Brandon The Dom

By Brandon The Dom

Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your b... more

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How many episodes does Brandon The Dom have?

The podcast currently has 90 episodes available.

Brandon The Dom episodes:

April 29, 2026Why Grief Can Kill—or Intensify—Your Sexual Desire
What happens when grief changes your relationship with sex in ways you don’t expect? This video explores how loss impacts desire, intimacy, and erotic identity, helping you understand your shifting sexuality, release shame, and navigate sex with compassion during times of grief.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:46) - How Does Our Sexuality Naturally Change?
(05:25) - The 5 Stages of Grief
(08:34) - How Does Grief Affect Your Sex Life?
(12:09) - How to Navigate Sex During Grief
(14:05) - Sitting With Intense Emotions
(19:08) - Communicate With Your Partners
(21:15) - Don’t Feel Guilty Asking for Help
(23:04) - This Too Shall Pass

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Grief Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/grief
📖 Sexless Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship
📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
...more
27min
April 29, 2026Stop Believing the Illusion of Total Control
What if the control you think you have in a D/s relationship is nothing more than an illusion? Explore how dominance is built—not through force or perfection, but through intention, consent, self-mastery, and real control.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:16) - Why Would Someone Give Over Control?
(03:28) - Why Would Someone Want Control?
(06:38) - The Illusion of Control
(08:55) - Step 1: Master Yourself Before You Master Another
(12:57) - Step 2: Ask for Control
(15:05) - Step 3: Start Small, Show Competency, & Build Trust
(16:05) - Step 4: Ask for More Control (or Let Them Ask to Give It)
(17:01) - Step 5: Give Back Control When You Abuse It
(18:07) - Step 1: Submit from a Secure Place
(19:50) - Step 2: Know Your Yeses and Nos
(22:25) - Step 3: Determine What Might Feel Good to Give Over
(27:57) - Step 4: Start Small & Build Trust

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Control Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control
📖 Dom/sub relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 How to Be a Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/how-to-be-a-dom
...more
31min
March 31, 2026BDSM Q&A: Intense Sexual Feelings, Dom Drop, Truth About 24/7 Dynamics, Communication in BDSM
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the Red Room Forums and YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:24) - Q1: Dealing With Intense Sexual Feelings
(04:00) - Q2: Dom Drop
(08:38) - Q3: Truth About 24/7 Dynamics
(16:24) - Q4: Why So Much Communication in BDSM

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM
...more
23min
March 31, 2026The Submission That Isn't: Identifying Topping from the Bottom
‍Are you struggling with topping from the bottom in your D/s dynamic? Learn what topping from the bottom really means, why it happens, and how Dominants and submissives can rebuild trust, improve communication, and create deeper, more satisfying power exchange relationships.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:16) - What Is Topping From the Bottom?
(03:32) - What Isn’t Topping From the Bottom
(07:06) - Topping From the Bottom vs. Bratting
(08:13) - Why Do Submissives Top From the Bottom?
(15:59) - How to Address Topping From the Bottom
(16:27) - What the Dom Can Do
(24:54) - What the Submissive Can Do

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Topping Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/topping-from-the-bottom
📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 BDSM Scene Crafting : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene
📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support
📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 Boundaries & Limits: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Power Exchange: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/power-exchange
📖 Submissive Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-mindset
...more
40min
March 31, 2026 Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage
Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Touch Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch
📖 Tantric Eye Gazing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing
📖 Tantric Breathing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing
📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
📖 Tantric Yoni Massage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/yoni-massage
...more
18min
March 31, 2026Service Top: An Overlooked Role (Which Can Make You A Better Dom)
What does it mean to be a Service Top in BDSM? Discover how giving from the Top can be just as fulfilling as receiving, why Dominants should learn to serve too, and how genuine service deepens trust, pleasure, and connection.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:15) - What Is a Service Top?
(03:50) - Why Be of Service as a Top?
(05:29) - Why Be of Service as a Dom?
(07:23) - How to Be of Service as a Top

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Service Top Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-top
📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
📖 Service Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub
📖 Dominant Archetypes: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/types-of-doms
📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
📖 Boundaries & Limits: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits
...more
16min
March 03, 2026BDSM Q&A: Discipline Without Punishment, Praise Kinks, Trust Building & Attachment Styles in D/s
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:16) - Q1: Trust Building After Harm
(06:52) - Q2: Discipline Without Punishment
(12:02) - Q3: Giving Spiritual Praise
(15:51) - Q4: Opposite Attachment Styles in D/s Dynamics

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
📖 Trust Building: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline
📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Attachment Styles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style
📖 Tantric Eye Gazing: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing
...more
30min
March 03, 2026Supporting a Traumatized Partner in BDSM & Sex
How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:17) - What Is Trauma?
(02:36) - How Trauma May Manifest in BDSM
(05:33) - How Trauma Impacts Pleasure
(06:14) - How Trauma Impacts Power Exchange
(07:35) - How to Support a Partner with Trauma
(10:02) - Stage 1: Safety & Stabilization
(16:59) - Stage 2: Remembrance and Mourning
(18:57) - Stage 3: Reconnecting and Integrating
(28:27) - Stage 4: Consolidation and Resolution

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Trauma Support Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support
📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
📖 Sexual Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety
📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink
🔗 Trauma-Informed Consensual Kink: https://www.instagram.com/traumainformedkink
🔗 The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture: https://amzn.to/47cfOIJ
🔗 Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair: https://amzn.to/3J21zNr
🔗 PESI: https://www.pesi.com/
🔗 NAMI Family Support Groups: https://www.nami.org/support-education/support-groups/nami-family-support-group/
...more
32min
March 03, 2026How to Navigate Age Gap Relationships (and Other Power Imbalances)
What is an age gap relationship, and can it really work? Explore the dynamics, benefits, and potential risks of age gap relationships, and learn how informed consent, communication, and mutual respect can make them fulfilling and nurturing for both partners.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:16) - What Are Age Gap Relationships?
(01:59) - Why Would Someone Want to Be in an Age Gap Relationship?
(02:34) - Why a Younger Person Might Want to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship
(04:30) - Why an Older Person Might Want to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship
(06:36) - Mutual Intentions and Considerations
(07:26) - How to Mitigate the Risks of Power Imbalance
(09:09) - Fallacy of Age Equals Maturity
(11:36) - Fallacy of Power Imbalances Leading to Exploitation
(13:07) - How to Engage in an Age Gap Relationship
(18:41) - How to Express Concerns About Age Gap Relationships

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Age-Gap Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/age-gap-relationships
📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
...more
23min
March 03, 2026Make Roleplay Hotter, Easier, and Less Awkward
What makes roleplay sex so exciting? Discover how erotic roleplay engages your most powerful sexual organ—the brain—while helping you explore taboo desires, deepen intimacy, and have a lot more fun in and out of the bedroom.
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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dominant Dirty Talk Masterclass: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dominant-dirty-talk-masterclass
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:15) - What is Sexual Roleplay?
(01:02) - Why People Roleplay
(03:45) - How to Roleplay
(05:44) - Levels of Roleplay
(08:36) - What To Do When It Feels Awkward
(09:23) - Returning to Reality

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Roleplay Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/roleplay-sex
📖 Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex
📖 Shadow Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play
📖 Dealing with Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
...more
12min

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The podcast currently has 90 episodes available.

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