In this Patreon-exclusive episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas take a nostalgic trip back to childhood while comparing sibling rivalries from our upbringing to what we see with our own kids today. From how we competed, fought, and bonded with our siblings to how our children navigate rivalry in a completely different world, we reflect on what’s changed and what hasn’t.

We talk about the lessons those early rivalries taught us, how they shaped our relationships as adults, and what we’re learning now as parents watching our kids go through it in real time.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the real cost of staying comfortable. What feels like peace and stability can sometimes be fear in disguise. We dive into how comfort can quietly become a cage, keeping us in jobs we’ve outgrown, relationships that no longer challenge us, and routines that feel safe but limit our growth.

We talk about the hidden price of playing it safe, from missed opportunities and creative stagnation to the regret that can build over time. The conversation also explores why change feels so heavy, especially for Black men navigating generational survival mindsets and the pressure to protect what we’ve built.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question: How do you know when it’s time to leave something that’s no longer challenging you?

This episode challenges you to reflect on where you might be choosing comfort over growth and what it could be costing you.

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On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, most of the fellas were out of town, so JD is joined by his longtime college friend Brandon for a real, reflective conversation. Together, they dive into the things many of us are still figuring out as grown men, from money and emotions to relationships, parenting, and faith.

After an honest check-in, the conversation unpacks how so many of us entered adulthood without a roadmap, learning key lessons through trial, error, and experience. We talk about the pressure to have it all together, the courage it takes to admit what we don’t know, and why growth starts with honesty.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we respond to a powerful voicemail from an Army veteran asking how to find healthy ways to decompress after years of service. The discussion opens up an important dialogue around stress, healing, and creating space to slow down.

This episode is a reminder that not knowing doesn’t make you weak; it makes you human.

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On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we kick things off by surviving the infamous Atlanta “snow storm,” but the conversation quickly shifts into something much deeper. The recent ICE-related tensions around the country spark an honest discussion about how Black men navigate racism directed toward us, while also confronting our own unconscious biases toward others.

We unpack generational trauma and what it means to learn from parents who came of age just after the Civil Rights era. We talk about raising children who don’t see color, while still making sure they understand, appreciate, and love their Blackness—without passing down unresolved trauma.

The fellas also share personal experiences with racism and how those moments shaped the way we move through the world today.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer a real-life question: What’s the best way to explain to my fiancée that we shouldn’t overspend on our wedding, even though our parents are contributing financially?

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into what happens when you outgrow the version of yourself that people expect you to remain. We talk about recognizing personal growth, shifting priorities, and the discomfort that comes when others can’t see who you’ve become.

Through honest reflection, we unpack how being labeled as “changed” can bring guilt, tension, and tough decisions, especially for Black men navigating family, friendships, and responsibility. We also discuss how to create distance without burning bridges and why growth doesn’t mean betrayal.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question:

What is something you wish you had known before you got married?

This episode is for anyone who’s evolving, setting boundaries, and learning to stand firm in who they’re becoming.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we ask a real question a lot of us avoid: Do we still know how to unplug? After the Sip of the Week, the fellas dive into how phones, social media, and nonstop notifications keep us connected around the clock and why disconnecting feels harder than ever.

We talk about the struggle to step away, whether it’s driven by FOMO, work pressure, or just pure habit. Along the way, we share some hilarious digital detox fails, from deleting apps only to reinstall them hours later, to trying to unplug and ending up right back online.

The conversation turns more serious as we unpack how constant connectivity impacts our mental peace and what it looks like to protect it. From setting no-phone hours to creating tech-free spaces at home, we share practical ways to find balance.

We close by asking the big question: Do we even want to unplug anymore, or is being connected just the new normal? Plus, we challenge listeners to try a 24-hour unplug and let us know how it goes.

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We kick things off with a quick recap of the holidays and how everyone spent their time closing out the year. From there, we jump into voicemails from our Ask A Black Man segment, which spark a deeper conversation about the importance of getting information sooner rather than later to better position ourselves and our families.

That discussion naturally leads into the importance of building healthy habits, from eating better and prioritizing mental health to staying active and working out. It’s a practical, reflective episode centered on growth, awareness, and making intentional choices that set us up for the long run.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas explore what it really means to leave a legacy as Black men today. We challenge the idea that legacy is only about money or status and shift the focus to impact, values, presence, and how we show up daily.

After an honest homeboy check-in, we discuss how social media shapes our views on success, the barriers that keep many of us in survival mode, and the lessons about legacy that were never passed down. We also talk about what we are actively doing now to build something meaningful through better habits, mentorship, health, and intentional choices.

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With Christmas right around the corner, the fellas tap into a timely and heartfelt conversation about the holidays. We discuss our holiday plans, how we’re preparing for the new year, and the realities of navigating holiday tension and grief, all while trying to remain intentional with family and friends.

The crew also talks about the importance of teaching our kids to value presence over presents, especially in a season that often centers around material things.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer a powerful question: How do you handle situations when your personal struggles start to interfere with your relationships?

This episode is equal parts reflection, real talk, and perspective, perfect for anyone heading into the holidays with a lot on their mind.

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On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew dives into the realities of life and career changes—and the challenges that come with them. We talk openly about the anxiety that shows up when starting something new, how to recognize when you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be, and the tough decisions that have to be made to push Black Men Think to the next level.

It’s an honest conversation about growth, risk, and trusting the process, especially when the next step feels uncomfortable but necessary. If you’re in a season of transition, this episode is for you.

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