Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD

In this episode, we delve into relationship-centered obsessions, which affect about 20% of the general population. Whether you're single and worried about finding the right partner or concerned that you're too damaged for a healthy relationship, this episode explores how these obsessions manifest and what you can do about them. Learn about mindfulness techniques, building self-trust, creating healthy boundaries, and tolerating uncertainty. Tune in for practical strategies to navigate singlehood while managing relationship OCD.

00:00 Surprising Facts About Relationship Obsessions

02:35 Common Intrusive Thoughts and Challenges

04:28 Practical Strategies for Managing Relationship OCD

04:52 Mindfulness Techniques for Dating

07:05 Building Self-Trust and Tolerating Uncertainty

09:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

09:56 Closing Remarks and Next Episode Preview

✅ Break free from the mental spiral so you can fully embrace the love you deserve. Download my 10 Tips for ROCD Checklist here.

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Are you struggling to know if your relationship doubts are real or just OCD? In this episode, we dive deep into relationship breakups, how to recognize when it's time to leave, and the difference between relationship OCD and genuine relationship problems.

🎧 Episode Highlights:

00:00:00 Introduction: The struggle between real doubts and relationship OCD

00:02:13 Signs it's time to break up:

00:03:45 Why we stay when we should leave:

00:05:00 Relationship OCD vs. Real Problems:

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

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Next Week: Tune in to learn how relationship doubts manifest whether you're dating, single, married, or divorced.

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Super excited to introduce Trish Blackwell, host of the top-ranked Confidence Podcast with over 6 million downloads, on today’s episode of the Bossing Up Overcoming OCD show! Trish shares her journey of high achievement and how overachieving impacted her self-trust and confidence. We chat about the intertwined relationship between self-trust and confidence, and discuss practical tools to build these essential skills. From her background as a competitive swimmer to overcoming eating disorders and OCD-like tendencies, Trish emphasizes the importance of being a friend to yourself and developing daily habits like journaling and self-validation. If you’re dealing with OCD, struggling with self-trust, or simply want to boost your confidence, this episode is packed with actionable insights. Tune in to learn how to manage life’s curveballs and build resilience through self-trust.

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00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Guest Trish Blackwell

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💖 Grab the 10 Signs and Tips for Relationship OCD Checklist

ROCD can make you feel like "too much" or "needy" in your relationships. As a therapist and relationship coach, I’ve worked with many professional women who struggle with these feelings, and I understand how difficult it can be.

I’ll share some personal stories and give you tips on how to manage the overthinking and intrusive thoughts that come with ROCD. You’ll learn how to stop asking for constant reassurance, recognize fear-driven behaviors, and take a pause before acting on urges. I’ll also talk about how practicing self-validation can help you feel more confident and build healthier relationships.

Throughout the episode, I’ll help you challenge the false ideas your mind creates and encourage you to be vulnerable. You’re not too much—your feelings are valid, and you deserve healthy, strong relationships.

Join my Obsess Less, Love More program for more support in overcoming ROCD and building better relationships.

00:00 – Introduction to Bossing Up Overcoming OCD

✅ Break free from the mental spiral so you can fully embrace the love you deserve. Download my 10 Tips for ROCD Checklist here.

✨ Feel deeply connected to your partner without overthinking every interaction. Join my Obsess Less, Love More program to create confidence in your relationship.

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Have you ever questioned whether you’re truly in love or simply afraid of change? It’s a common experience, and in this episode, I talk about the doubts that often arise in relationships, especially during major transitions or decisions.

I hope you’ll learn why these thoughts are a normal part of relationships and how they don’t always indicate a deeper issue. I’ll share actionable strategies to shift uncertainty into clarity by reconnecting with your personal goals and appreciating the positive aspects of your connection.

Plus, I’ll introduce my Obsess Less, Love More program, which provides the tools and support you need to overcome relationship anxiety and build a more confident, fulfilling love life.

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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Are you constantly anxious about your partner leaving? You're not alone. In this episode, I talk about abandonment issues and how they affect your relationships.

You will hear how to spot the signs of clinginess and the constant need for reassurance. To top it off, you'll discover how to combat these fears.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction: Understanding Abandonment Issues

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✨Check out my new program Obsess Less, Love More to create confidence in your relationship.

*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

✨ Take the Relationship OCD Quiz to gain clarity and start your journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling connection with your true love today!

