How do we respond when we think other individuals or our church collectively needs to grow in an area? We can often fall into the trap of wanting to advance the kingdom of God within the life of our church community but do so through means that are not kingdom methods. Anger, frustration, impatience, and divisiveness, are not what God wants from or for his people. We will look at important principles in this special episode of how we can effectively respond when we would like to see change in the body of Christ. Of course, the Bible encourages us to confront inequity, call out sin, and to deal honestly with areas that have been neglected, but doing so with love rather than giving in to bitterness can make all the difference.  We will look at simple principles to help us strive for effective, loving and godly confrontation, when necessary, rather than falling into the biblical category of complaining which is not rooted in love or being constructive.