Communicating with a New Partner After DivorceIn this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth and Pete explore how to effectively communicate with new partners after divorce. They're joined by Dr. Etel Leit, a human communication researcher, prominent figure in psychology and education, and founder of Sign Shine, a family center in Beverly Hills. The conversation focuses on breaking old patterns and learning to relate to new partners, especially when communication issues contributed to the end of a marriage.Seth, Pete, and Dr. Leit dive into the importance of self-reflection and awareness before entering a new relationship. They discuss the fantasy of a perfect future partner and the need to address what went wrong in the previous marriage first. Dr. Leit introduces her concept of the "3 Vs" crucial for a successful relationship: Vibe, Values, and Vision. She explains each in detail, offering valuable insights into how these elements contribute to a strong partnership. Additionally, Dr. Leit shares the "3 As" essential for effective communication: Awareness, Acceptance, and Action.Questions we answer in this episode:

• How can I avoid repeating negative patterns in a new relationship?
• What are the key factors for a strong, lasting partnership?
• How do I know if I'm ready to date again after divorce?

Key Takeaways:

• Self-reflection and awareness are essential before entering a new relationship
• Shared values and vision are crucial for a successful partnership
• Effective communication, built on awareness, acceptance, and action, is vital

This episode is packed with practical advice and thought-provoking ideas to help you navigate the world of dating and relationships post-divorce. Whether you're considering a new partnership or already in one, Seth, Pete, and Dr. Leit's insights will give you the tools to build a stronger, healthier relationship.Links & Notes

• Find Dr. Leit on the web here or here, Instagram, or LinkedIn
• See Dr. Leit’s books onBarnes & Noble or Amazon
• Schedule a consult with Seth
• Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!

• (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
• (02:07) - Meet Dr. Etel Leit
• (03:31) - Old Patterns of Communication
• (05:52) - Clean Your Water
• (06:49) - Shifting Mindset Post-Divorce
• (11:22) - Three Vs: Vibe, Values, Vision
• (22:45) - Choosing the Same Type
• (24:40) - New Relationships
• (31:41) - Three As: Awareness, Acceptance, Action
• (38:12) - Finding Dr. Leit
• (40:27) - Listener Question

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