Bootstraps

This week Lisa sits down with someone very close to her heart — her oldest nephew Bobby Whittingham, the 4th generation carrying forward the legacy of Whittingham Meats, a South Side Chicago family business, built from pure hustle and grit.

The story goes way back, to Lisa's grandfather Dixie, who went from working the deli counter at "the Jewel," to buying a refrigerated truck for 100 bucks from a guy at a bar, and literally driving restaurant to restaurant selling meat out of the back. Today, the Whittingham name is part of South Side Chicago history, even appearing on a sign in right field at Chicago White Sox "Comiskey Park."

But long before business and responsibility, Bobby was just a kid playing with toys in his Italian Nonna's "frunchroom", where family stories, traditions, and values quietly took root.

Bobby & Lisa reminisce on stories from the front lines of the "Pandorama" in 2020. When the world shut down, Bobby stepped up with a brilliant pivot: creating the now-legendary "Corona Care Package," helping the family business adapt overnight and continue serving the community during one of the most uncertain moments in modern history. It was a powerful reminder that sometimes leadership shows up not with a title, but with creativity, instinct, and courage.

In this conversation, Bobby also shares:

• Why he's a strong advocate for therapy and self-awareness.
• How becoming a father soon is reshaping the way he thinks about legacy — not just in business, but in life.

Bobby embodies the Bootstraps Boogie mindset — trusting your intuition, adapting when life throws curveballs, and not waiting for the storms to stop, but learning how to dance in the rain.

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• Visit whittinghammeats.com for any of their seasonal packages, value packages or any of the amazing meat products they offer, and get FREE delivery on orders of $150 or more.
• Follow Bobby on Instagram @Bobwhitts

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Therapy resources:

https://www.phylliskrystal.com/

If you or a loved one is struggling with traumatic memories/PTSD, this therapy is very effective:

https://www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr/

Lisa is an EMDR-trained Therapist, and a Certified Music & Sound Practitioner::

https://www.lisawhittinghamlcpc.com/

Contact Lisa: DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt or email: [email protected]

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🎶 Bootstrap Boogie Playlist 🎶

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-KL5XY5Cjvo99189zwS-JNuMSKUtw31_&si=CueyFzWUUkcrUfvC

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Write in with stories of people you admire for their courage, creativity, leadership. [email protected]

or

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. Thecontent presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

Bootstrap Boogie is named in honor of my Nonna — a woman who knew hardship intimately, but who also knew joy, music, and how to shake her tailfeather! She believed in dancing (& baking!) through life, even during the hardest seasons.

It feels exactly right that my first guests of this newly re-imagined chapter are my effervescent cousin Stacy Whittingham, joined by her darling daughter Ali.

Stacy and I were Nonna's eldest granddaughters — we shared a close bond, and were two of her favorite dance partners! With Stacy, there is always laughter, music, and a kind of lightness that never disappears, even when life is heavy.

Stacy & Ali also both understand the creative process deeply. They are both writers ~ & Stacy published a book, A Mother's Gift. She knows the courage it takes to put your voice into the world — especially when telling the truth might ruffle some feathers. And they both understand something just as vital: the medicine of JOY.

Together, Stacy and Ali embody that joy. Their presence is warm, playful, and deeply human — a reminder that creativity, connection, and laughter are not luxuries, but lifelines.

In a world that feels increasingly heavy, this conversation is an invitation to remember what keeps us moving: ✨ music & dancing ✨ storytelling ✨ generational love ✨ and the radical act of choosing JOY

This episode is a dance — with familglia, with memory, and with the parts of ourselves that still know how to feel light!

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• To learn more about the Angel Band Project: https://www.angelbandproject.org

• Stacy's Book: "A Mother's Gift"

• 🎶 Bootstrap Boogie Playlist 🎶 https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvp9Y5awMerbL5_0-lKoLj7d2AxIz4jJa&si=38PaDyMr_5cdPxQK

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Write in with stories of people you admire for their courage, creativity, leadership. [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to

be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The

content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should

not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the

content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

This week I'm joined by Catherine Law, Executive Producer and Co-Host of the hit podcast Dear Chelsea (now streaming on NETFLIX!) — and fun fact, she's also the personal and professional partner to my producer, Brad!

We go behind the scenes of making a wildly successful advice podcast, and talk about what it's really like working alongside your husband, AND comedy legend Chelsea Handler. Catherine shares her creative journey, insider stories from Dear Chelsea, and why humor can be one of the most powerful ways to tell the truth and feel less alone.

Expect smart laughs, Chi-town grit, & honest conversation ~ come for the laughs and stay for the grounded, unexpected clarity!

During the interview, we talked about somatic pain, and somatic pain therapy. Catherine shared some podcast episodes from Alan Gordon, LCSW that helped shed some light on the subject:

• Stop Chronic Pain

• We're All Just A Bundle of Neural Pathways

• How Can I Heal My Pain By Making My Brain Feel Safe?

