Being able to ask for help when needed is so extremely important in building community and healthy relationships, but if you are anything like Lexy then you struggle with even keeping people in the loop of what you need help with and this hyper-independence can hurt relationships, so we talk today about how we can go past the "strong independent black woman" narrative and work to lean on our community.   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

This week, we are honest with you on how to hone in on the art of chill. We talk about how we don't sweat the small stuff and stay grounded. We hope that this is helpful before the busy holiday season and how we can find our grounding going into the new year.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

We are starting the end-of-the-year reflections a little early with this episode about purpose. We chat about a recent conversation with friends about living in our purpose and how we know when there is that alignment in our life, so we are bringing to you all the same questions and topics to think about as we start preparing for the new year. If you have ever wondered about your purpose or are already trying to live more in alignment with your purpose this is the episode for you.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

Have you ever thought about what it means to have grace within friendships this is the episode for you? We chat about tending to our friendships in a loving way and how we can grow to have grace within our friendships. So whether you have seen the TikTok about your friend's fatal flaw or just thinking about how to show your friends more love this is for you.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

We need to know if the girlies are taking applications for cuffing season or if we are sitting this one out? If you are recruiting for cuffing season, we talk about how to maintain healthy boundaries and how to use this time to better yourself if you are hibernating.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

The conversation has been buzzing around a tiktok creator who said as we grow up we should be paying the bill for your friends on your birthday. We thought this was the best opportunity to chime in and chat about what it means to be generous in friendship. Trust us this episode is filled with the TEA!  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

Virgo season is in full effect and it has not been kind to Liv, so we are taking this chance to talk about having a strong bounce-back game and embracing our failures. Failures are inevitable so we have to be clear on our approach. This episode we share some of our own L's that have left a stain and our true honest thoughts on experiencing failure.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

Can we just be honest for a second? With social media and a constant stream of information, jealousy and comparison are natural and we just want a real conversation with the impact of comparison whose grass is greener. Come ready to keep it real and hear all the tea-on times we've found ourselves comparing.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

We have all had a tough couple of years navigating everything from remote working to hybrid and that burnout is happening to everyone we know. We chat about how to create a bounce-back plan and find that balance. So don't let the "quiet quitting" rhetoric keep us from having boundaries in our work-life balance.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message

We are learning how important your mindset is! It can be the difference between seeing your circumstances as fixed or seeing life filled with possibilities and your heart's desires. That is why we chat about a fixed v. growth mindset.  We share our own stories of when we had fixed mindsets it held us back and when we have adopted growth mindsets and helped us see the possibilities. We hope this helps us give ourselves grace and more belief in ourselves.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackgirlflow/message