps turn dating into a *game*.
Swipe left, swipe right — again and again — while getting the message that someone “better” might be a tap away 😮💨.
Why build something real when you can just start over?
And let’s be real:
If your pics aren’t 🔥 or you’re not 6 feet tall, you might never even get seen 🙃.
It’s shallow. It’s discouraging. And for many, it’s just... Draining.
So what can we do?
💡 Treat people like people — not profiles.
🫱🏽🫲🏼 Respect boundaries. Look for real connection.
👀 And maybe... Just maybe... Start a conversation in person.
Dating doesn’t have to feel like a simulation.
Let’s make it human again ❤️🩹.
About Christine Emba:
Christine Emba is an opinion columnist and editor at The Washington Post, where she focuses on ideas, society, and culture. She is also a contributing editor at Comment Magazine and an editor at large at Wisdom of Crowds, which includes a podcast and newsletter. Before this, Emba was the Hilton Kramer Fellow in Criticism at The New Criterion and a deputy editor at the Economist Intelligence Unit, focusing on technology and innovation. Her book, Rethinking Sex: A Provocation, is about the failures and potential of the sexual revolution in a post-#MeToo world. Emba was named one of the World’s Top 50 Thinkers by Prospect Magazine in 2022.
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Jason Derulo's career flashed before his eyes when he broke his neck in 2012. Despite fearing the worst, he used positive self-talk and daily routines to recover and create hit songs like “Marry Me” and “Talk Dirty.” Overcoming childhood insecurities, he emphasizes the power of self-improvement. Now a global superstar with 250 million singles sold, Derulo prioritizes family time since becoming a father in 2021.
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The “compliment sandwich” technique doesn’t actually work. Wharton professor Adam Grant on how to give feedback that will actually help others reach their full potential.
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In a world where our decisions are increasingly influenced by data, understanding the information we encounter has never been more essential. Dr. Talithia Williams explains the case for data literacy.
Dr. Talithia Williams, a math professor and science communicator, shares her take on why understanding data is now more important than ever. Using examples like noticing targeted ads after a conversation, Williams shows how data shapes our everyday experiences. But she also warns of the dangers, like biases in data-driven models that can lead to unfair outcomes. While AI and machine learning offer powerful insights, it’s up to us to ensure these tools are used fairly and accurately.
Dr. Williams also emphasizes that by deepening our understanding of data, we can better navigate the challenges that arise in our daily lives. She encourages us to see data not just as numbers, but as a tool for making more informed, fairer decisions in our bewilderingly complex world.
About Dr. Talithia Williams:
Talithia Williams, PhD, is a Professor of Mathematics and the Mathematics Clinic Director at Harvey Mudd College. She develops statistical models focused on environmental issues, including a cataract model for the World Health Organization to predict surgical rates in Africa.
Known for making complex numerical concepts accessible, Williams inspires others through her dedication to STEM education. Williams has worked with NASA, the Jet Propulsion Laboratory (JPL), and the National Security Agency (NSA).
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Success in the art world can mean different things to different artists. While some artists work solely for the pleasure of producing art, others seek external recognition, such as being shown in prestigious galleries or museums, and selling their craft. The latter — profitability, recognition, demand — is how success is traditionally defined in the field.
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Not all conflict is bad. Expert @Priya_Parker explains how “heat” can be harnessed for good.
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What’s happening in Gaza and why? And how did we get here?
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**🧠 Your Emotions Aren’t the Boss — *You* Are 🔥**
Feelings come from your **limbic system** — the emotional engine of your brain.
But here’s the kicker: it’s not smart. It just reacts. No logic. No filters. Just raw vibes 😤💥.
If you let it run the show, guess what?
You’ll be *owned* by your emotions 😬.
But you don’t have to be.
There’s a way to *take back control* — and it’s called **metacognition** 🧘♂️🔍.
Metacognition = thinking about your thinking.
It’s your **prefrontal cortex** (your rational brain 🧠) observing your emotional self 👀💭.
You’re basically saying:
“Okay, I’m feeling this… but *what does it mean?* And *what do I want to do about it?*”
🔄 Example: When a kid throws a tantrum, you say, “Use your words.”
Translation? “Stop being limbic. Be conscious.”
Now flip that advice on yourself. Every. Single. Time.
Next time you're angry or anxious:
1. Don’t react immediately 🚫🗣️
2. Count to **30** (not 10) ⏳
3. Let your brain *catch up* with your feelings
4. Then respond — *on purpose*, not on impulse 🎯
💡 Pro tip: The more you practice this, the better you get. It’s a skill, not magic.
And yeah, you’ll mess up sometimes. That’s part of it. Be kind to yourself 💛.
But here’s the real win:
✅ You’ll feel more in control
✅ You’ll be *happier*
✅ People will *love* being around you more
Because people who *respond* instead of *react*?
They're the real emotional MVPs 🏆✨.
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