Oh look up, Maxine: another nigga fading away in your love life.

I. Ain’t. Got. The. Time. I’ve spent too much time in mental imprisonment of thinking how can I make him want me more, commit, love me, etc. What’s for me is, is mine. And that’s all I got, Frank.

I give an update on how inconsistency from these niggas rear its ugly head again and I’m TIYAD. I’m coming to accept that maybe relationships aren’t for me.

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Okay, okay, in this episode I unravel as I take you on my day date that went to shits. In retrospect, I see that sometimes I can be a little (just a little) annoying and insensitive. Masking my feelings with humor has always been my go-to. But I think it’s time to take that mask off.

Feelings are hard for me so, I usually retreat to cracking a joke. When one of my flaws slips out, I get scared that whomever I’m dating will have had enough. I’ve been learning lately that I am enough with my flaws and all.

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...because the answer is NO. I just feel like that shouldn’t be the first question asked. Instead of that question, why not pose questions like “how does he treat you?” Or “does he make you happy?” Sometimes Christians get too focused on the wrong things that we don’t examine the heart instead of is this person a standard box Christian because the answer is NO. What happens when the standard box Christian doesn’t turn me on? What now, sis?!

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Trey Songz broke my heart and now I need counseling.

Anyway, I discuss how arrested development happens for those adults who are virgins. There is a new walk and talk that takes place when someone is in tuned with their body. Instead of waiting on this fantastical image of a "husband," go get your socks rocked because sis, no. I'm just saying.

I also share why guarding your personal space matters and how a nigga from the past has no place in your present. BOOM!

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We live in a society where men feel they have the right to control women's reproductive rights, how women should behave, and how women should look. And I am MUHFKN TIYADDD. As birthers of humanity, women are not given the same level of respect and freedom as their counterparts. And I am MUHFKN TIYADDD.

On this episode, I also get into why it is problematic to victim blame those who are oppressed and financially disenfranchise. So go get some sleep! (Ahem, Steve Harvey!)

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I wonder where do some men get the nerve to feel as if they are entitled to the women they're casually seeing. Key word: casually. I read a quote a few weeks ago about we do not possess people; instead, we experience them. I realized that I have let the window open for toxic male behavior. That's a hard pill to swallow, among other things. Anyway, ENJOY!

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Everything about me is political. When it comes to my complexion, hair, the colors I wear, and allaaa dat. Standing in your authentic self without a care in the world of how others perceive you is political AF and 🗣 I’m political bishh.

I also describe a little situation I may have created for myself because yes, sometimes I self sabotage when it comes to these niggas but okay, SO. Give me what I want, how I want, and when I want it. Where’s the problem? 😒

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Let's recognize that patriarchy is real and there are certain ideologies embedded into people because of this. I share my take on the narrative and truth, HELLO, of Christianity forced upon my ancestors. Suddenly I have been feeling this responsibility to seek for knowledge, truth, and understanding rather than blindly accept the religious narrative I have been raised to believe.

Enjoy! Oh yeah, and I talk about how "getting off your knees for him, and getting on your knees for Him" is a horrible way to get someone to worship God.

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Sometimes when you set limitations on yourself, you can prevent something beautiful from developing. Sooo, I went on a date and was pleasantly surprised. Chivalry isn't dead. My eyes and heart are open to what could be with this one. Tune in!

Tune in as I divulge how two men caught my eye yet one of them caught something else. It’s funny how options blind you from what was originally there. Anyways, I also talk about how baby fathers can’t seem to get enough of me. Enjoy!