Need some marriage wisdom? Greg Smalley has spent his entire life immersed in conversations about marriage. As the son of the late Gary Smalley—and now Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family—Greg has witnessed up close both the beauty and the messiness of intimate relationships. In this conversation, Greg reflects on why he chose to step into this demanding work, what drew him to a calling so intertwined with his family legacy, and how his own 30+ year marriage to Erin has shaped what he teaches today. We also explore how marriage challenges have shifted over the decades. From cultural pressure and emotional disconnection to technology, stress, and changing expectations, Greg offers perspective on what's new, what's intensified, and what remains surprisingly constant. Finally, he distills decades of ministry into a few core factors that consistently mark marriages that go the distance. Whether you're newly married, decades in, or simply hopeful about love, this episode offers grounded wisdom, encouragement, and a hopeful vision for building a marriage that lasts. Find out more and connect with Greg Smalley through his resources at Focus on the Family Check out the podcast Greg and his wife Erin Smalley do together - Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Find Greg's book 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage: And the Truths That Will Save It and Set It Free Check out the marriage resources at Dr. Carol Ministries Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message here.