Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan.

Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom, their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand.

In this episode we talk about:

• The great G Savage
• Yelling at men on stage
• Boobs! Imagine having a different pair every day?!
• Respecting pussy gets you EVERYWHERE
• Decision fatigue in dating
• Growing up wanting to pee standing up (relatable)
• Prioritizing pleasure
• Society’s perception of sexual expression
• Refractory periods… what are they?

You can find Amanda on Instagram at @amandagsavage on TikTok at @gsavagetalks and her website www.AmandaGSavage.com

LA you can see Amanda live on April 25th at Holy Water in WeHo for the G Savage Talks premier! Get tickets here!

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Check out other upcoming Sensuality workshops at www.ariellezadok.com/workshops

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ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity!

In this episode we talk about:

• 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!!
• 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism
• 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women
• 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons
• 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors!
• 25:31 First Sexual Experiences
• 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women
• 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships
• 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History
• 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences
• 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame
• 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma
• 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance
• 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry
• 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby
• 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work
• 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work Community

You can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you’re lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!

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Dr. Nazanin Moali is a Clinical Psychologist, Sex Therapist and Host of the Sexology podcast originally from Iran where sex education was TRULY non-existent.

In this episode we talk about:

• 00:00 The Importance of Different Perspectives
• 03:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships
• 07:15 The Impact of Nonverbal Communication
• 10:06 Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy and Mental Health
• 12:04 The Influence of Trauma on Sexual Health
• 15:47 Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education
• 26:41 Transitioning to Sex Therapy
• 28:20 Healing from Eating Disorders and Rediscovering Pleasure
• 31:17 The Importance of Pleasure
• 36:31 Cultivating Pleasure in Different Areas of Life
• 41:21 Creating Sensual Spaces
• 44:57 The Menu of Options
• 50:12 The Importance of Communication and Planning in Sex
• 55:44 Cultivating Desire and Erotic Mind

You can find Dr. Nazanin on Instagram at @sexologypodcast, her website https://sexologypodcast.com/ and wherever you get your podcasts.

The Yes / No / Maybe list we talk about can be found at:  www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

And the erotic menu can be found at https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/

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Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

And if you want to say “thanks babe” you can buy me a coffee! 

Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it!

In this episode we talk about:

• 03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video!
• 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it’s an STI clinic!
• 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality
• 10:03 There wasn’t any sex ed at her Catholic school, but there WAS an abortion video!
• 11:27 Lack of Knowledge about Tampons
• 13:08 The Importance of Openness and Humor in Sex Education
• 13:28 The TV Show 'Big Mouth'
• 14:27 Why you need to consider using Organic Tampons
• 19:14 Give us pain killers during IUD Insertion!
• 21:09 Arielle’s alcohol allergy and birth control
• 23:23 The Neglect of Female Pleasure in Medicine
• 26:35 The Impact of Shame and Lack of Masturbation Education
• 29:47 Coercion and Manipulation in Sexual Experiences
• 35:27 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility
• 38:21 Openness and Communication in Relationships
• 47:06 Generational Differences in Views on Sex and Romance
• 52:09 The Evolution of Romance and Communication
• 57:37 Reflecting on Traumatic Events
• 58:06 The ending you were all hoping for.. Ruby the cat Brings us an Avocado

You can find Christine on Instagram at @chrissymeds and her website http://www.christinemedrano.com/

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

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This week we’re mixing things up because Rena Martine (Women’s Intimacy Coach, Author and Ep. 25 guest) and I had the opportunity to park up at the Hollywood Burlesque Festival Bazaar and speak to some of incredible performers from the weekend.

In this episode we’re talking to:

• @boogerboobs an Aussie based in Los Angeles
• Tito Bonito, the @cubabmissilecrisis of burlesque
• @Sydvici0uz the east coast showgirl gone west coast
• @tout.dlou the traveling circus showgirl
• @themissmarquez the green goddess behind @empowermentinheels

You can find The Hollywood Burlesque festival happening every year right here in Hollywood but since you missed this year (bummer) make sure you follow @Hollywoodbqfest and check out their website to see all of the gorgeous performers at www.hollywoodburlesquefestival.com

You can find Rena on Instagram at @_Rena.Marine_ and on her website www.renamartine.com

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.

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Michael Hollice is the Founder and Creative Director of The Play LA (that’s a sex party) originally from Los Angeles where his class watched the birthing video forwards and backwards… literally. That baby got sucked right back up!

In this episode we talk about:

• 00:46 The Play LA and Prioritizing Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry
• 04:04 Arielle’s Magical Experience at The Play LA
• 06:19 Sex as a Collaboration
• 13:18 The Importance of Eye Gazing and Dropping In
• 15:07 Sexual and Creative Freedom
• 16:04 Shifting the Culture of Sex Education
• 26:25 The Pitfalls of Non-Monogamy 
• 34:12 The Nuance of Flirting
• 37:07 The power of sharing Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries
• 38:33 No Phones, No Money, No Hierarchy… that’s a good play party!
• 39:29 How to be a voyeur, but not in a creepy way
• 41:23 Speaking Desires into Existence
• 42:49 The Evolution of Boundaries
• 46:32 Anticipation is Foreplay
• 56:16 The eroticism of being fed Cookies after an orgasm
• 59:34 The birthing video… in reverse!
• 01:02:44 Michael’s First Sexual Experience and the experience that changed it all
• 01:07:05 Importance of Repair… cancellation is not always the way
• 01:18:22 Profound Experiences can happen  at Play Parties
• 01:20:15 Creating a Community of Connection and Vulnerability
• 01:21:35 The Play LA and The Play Network

You can find Michael on Instagram at @theplay.la and The Play LA  website https://theplay.la/

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list (you'll find out if play parties are on the menu!), get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.