I’ll explore the difference between jealousy and envy, unpack how jealousy can sneakily show up in your relationships, and talk about the impact it has on your mental health and connection with others. Most importantly, I’m sharing actionable strategies to help you manage jealousy OCD, including how to acknowledge intrusive thoughts, use exposure exercises, and practice gratitude.

As you begin a new year, it’s time to let go of the weight of jealousy and embrace a mindset of growth and abundance. I’ll also tell you about my Obsess Less, Love More program, which is designed to help those of you navigating relationship OCD build clarity, confidence, and deeper connections.

00:00 Introduction and New Year’s Greetings

00:41 Today’s Topic: Jealousy and OCD

02:16 Understanding Jealousy in Relationships

06:12 Sneaky Ways Jealousy Manifests

19:38 Strategies to Overcome Jealousy OCD

30:16 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics

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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

In this episode, I dive into how the honeymoon phase of relationships can cause significant worry for OCD sufferers, particularly those fretting about falling out of love or changing dynamics over time. We break down why it's normal for the initial dopamine highs to fade and how to transform that fear of change into excitement for the future. 

You'll learn that the true strength of a relationship isn't measured by an endless honeymoon phase but by consistent, loving actions even when the sparks aren't flying. Stay tuned as we explore actionable strategies, including mindset shifts, embracing curiosity, and fostering deep connections through shared hobbies and conscious effort. And hey, don't forget to check out my Obsessed Less, Love More program to cultivate confidence and clarity in your relationship.

00:00 Understanding the Honeymoon Phase

01:36 The Dopamine Effect

02:41 Coping with Relationship OCD

03:02 Realistic Expectations of the Honeymoon Phase

06:08 Embracing Change in Relationships

08:52 Strategies for Maintaining Connection

14:36 Summary and Final Thoughts

17:01 Upcoming Topics and Program Launch

✨ Struggling with doubts in your relationship? Take the Relationship OCD Quiz to gain clarity and start your journey toward healthier, more fulfilling connection with your true love today!

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 ✨Content is proudly sponsored by NOCD. Go to NOCD.com/savage to get evidence-based OCD treatment from US locations & abroad!

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✨Check out my new program Obsess Less, Love More to create confidence in your relationship.

Our mindset influences our self-esteem and relationships. I share my personal growth journey and statistical insights, noting that 85% of people experience low self-esteem. Discover actionable strategies to boost your confidence, improve self-worth, and enhance connections. 

You'll learn why low self-esteem often leads to self-sabotage and how to combat these thoughts by focusing on your vision for relationships, avoiding comparison traps, and practicing gratitude. Let's debunk the myth that you need perfect self-love to have healthy relationships and embrace the notion that we are all worthy of love. Join me in transforming relationship doubts into clarity and confidence.

00:00 Introduction to Mindset

01:09 Understanding Low Self-Esteem

02:57 Personal Journey and Overcoming Self-Sabotage

04:13 Relationship OCD and Self-Esteem

06:24 Debunking the Self-Love Myth

13:22 Transforming Relationship Doubts

16:00 Gratitude and Positive Mindset

17:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

✨ Struggling with doubts in your relationship? Take the Relationship OCD Quiz to gain clarity and start your journey toward healthier, more fulfilling connection with your true love today!

➡️ Grab your free 15-minute consult with Erin here. 🎥 

 ✨Content is proudly sponsored by NOCD. Go to NOCD.com/savage to get evidence-based OCD treatment from US locations & abroad!

➡️To rate the show: scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, & select "Write a Review" to let others know what you loved most about the episode! ✍️ Thank you!

✨Check out my new program Obsess Less, Love More to create confidence in your relationship.

💖 Struggling with doubts in your relationship? Take the Relationship OCD Quiz to gain clarity and start your journey toward healthier, more fulfilling connection with your true love today!

Mid-December can be challenging if you're dealing with relationship anxiety or relationship OCD. With the added pressure of holiday cheer and gift-giving, it can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we explore what's normal versus obsessional in relationship concerns, provide behind-the-scenes tips, and offer a quiz to help you determine if your concerns are reasonable. 

Learn how to differentiate between typical relationship doubts and obsessional worries and find strategies to overcome them. We also discuss a study highlighting the higher stress and depression levels in those with relationship OCD and introduce a 12-week program to help build true fulfillment in your relationship. Tune in next week for a discussion on self-worth and mindset as we head into the new year.

00:00 Introduction to Types of Worry and Holiday Stress

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✨ Content is proudly sponsored by NOCD. Go to NOCD.com/savage to get evidence-based treatment from US locations & abroad!