Follow Catherine For More:

• IG: @cathalizabeth

• TikTok: @flashcadabra

Catherine's Podcasts:

• Dear Chelsea

• Paper Ghosts

• The Daily Zeitgeist

• The Dylan Hour

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Write in with stories of people you admire for their courage, creativity, leadership. [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to

be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The

content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should

not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the

content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

Tommy Holl, aka The Real Elf, opens up about surviving cancer, charming Barbara Corcoran (yes — she backed him on Shark Tank!), and choosing radical joy in the face of grief. (You'll also get juicy behind-the-scenes secrets from Shark Tank!). So pull up your bootstraps - and maybe a Candy Cane martini! This one's full of heart, hustle, and elf-ing courage.

🎄 Learn more about Tommy's magical mission, order an Elfgram or book Tommy for an event at TheRealElf.com

🎄 Follow Tommy on socials @therealelftommy

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VOCAB OF THE DAY: e·bul·lience "the quality of being cheerful and full of energy; exuberance."

AFFIRMATION OF THE DAY: "Joy is an act of resistance."

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CAUSES WE CARE ABOUT:

• The Florence Immigrant & Refugee Rights Project:

***WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU***

Are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa? Or do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share (live/email/or voicemail)? Lisa is seeking guests with personal stories of resilience…in addition to musicians, artists, healers, comedians, activists - or anyone using their gifts and voice to help heal our planet.

Write to us at: [email protected]

DM Lisa on IG :@sita_whitt or leave a voicemail at: (872) 215-2084

BOOTSTRAPS is produced by Lisa Whittingham And Brad DIckert. Edited and Mixed by Brad DIckert.

DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to

be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The

content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should

not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the

content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

This week I sit down with the incredible Licia Sky — a somatic educator, artist, singer-songwriter, and bodyworker. She helps people reconnect with themselves using mindful meditation in movement, writing, and voice as tools for attunement, healing, and connection. She has also been teaching expanded awareness in workshops around the world, and Licia is also the co-founder of the Trauma Research Foundation, and creative partner (and wife) of The Body Keeps the Score author Dr. Bessel van der Kolk … (Which basically makes her the Beyoncé of trauma healing.)

We talk about why your body remembers *everything* (even the stuff you wish it didn't), how sound can crack open healing, and why play isn't just for kids — it's for all of us who are a little emotionally crispy.

Come for the wisdom. Stay for the laughs!

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https://music.apple.com/us/artist/licia-sky

https://www.pesi.com/speaker/licia-sky

https://traumaresearchfoundation.org/

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

If you're overwhelmed, tired, or just trying to make sense of the wacky world we're livin in — this episode is for you. You're not alone.

If you're paying attention…It's a lot. And it's real.

Here in Chicago — families are literally being ripped apart by ICE. We are living through a moment that is asking us to step up. This episode is a reflection. Not to "debate" or "politicize." But to remember… that all this madness is rooted in the same core truth: Every human being deserves safety, dignity, and the right to belong.

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Support the abandoned immigrant children in the courtrooms:

• https://acaciajustice.org/

• [email protected]

• https://www.chicagoappleseed.org/court-watching/

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

Get ready for sparks! ⚡ Two fierce, funny & fab Irish firecrackers, Pat Brady and Maureen Muldoon, sit down to stir the pot in Same Soup, Different Seasoning. Laughs, insight, and a little chaos guaranteed.Two worlds. One table. In this debut of Same Soup, Different Seasoning, former Republican National Committee member, federal prosecutor, & political analyst Pat Brady sits down with me, and my dear friend, Chicago spiritual leader, and creative force Maureen Muldoon for a spirited, laugh-filled conversation. They bring different flavors, challenge assumptions, and show how curiosity, humor, and honest dialogue can start to bridge our divided world. Get ready to stir the pot with these two forces of nature!

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to\ be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

Today we chat with more fam from SOUTH SIDE!! (on my Irish side)...my "reMARKble" cousin, Mark Ishaug — CEO of *Thresholds* in Chicago, longtime HIV/AIDS and mental-health champion, civic collaborator, and unapologetic optimist. He shares tales from the front lines of Chicago, amid the chaos of ICE Raids and the government shut down. Somehow through all of it, Mark continues to tirelessly instill hope ~ creating a lighthouse for thousands of persons with mental illnesses and substance use conditions in Illinois. He exemplifies what it means to build institutions that heal, instead of just managing problems. This episode will inspire you to ask: how do we lead with love?

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To volunteer, donate or learn about services offered:

https://www.thresholds.org/

For more of Mark:

Love: The Four-Letter Word That Can Transform How You Lead, Run, and Work in Your Non-Profit

IG: ish_on_insta

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❤️ Tool of the week: Child's Pose

Balasana, or child's pose, is a restorative full-body yoga technique.