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Stay sexy xx

Morgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him!

In this episode we talk about:

• 04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show
• 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music
• 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs
• 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences
• 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare
• 20:02 Exploring Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Products
• 25:23 The Accessibility and Variety of Pornography
• 31:05 The Impact of Abstinence-Only Sex Education
• 36:55 The Influence of Cultural and Religious Upbringing
• 41:44 Exploring New Sexual Experiences
• 46:09 The Importance of Playfulness and Curiosity
• 48:18 Sexual Connection in Intimate Relationships
• 49:10 The Consequences of Ignoring Sexual Compatibility
• 51:42 Having Complex Conversations about Sexual Desires
• 53:47 Normalizing Sexual Pleasure for All
• 56:52 Exploring Unique Sexual Fantasies
• 59:04 Creating Pleasurable and Intimate Experiences

You can find Morgan on Instagram at @morganjay and his website www.morganjay.com

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

HEY LOS ANGELES!  Come to the Hollywood Burlesque Festival at Frogtown Brewery on March 9th where we’ll be interviewing performers all day! Get 20% off your festival tickets with offer code: BIRDS&BEES 

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If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.

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Sarah Tomchesson is a sex educator, fed-up feminist, queer mom and co-host of the Fck Yeah! Podcast originally from a little all over but who had her first sex ed class in Los Angeles where they were interrupted by an earthquake!

In this episode we talk about:

• 02:02 SIECUS and Sex Education Advocacy
• 05:21 The Importance of Policy Change
• 10:17 The Fear of Talking About Sex
• 11:15 Unpacking Shame and Ego
• 15:07 Sarah’s Experiences with Sex Education
• 19:46 Supporting Parents in Sex Education
• 22:07 The Lack of Education on Menopause
• 24:59 The Lack of Sex Education in Medical Training
• 32:34 Sarah's Journey into Sex Education
• 40:55 The Importance of Normalizing Pleasure
• 41:08 Upcoming Program with Anne Hodder-Shipp
• 43:14 Understanding Your Relationship to and Expanding the Definition of Pleasure
• 49:31 Prioritizing Pleasure in Daily Life
• 52:09 Navigating Censorship and Playing the Game
• 53:49 Knowing and Trusting Yourself

You can find Sarah on Instagram at @pleasureguides and their website https://www.s3xplus.com/ and of course you can join her program with Anne Hodder-Shipp that begins on March 14th at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pleasure-attitudes-building-an-embodied-self-care-practice-that-works-tickets-773968630007

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If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.

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Tyomi Morgan is a Sexologist, Intimacy Coordinator and creator of The Cowgirl Workout originally from Chicago where they went on a class trip to learn about sex!

In this episode we talk about:

• 03:04 Intimacy Coordinating, obviously!
• 14:43 The one thing you MUST know as an Intimacy Coordinator
• 23:00 When Sex Ed is a class trip…
• 29:29 Impact of Sex Education on Personal Exploration
• 38:08 Virginity is a hoax
• 45:03 The importance of authenticity and Communication in Relationships
• 46:28 The art of Letting Go and Embracing Change
• 47:23 Fluidity and Exploration in Sexuality
• 50:13 Recognizing Patterns and Trauma
• 51:57 Taking Action and Doing the Work
• 54:20 The Lifelong Journey of Self-Reflection
• 57:18 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries
• 59:08 The DM slide all sex educators get
• 01:01:21 Embracing Autonomy and Choice

You can find Tyomi on Instagram at @realglamazontyomi and on X (Twitter) at @glamazontyomi get The Cowgirl Workout at https://members.thecowgirlworkout.com/ see her in person at Exxxotica Expo https://www.exxxoticaexpo.com/ or catch her classes at https://www.thepleasureacademy.com/

WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

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Allison Goldberg is a comedian and creator known for her dating show, Love Isn’t Blind originally from Baltimore where they scribbled some stuff on an overhead projector and called it a day!

In this episode we talk about:

• 01:25 Allison actually knows about the birds and bees!
• 02:07 Love Isn't Blind - The Dating Show where men aren’t allowed to talk!
• 04:47 Pole Dancing and Rock Climbing
• 06:29 Intimacy Coordination and Other Jobs
• 09:41 Creating a Community
• 13:21 Being Organized and Having Tools
• 16:47 Lack of Sexual Education
• 21:04 Consent and Desexualization
• 24:44 New Zealand sex clubs
• 31:57 Time to figure out the Clitoris
• 34:32 Dating and Activities
• 37:10 Understanding the Clitoris and Vulva
• 41:09 Exploring the Labia and Outer Lips
• 42:30 Stimulating the Entire Vulva
• 45:08 Pleasuring the Penis and Balls
• 52:54 Orbiting and Communication
• 55:00 Allison’s got a podcast launching TODAY!

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!

You can find Allison on all social media at @alli_goldi and on her website https://www.allisongoldberg.com/

WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

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