Built For This

Built For This

By Kane PattersonParentingKids & Family
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Built For This episodes

  • EP 04 - Delivery Day!

    In this episode, I take you inside one of the most intense, emotional, and unforgettable days of my life – the day Ollie was born.
    From that first early contraction to holding him in my arms for the very first time, I share the real, raw, and powerful moments that come with becoming a dad.

    We’ll unpack:

    • The build-up: what labor was really like (from a dad’s eyes)

    • My fears, adrenaline, and emotions in the delivery room

    • What I did well – and what I wish I knew

    • The first moment I met my son (and what shifted in me instantly)

    • Tips for new dads to prepare for their own delivery day

    Whether you’re expecting your first child or looking back on your own experience, this episode is for every dad who’s walked into that hospital a partner… and walked out a father.

    👶 This one’s emotional, real, and powerful – don’t miss it.


    🎧 Listen & Subscribe: 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1NMwRGHsrLfwj7N5YwUkIB?si=a1f361b59b314017 

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@builtforthispodcast 

    Website & Dads Community: https://built-for-this-podcast.com/

    23 min
  • EP 03 – Pregnancy from the Dad’s Side

    In this episode, I share a raw and honest look at what pregnancy was like for me — not physically, but mentally and emotionally.

    While Lisa was carrying our beautiful son Ollie, I was carrying the crushing weight of becoming a provider… and it nearly broke me.

    I talk about the depression I went through, the sleepless nights filled with fear and overthinking, and the pressure to suddenly “have it all together” after a life filled with setbacks and mistakes.

    This episode is for the dads who smile on the outside but are struggling on the inside. If you’ve ever felt the fear of not being ready, the guilt of not having more to give, or the pressure to be everything for your family — you're not alone. This one's for you.

    🎧 Listen & Subscribe:
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1NMwRGHsrLfwj7N5YwUkIB?si=a1f361b59b314017
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@builtforthispodcast
    Website & Dads Community: https://built-for-this-podcast.com/

    20 min
  • EP02 – Preparing to Become a Dad

    No one’s really ready to become a dad. But in this episode, I share what helped me feel a little more prepared — from shifting my mindset to setting up the home, and trying to wrap my head around what was coming.

    We talk:

    • Mental prep (and the fears I had)

    • Training adjustments

    • Letting go of my old identity

    • The emotional rollercoaster no one warns you about

    Whether you’re weeks away from becoming a dad or you’re in the thick of it now, this episode is here to help you feel seen and supported.


    🔗 Everything you need to know can be found here:

    https://built-for-this-podcast.com/


    #DadPodcast #BuiltForThis #PreparingToBeADad #MentalHealthForDads #NewDadSupport

    19 min
  • EP01 – Our Journey to Pregnancy

    In this first episode of Built For This, I share the emotional and personal story behind our journey to becoming parents. From struggling to fall pregnant to finally starting IVF — this is where it all began. This moment changed our lives forever.

    If you're on your own journey to parenthood or reflecting on how it all started for you, this episode is for you.


    🔗 Everything you need to know can be found here:

    https://built-for-this-podcast.com/episodes


    #FatherhoodPodcast #IVFJourney #BecomingADad #BuiltForThis #ParentingPodcast


    17 min
  • EP 0: Intro - Built For This Podcast

    Becoming a dad changed everything — but not in the way I expected. After 3.5 years of trying to fall pregnant and finally going through IVF, I realised how little support there is for fathers during pregnancy, birth, and those wild first months. In this first episode, I share the story behind this podcast: why I created it, who it’s for, and what you can expect. If you're a dad trying to be the best man you can be — for your family, your partner, and yourself — this space was made for you.


    🔗 Everything you need to know can be found here:

    https://built-for-this-podcast.com/


    #BuiltForThis #DadPodcast

    21 min

About Built For This

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Built for This is a real and raw podcast for dads navigating fatherhood, fitness, mental health, and identity. Hosted by Kane Patterson, each episode shares honest stories, lessons, and tools to help men show up as strong, present, and purposeful fathers. Whether you're expecting, in the thick of toddler chaos, or redefining yourself as a dad, you were built for this.