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/childs-pose

❤️ Mantras of the week:

"Power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic."

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that."

~ Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

This week on *Bootstraps,* we're going back to the South Side, for some laughs & comfort food — to the "Frunchroom" … We're celebrating Nonna — our funny, fierce, gnocchi making, chocolate chip cookie-baking matriarch. You'll get a sneak peek into my funny famigliá - and hear stories recorded live from Sister Lakes, Michigan, where we put the fun in dysFUNction at our family reunion this summer! My cousins, aunts, and uncles share favorite mems of Nonna. From her blueberry muffins, perfectly packaged with love & tinfoil into empty Marshall Field's shirt boxes, (with a sprinkle of powdered sugar), to dancing the Funky Chicken at weddings. Storytelling is healing…so this episode is a love letter to my family, to all of you, and to the woman who taught us that resilience, humor, and a good meal can heal almost anything…and of course, how to keep showing up…by pullin' up those bootstraps!

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SchoolHouse Rock: Schoolhouse Rock - America Rock - The Preamble

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🍪 Tool of the Week: Do one thing that brings you joy. {If it's something creative, even better!}

🍪 Mantra of the week:

🎶 "We the People …In order to form a more perfect Union, 🎶Establish Justice, 🎶Insure domestic Tranquility. Provide for the common defense🎶Promote the general Welfare, And secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity. 🎶Do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America."🎶🎶 → THIS is our rulebook for how to run the country. By the people. For the people!

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If you are struggling or need more support, Sign up for Lisa's virtual healing group: https://tr.ee/Reclaim_You or email her at: [email protected] Website: www.lisawhittinghamlcpc.com/

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• Find the # to call your Congressperson, call: 855-971-2533

• Find # for your Senator (& demand they protect healthcare & our communities, vs Billionaires) call: 844-899-8261

• Not sure what to say?

• "My name is ___ and I am a constituent of Representative ___… Can you let me know their position on [bill]?" or "I ask Senator ___ to protect Medicaid & healtcare" (For more templates: www.aclu-il.org/en/talking-your-representatives )

• Support the abandoned immigrant children in the courtrooms:

• https://acaciajustice.org/

• [email protected]

• https://www.chicagoappleseed.org/court-watching/

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to

be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The

content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should

not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the

content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.

In this soulful (and spicy) kickoff, I sat down with my radiant, spiritual mentor, a Chicago native, and 4th generation intuitive guide, Sonia Tully! We got real about navigating these apocalyptic times - with heart… AND humor. As Sonia's Nana taught her: "The situation is critical, but doesn't have to be serious." Join us for big Chi-town energy!

✨Learn more about all that Sonia has going on, HERE ✨

• To get the # to call your Congressperson, call: 855-971-2533

• To call your Senator (& demand they protect healthcare & our communities vs Billionaires) call: 844-899-8261

• To learn more about volunteering to support the abandoned immigrant children in the courtrooms:

• https://acaciajustice.org/

• [email protected]

• https://www.chicagoappleseed.org/court-watching/

✨VOCAB OF THE DAY: "weird" = Old English wyrd, meaning: "Out of this world"

✨AFFIRMATION OF THE DAY: "Brilliant spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds." (Albert Einstein)

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✨A few tools to help you hold the chaos lightly:

1. Ground & Pause: Before & after diving into headlines, feet on the floor, five deep breaths (loooong exhales). Then read — from your body, not your panic. Limit consumption: Protect your peace like it's your last brain cell.

2. Humming - quickest way to activate your Vagus Nerve (the healing nerve of the body). Calms your nervous system (learn more here) : https://drarielleschwartz.com/vagal-toning-a-journey-home-to-self)

3. Action Over Outrage - If something moves you, DON'T JUST LET IT FESTER IN YOUR BODY…channel it — find a small way to act - donate, show up to a rally, share something about an issue that moves you on your socials, check in on someone, call your Congress person or Senator. Volunteer. Talk about it. Create something. Energy moves better when it has somewhere to go. Action metabolizes anxiety.

4. Laugh - Every damn day ( : The situation is critical, but doesn't have to be serious 🤡

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We want to hear from YOU!!

Do you have an inspirational "Bootstraps" story you'd like to share? Or are you struggling with an issue / need advice / tools from Lisa?

Write to us at: [email protected]

or

DM Lisa on IG: @sita_whitt

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DISCLAIMER:

The Bootstraps podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or advice. The content presented reflects the personal views and opinions of the host and/or guests and should not be considered clinical or therapeutic guidance. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and the Host, Lisa Whittingham, LCPC, or any of the guests featured on the show. If you are in need of mental health support, please consult a licensed professional in your area. By listening to this podcast, you agree not to hold the host, guests, or any affiliated parties liable for any psychological, emotional, legal, or physical harm or damages that may arise from the content or discussions shared on the show. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please contact emergency services or a mental health professional immediately.