Gay bars have always been a staple of queer culture, but for BIPOC folks, the experience isn’t always welcoming. This week, I’m joined by Clif, a DJ and no stranger to the insides of LGBTQ nightlife, to unpack what it’s really like navigating queer nightlife as Black and Brown people. We getting real about the need for truly inclusive spaces for ALL OF US.

Are traditional gay bars still serving our community as a whole, or is it time to rethink what safe spaces look like for all of us? Let’s talk about it.

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Ever wondered what it’s like to go on a gay cruise? Well, I did too—reluctantly. In this episode, I break down my first experience on a gay cruise in 2023, why the marketing didn’t appeal to me as a Black gay man, and how going with a large group just didn’t work for me. But plot twist—I went again in 2024, and this time, I did it my way.

From the cost (because, baby, this is not a budget trip) to the different groups and meetups (Bears, veterans, BIPOC, Gaymers, and more), I’m sharing everything I wish I had known before stepping on board. If you’re BIPOC and considering a gay cruise, I’ve got insights on what to expect, how to find your people, and whether it’s worth the hype.

And let’s not forget—there’s more than one company out here hosting gay cruises, so if you’re thinking of booking, do your research and find out what works for you!

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Have you ever felt like your body wasn’t enough? Like no matter what you did, you were either too much or not enough for the spaces you existed in? In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., we’re getting real about body image struggles.

From the pressures to fit into the ideal gay body—lean, muscular, light-skinned, and hyper-masculine—to the extreme lengths people go to for validation, we’re unpacking the harm, the hustle, and the healing.

This is a conversation about learning to see ourselves beyond the way we’re seen. About reclaiming our bodies, rejecting toxic beauty standards, and finding spaces where we’re celebrated—not just tolerated.

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We’ve spent all February talking about relationships—being single, dating apps, open relationships, hookup culture, and everything in between. But today, we’re closing this series with the most important relationship of all: the one you have with yourself.

In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to fall in love with yourself—not in a superficial or conceited way, but in a way that brings real confidence, peace, and joy. We’re talking about why self-love has to come from within (not external validation), how to recognize when you’re not loving yourself enough, and practical ways to build a healthier, stronger relationship with you.

Because when you truly love yourself, you stop settling, you stop chasing validation, and you start living life on your own terms.

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After listening to our last conversation on Relationship Dynamics, my friend Sean felt compelled to share his own story—and trust me, you don’t want to miss this one.

In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., we dive even deeper into the complexities of relationships, exploring what works, what breaks down, and how hookup culture plays into it all. Sean opens up about his personal experiences, lessons learned, and the challenges of navigating love, sex, and connection in a world that often prioritizes the temporary over the meaningful.

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Dating. Long-term relationships. Monogamy? Open? Situationships? In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I sit down with my friend Brian—someone I haven’t spoken to in a while—to unpack the many layers of modern relationships. We’re diving deep into what it means to figure out the kind of relationship that truly works for you, exploring deal breakers, communication struggles, break ups and the reality of love in today’s world.

Whether you’re single, committed, or somewhere in between, this conversation is full of insight.

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Dating in 2025? A whole mess. In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I’m joined by my friend Fernando as we dive into the ups and downs of being single, navigating the wild world of dating apps, and the unique struggles that come with finding modern romance as we get older. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a few dating truths we all need to hear.

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Rejection—whether in dating, work, sports, or life—is something we all face. It can often come with layers of racism, homophobia, and bias. In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I'm taking a deep dive into the painful, complex, and sometimes surprising ways rejection shows up in our lives.

I'm unpacking how rejection chips away at our confidence and self-worth over time. But it’s not all heavy—this episode is also about finding the tools to rebuild, thrive, and redefine what rejection means for us.

Tune in to learn how to see yourself as more than someone else’s decision.

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Love is in the air—or maybe not. This February on Black. Queer. Unapologetic., we’re diving into all things dating and relationships. From the ups and downs of dating apps to embracing singlehood, exploring open relationships, and navigating love as BIPOC and Queer individuals, we’ve got you covered.

Join me every week for unfiltered conversations, juicy insights, and relatable stories about the complexities of modern love. Whether you’re swiping, thriving solo, or redefining what relationships mean to you, this month is all about celebrating love on our own terms.

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In this episode of Black. Queer. Unapologetic., I’m joined by my friend, Dr. Christopher Nizer, a trailblazing chiropractor and proud Black queer business owner. Together, we dive into his journey of building a thriving practice while navigating the unique challenges and triumphs of being both Black and queer in the business world.

Dr. Chris shares his story of resilience, authenticity, and success. We’ll explore what it means to break barriers, redefine representation, and thrive as a Black queer entrepreneur.

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