Black Men Think Podcast

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas record live from our Father's Day Retreat and reflect on something many men struggle with: taking time for themselves without feeling guilty.

What started as a simple getaway quickly turned into a conversation about how difficult it can be for fathers, husbands, and providers to prioritize their own rest and well-being. We discuss the importance of stepping away from responsibilities, making time for brotherhood, and creating space to recharge before burnout sets in.

We also share what it was like planning a weekend just for us, why so many men feel guilty when they aren't being productive, and how taking care of yourself can actually make you better for the people who depend on you.

This episode is a reminder that rest isn't selfish, friendship is necessary, and every man deserves time to refill his cup.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we have an honest conversation about the weight many men carry and why so much of it goes unspoken.

From financial pressure and career uncertainty to family responsibilities, mental health struggles, and the fear of letting people down, we discuss the burdens that often stay hidden from the people closest to us. Are we protecting our partners by keeping these things to ourselves, or are we creating distance in the relationships that matter most?

The fellas share personal experiences, lessons learned, and the challenges of balancing strength, vulnerability, and responsibility as Black men. We also explore what healthy support looks like and why opening up can sometimes be harder than carrying the weight itself.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question: How do you open up to your partner when you've spent most of your life handling everything on your own?

This is one of our most transparent conversations yet and one that men and women alike can relate to.

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On this edition of Black Men Think After Dark, the fellas kick back and let the conversation go wherever it takes us.

We start by discussing a question every man has probably wrestled with: How much me time do you need to survive the week? From balancing family, work, friendships, and personal responsibilities, we talk about the importance of finding space to recharge and why many men struggle to prioritize it.

The conversation then shifts to the NBA Finals as we break down our predictions, key matchups, and who we think will walk away with the championship.

And because no After Dark conversation stays on track for too long, we somehow find ourselves debating one of life's most important questions: Which restaurant has the best bread? From Texas Roadhouse to Red Lobster and beyond, no basket is safe.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into the reality of what happens when you finally make the money you thought would fix everything, and realize it doesn’t.

We unpack the expectations we had growing up about money, from believing it would remove stress and bring happiness to thinking it would solve deeper personal issues. While money does create comfort, access, and stability, the conversation reveals what it can’t fix: mental health, discipline, relationships, and purpose.

The fellas also talk about the new pressures that come with making more, including lifestyle creep, increased responsibility, and the fear of losing what you’ve built. As the discussion evolves, we redefine what wealth really means today, shifting the focus from money to peace, time, and fulfillment.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas reflect on how our definition of peace has changed over the last 10 years. What once felt exciting, entertaining, or fulfilling in our younger years doesn’t always bring the same feeling today.

We talk about how life experiences, relationships, fatherhood, career pressure, and personal growth have shifted our priorities and forced us to redefine what peace really means. From protecting our energy and setting boundaries to choosing stability over chaos, the conversation explores how maturity changes what we value most.

The fellas also discuss the cost that can come with protecting your peace, including distancing yourself from certain environments, habits, and even people. What used to feel normal can start to feel draining as you grow.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into how social media has completely changed the way we experience relationships, dating, communication, and connection.

From validation culture and relationship “performances” online to the pressure of constant access through DMs and notifications, we unpack how technology has reshaped expectations in modern relationships. The conversation explores whether social media has made people more connected, or more emotionally distant.

We also discuss how algorithms, viral relationship content, and internet opinions are influencing the way people approach love, commitment, and communication today. Along the way, the fellas reflect on what we miss about relationships before social media and whether genuine connection is becoming harder to find in the age of attention.

In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question: Should your partner have full access to your phone and social media?

This episode is honest, relatable, and a real look at love and connection in the digital era.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into a question that hit deeper than expected: When was the last time we made a decision based solely on ourselves?

The conversation explores the weight many Black men carry daily as providers, fathers, husbands, friends, and leaders. We unpack the guilt that can come with trying to prioritize ourselves, even for something small, and why so many of us feel pressure to constantly consider everyone else before making decisions.

From responsibility and sacrifice to peace and self-care, we reflect on how often Black men suppress their own wants and needs in the name of being dependable. We also discuss the challenge of finding balance between showing up for others and allowing ourselves the freedom to choose ourselves without guilt.

This episode is honest, reflective, and a reminder that taking care of yourself shouldn’t feel selfish.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas sit down with New Orleans artist Alfred Banks for a real conversation about what it truly means to be a full-time creative.

We go beyond the music and dive into the mental and emotional weight that comes with betting on yourself. Alfred opens up about the decision to pursue music full-time, the pressure to stay consistent, and the reality of navigating an unpredictable career path as an independent artist.

The conversation also explores work-life balance, relationships, and how to maintain discipline in a space that often runs on inspiration. From dealing with doubt and comparison to building structure in a creative life, this episode gives an honest look at the mindset required to sustain a career in music.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, JD and Corey tap into a casual but real conversation sparked by a listener about hair loss and what it does to the confidence and psyche of Black men.

From rocking braids and fresh cuts to embracing the bald look, the fellas reflect on how much identity can be tied to our hair, and how losing it can impact how we see ourselves. What starts as a light conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about confidence, self-image, aging, and learning to embrace change.

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In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, JD is joined by Abib Jahleel for a powerful and necessary conversation about protecting Black boys and the responsibility that comes with raising the next generation.

The discussion centers around a tough but important question: If Black men are viewed as distrustful, how can we expect to properly raise Black boys into strong, confident men? JD and Abib unpack the impact of perception, community, and accountability when it comes to shaping young Black men.

They also speak on the importance of valuing our elders, recognizing their wisdom, honoring their experiences, and avoiding the tendency to treat them as if they no longer have purpose or voice.

Follow Abib Jahleel on social: https://www.instagram.com/icreateart.atl/

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