Black. Queer. Unapologetic.

After listening to our last conversation on Relationship Dynamics, my friend Sean felt compelled to share his own story—and trust me, you don’t want to miss this one.

In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., we dive even deeper into the complexities of relationships, exploring what works, what breaks down, and how hookup culture plays into it all. Sean opens up about his personal experiences, lessons learned, and the challenges of navigating love, sex, and connection in a world that often prioritizes the temporary over the meaningful.

Dating. Long-term relationships. Monogamy? Open? Situationships? In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I sit down with my friend Brian—someone I haven’t spoken to in a while—to unpack the many layers of modern relationships. We’re diving deep into what it means to figure out the kind of relationship that truly works for you, exploring deal breakers, communication struggles, break ups and the reality of love in today’s world.

Whether you’re single, committed, or somewhere in between, this conversation is full of insight.

Dating in 2025? A whole mess. In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I’m joined by my friend Fernando as we dive into the ups and downs of being single, navigating the wild world of dating apps, and the unique struggles that come with finding modern romance as we get older. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a few dating truths we all need to hear.

Rejection—whether in dating, work, sports, or life—is something we all face. It can often come with layers of racism, homophobia, and bias. In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I'm taking a deep dive into the painful, complex, and sometimes surprising ways rejection shows up in our lives.

I'm unpacking how rejection chips away at our confidence and self-worth over time. But it’s not all heavy—this episode is also about finding the tools to rebuild, thrive, and redefine what rejection means for us.

Tune in to learn how to see yourself as more than someone else’s decision.

Love is in the air—or maybe not. This February on Black. Queer. Unapologetic., we’re diving into all things dating and relationships. From the ups and downs of dating apps to embracing singlehood, exploring open relationships, and navigating love as BIPOC and Queer individuals, we’ve got you covered.

Join me every week for unfiltered conversations, juicy insights, and relatable stories about the complexities of modern love. Whether you’re swiping, thriving solo, or redefining what relationships mean to you, this month is all about celebrating love on our own terms.

In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I’m joined by my friend, Dr. Christopher Nizer, a trailblazing chiropractor and proud Black queer business owner. Together, we dive into his journey of building a thriving practice while navigating the unique challenges and triumphs of being both Black and queer in the business world.

Dr. Chris shares his story of resilience, authenticity, and success. We’ll explore what it means to break barriers, redefine representation, and thrive as a Black queer entrepreneur.

Being fired is never just about losing a job—it’s about navigating the emotional, financial, and personal fallout. In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I'm sharing a raw and honest reflection on the experience of being let go while living at the intersection of Black and Queer identities.

This episode is also about resilience, reclaiming your power, and redefining your narrative after a setback.

Tune in for an empowering conversation that reminds you: Being fired doesn’t define you—how you rise from it does.

Shades of Black Boy Rainbow is now "Black. Queer. Unapologetic.". This isn’t just a new name—it’s a declaration of who we are and what this space represents: a platform for bold conversations, unapologetic truths, and stories that amplify the voices of Black and Queer communities (As well as other marginalized communities).

Tune in to hear Jojo share what’s in store for Black. Queer. Unapologetic., the kind of stories we’ll tell, and how this podcast will continue to inspire, challenge, and connect us all.

Join the movement. Be unapologetic."

Welcome to the next chapter. What began as Shades of a Black Boy Rainbow is now Black. Queer. Unapologetic. This isn’t just a name change; it’s a bold evolution. We're doubling down on raw, authentic conversations that celebrate the intersections of Blackness, queerness, and unapologetic self-expression.

In this relaunch, expect deeper dives, fiercer truths, and a platform that amplifies the voices of those living boldly and authentically. Whether you’re here to feel seen, to be inspired, or to challenge your perspective, this is your space.

Join us as we continue to celebrate every shade, every story, and every truth. Because being Black, Queer, and Unapologetic isn’t just a tagline—it’s a way of life.

If you date a lot you're called a serial dater, if you choose not to date but still get yours in the bedroom you get called a ho or slut shamed. Dating is not easy for everyone and for me it has not been easy. I've chosen not to date even though it's in my nature. The Ho Phase has been activated and this is how it's going....

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