Boundaries in Relationships 

Season 2 | Episode 8

How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships. 

So Good Moments: 

• How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship. 
• The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability. 
• Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them. 
• What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person. 
• How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life. 
• How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail. 

Questions for Reflection:

• How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode? 
• What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important? 
• Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give? 

Resources:

Book: Boundaries 

Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One 

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood 

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