Tia Lynn is a sex and intimacy coach, Tedx speaker and host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast originally from Utah where as you can imagine, the Mormons (which she was not one of) taught her nothing about sexuality but a whole lot about judgement.

Some things we said...

"Pole dancing gives permission for others to explore their desires and sensuality."

"Transitioning into sex coaching happened naturally based on client feedback and impact."

"When you upgrade and when you progress past that, that makes them look at themselves in a way that they're not ready to."

"Play parties provide a space where sex is permitted, but it's not required."

"Consent is required at play parties, and there's accountability for violating someone's boundaries."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Tia:

Intsta: @sexybizbabe

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-biz-babe/id1450558365?mt=2

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

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Nnamdi Ngwe is an actor, comedian and writer for The Amber Ruffin Show and Tab Time originally from London where his initial sex education was just the bad kids used to try to get the younger kids to kiss. Then he got a little older and realized how unhinged that was!

Some things we said...

"I would, as long as it's like, my feelings wouldn't be hurt if it's like, don't do that. Continue on. Yeah. Here's some guidance. Here's some notes. Let's keep going."

"You think that I'm not in control, you think that I'm not in power, your dick is in my mouth. I can fucking hurt you or heal you right now. Do not fuck with me."

"You have better sex when you know what you're working with. But none of us were ever taught what we're working with. So, like, we're just like flailing about."

"That's daddy official. Okay, okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you've been a sugar daddy. I've been not a good one."

"You have your erotic persona and then you have who you are. Yeah. Really? Like you have, there's, there's two worlds."

"To get somebody in a position to release to you in that way is such a gift and it's so powerful."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Nnamdi:

Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/nngwe17/

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

K, love you, byeeeee

Teresa Lo is an award winning writer and comedian originally from Coffeeville Kansas where nearly 40% of her high school class had a baby before graduation… which is another reason why accurate sex education is so important!

Some things we said...

"Comedy and the sex world is the only place that accepts freaks and lets us thrive."

"If I really wanted it, I could have done it."

"How bad do you want something? What are you willing to sacrifice?"

"People, not all people, but many people are very dishonest about sexuality where they can't be open with what they really want."

"Some people are afraid to even negotiate, to even say upfront, like these are what I want. This is what I'm cool with. This is what I don't like to do. This is what I like to do."

"There are so many men out there that want to treat a woman, that want to be in that dynamic, that want to be daddy, that want to be a master."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Teresa:

Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/teresalowriter

OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/tloclub

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

K, love you, byeeeee

Layla Paul is a strategic brand consultant for kinky brands originally from Chicago where her lack of sex education lead her to put her own child through the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program. What a badass move.

Some things we said...

"If it can do double duty, I'm all about that"

"You have this one product that's made for XYZ, but how can you use it in a different way?"

"Partnerships with deep, visceral connections and loyalty last regardless of monogamy or non-monogamy."

"The primal aspects of attraction, like scent and voice, are often overlooked but play a significant role in intimacy."

"Intimacy coordinators in film ensure the safety and comfort of performers during intimate scenes."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Layla:

Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/kinkybrands/

Website: https://kinkybrands.co/

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

K, love you, byeeeee

Andrew Orolfo is a stand up comedian, host of the meter gameshow and one of Just For Laughs New Faces of 2022 originally from Oakland, CA where they pretty much just watched a video from the 80s with dude stuff.

Some things we said...

"Sometimes you get close to death and then you come, you know what I mean?"

"We're so often rushing with ourselves, especially men and people with penises."

"Creating space for pleasure and exploration can enhance sexual experiences."

"There's so much more. There's so much available to us if we're willing to explore it."

"We need to normalize that conversation. Yeah. By the way, fucking everybody's got herpes and we just don't talk about it."

"We have to make it safe for men to learn these things without shame, without guilt."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Andrew:

Intsta: @andrew_orolfo

Website: https://www.andreworolfo.com/

OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/andrew_orolfo

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast ‘Sluts and Scholars’ originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today!

Some things we said...

“We all have the capacity to be woo girls”

"The San Fernando Valley: From Porn Capital to Podcast"

“So like a pole at the park, like a bed post, a lamp post, sofa arm, you know, like things that were things that were long and hard that I could rub up against.”

"Breaking Down Sexual Shame and Judgment"

“I had a curious mind about it and just an active imagination. I had a lot of fantasies when I was younger and self-pleasure and fantasizing became a big part of my young life.”

"The Lack of Sexuality Education for Medical Professionals"

"I don't know, it's just like dare to resist drugs and yeah. Let's look at it."

"And so she was the one that was like, yeah, we should be teaching our kids about masturbation. It's a natural part of having a body and we should be teaching kids about that."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Nicoletta:

Intsta: @slutsandscholars

Podcast: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/

Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

K, love you, byeeeee

Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty.

Some things we said...

"Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going."

"Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene."

"How can we get more creative in bed?"

"I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual wellness."

"There's room for everyone, but there's a responsibility...that everybody does their homework in this space."

"Electro play is fun...it's not all about pain."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

LA Sensual Movement Soundbath with Arielle & Sacred Sounds by Devon on 5/22: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/soundbath

Where to find Nathan:

Intsta: @theshadesofnate

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok & @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeee

Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode!

Some things we said...

"We're Jews. We have our own traumas."

"The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen."

"Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that relenting is not consenting."

"When you're in a subspace, you are, you're present, but you're like shut down, not shut. I don't want to use the language shut down, but you're so, you're like in a trance."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Where to find Raye:

• Intsta: @rayeschiller
• TikTok: @rayeschiller
•  https://www.rayeschiller.com/

Where to find Arielle:

• Insta: @ariellezadok
• Freebie!
• https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/
• Be my Daddy

K, love you, byeeeee

Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.

In this episode we talk about:

• 02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer
• 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel
• 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship
• 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting
• 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education
• 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy
• 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences
• 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases!
• 26:23 Harm Reduction!!
• 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs
• 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice
• 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist!
• 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined!
• 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality
• 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education
• 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity
• 59:40 Find Your Community and Get Support

You can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

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Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods!

In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more!

You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losangelesburlesque.com/

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Los Angeles! If you’re a femme looking to build confidence, heal your relationship to your body and tap into your sensuality, join me THIS Sunday April 28th for an Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance workshop in Downtown LA. Details & registration:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

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Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeeee