Burning Pure Podcast

Dun Dun Dun Dun! 

Boy am I excited to introduce you to this funny female. Let me introduce you to our special guest Andra Manole! Andra is one of my soul sisters. She uses her superpower and gift of allowing the child inside her to guide her to play, teach, laugh and integrating the vast library she has created along the way of her adventurous life of discovering alternative medicine. Andra is a Holistic Therapist and Psychedelic Architect healing the inner child and wounds of the past. 

I met Andra almost 2 years ago on online circles in a company called Mindvalley. I was searching desperately for a way to actually figure out my life and why I did things. So I started joining online circles to learn and along the way like getting lost in the rabbit hole in Alice in Wonderland I met Andra. Always laughing and making light of the situation, no matter what the subject. Allowing herself to express every thought coming to mind and willing to go the road less traveled from her very first day on this planet. She has a vast knowledge of all things mushroom  or psychedelic related and using medicine to expand your understanding and the importance of safety for you to explore old wounds and then integrate your learning. After connecting with Andra separately off calls and building a friendship and then getting a chance to meet her in person and do an IN PERSON podcast was AMAZING!  So here you go bold & beautiful, strap yourself in, and click play. 

"The wound starts with the scar"
"Why don't I do that?"
"Or was I forced as a young child to do that thing?"
"I tried to explain that I didn't like it, but she didn't understand"
"I was being raped emotionally"
"I want to eat it but all these emotions are coming up"
"Wounds are emotional, physical, psychological"
"They literally forgot their childhood"
"Connect with the inner child came naturally, it's the adult that was hard. The adult has responsibilities"
"Language that you would connect with a brand new baby
"What do you want and need in that moment, asking your inner child"
"They don't know they will get wet, they don't care"
"Its innocent, you don't think"
"visual, tactile, sensory"
"Love at first dose"
"in order for you to reach your core wound you have so many walls to tear down, with psychedelics there is no walls"
"to receive the message they need to hear not the message I want or they want"

We discuss:
-How to use psychedelics to heal
-How to see the Wound
-How to access your inner child
-How to PLAY
-How to remember pieces of your childhood
-How to talk to yourself as you love yourself 
-How your experience with mushrooms helped you open up and accelerate in healing in life and business
-How healing the inner child allows you to have less resistance in business

EXIT QUESTION:
How are you helping your next generation to heal and dream?


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Ok put your seat belts on fam! for this wild ride! Let me introduce you to our special guest Lindsey Schwartz! Since Lindsey is also my mentor, this was a really nerve wrecking thing to do to ask someone I respect so deeply for her time and to share on my podcast, i almost threw up. But I never gave up, because when something is important to you, you don't give up. Lindsey is an Author, Speaker, Community Builder, Mentor, and Entrepreneur. She is the founder of Six Figure school and has many six figure launches! You're going to want to listen in!

 I met lindsey off a bit of faith, that goes a little something like this. I was about to give up about 2 years ago on my entrepreneurial journey. Till I had a Divine Download that said go, go to google and type in community of women doing business. Wasn't I lucky that the second website to click on was a little something called Powerhouse woman. I had signed up for girl gang because I no longer wanted to do business alone. I purchase my first event tickets that were way out of my price range and I took a huge leap of faith and got on a plane and went to an event where I knew no one. That day changed my life forever, now connecting the dots looking back. I got to feel what it felt like to be connected and not alone. She gave me permission along with other woman to do business the way I wanted to do it!

"who did you need to become"
"who do you need to be to hold a greater level of wealth"
"who I am is the reflection, beliefs, and habits I have created"
"don't associate themselves with wealth of who they are right now"
"Noticing someone else's wealth and thinking I wont ever have that 
"If you don't know that that is apart of the evolution and the growth, you might wander off."
"How much permission is enough"

It's never about the how. Its always about the WHY

EXIT QUESTION:
How do you heal and build a brand at the same time?

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Welcome fam bam! 

Today we connect about why being too much is a good thing! 

You know how people say, your too much, settle or calm down. 

F them. The people who are meant to receive you will. You just need to allow yourself to not settle for less. 

The more authentic you are, the more people will resonate with you. 

The more people will feel your brand. The more you will resonate with the person you wish to help. 

Important topics:
-How being pleasant doing serve you as a brand + entrepreneur
-What to do to be your own channel
-What does too much really mean? 
-Will you ever find your tribe + support? 
-Why societally we have been trained to make sure we don’t create problems? 
-Why if your the person who does everything, you will become resentful! 
-Love yourself, be too much. Sit in it 
-You won’t die if you give your opinion 

I used to think I would die if I was myself. If I was too loud, or brought attention to me. But that’s just a protection mechanism. 

Being pleasant is overrated and so last year. 

And honestly it’s exhausting. 

What are you gaining? 
People liking you! 

My love, you can do all the right things and people will still find a reason to not like you! So like yourself. Your opinion is the only one that matters 

The happier you are, the more money you make

It’s not a quest for money. It’s a quest for happiness. 

Be sure to leave a 5 star review on Apple podcasts and a 5 star review on Spotify if this episode resonated with you. It’s how we continue to grow this show, to help support others just like me + you. When we know we are not alone. We are less likely to quit the journey to wealth! 

Also post to social media to give others a chance to reflect and feel less alone! 

"Who says I have to start preparing for my death?"

"Is there ever a wrong age to go after my dreams"

Judy combines her gifts and abilities with her Coaching practice to combine the Intuition world with the Scientific Logical world to get her clients out of the dark and into the light. She has helped healed traumatized souls to new parents, to six figure businesses. Her instagram is @lolaintoveryet.

Judy Wong is an Energy Accelerator & Transformation Coach, Inspiring International Speaker, and Comedian. She is a Silva Method Practitioner, and a Therapeutic Improvisational Play Facilitator. She's always know she was clairvoyant and uses her gifts in her practice.  Judy has had more careers than most people have in one lifetime,  she's also been a famous actress, singer, performer for most of her young life. This cookie is smart and guess what she also has GRIT like i've never seen.

When she couldn't find get a job to safe her life, because she kept being told she was overqualified. She said I don't care, Im in another beginning of my life and I need to eat and feed my kids. Anything is possible fam, you can start over at anytime, it's never too late and you CAN handle it. You will survive, and you will be better than ever.

Today we touch on:
Why we don't have to prepare for our death
Have you already made your life list? Then why are you already making a death list?
Why is it important fill your cup first?
Why is it people only truly change after they make a decision to?

"When you frown you give away from energy"
"When you smile you have more energy right to you"
"I worked my life for something and then someone pulled the rug out under me"
"As time went by you started to say thank you, because you need it"
"When you shield one of you in the wrapping paper, you going to need some scissors"
"The aches and pains are your body telling you, your going down the wrong path"
"When you've reached the level of whatever it think it's meant to attain your body will start to break down"

The power of the brain is remarkable!

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In the Burning Pure community we have monthly guests like Judy. To teach and train on no matter what age you can do anything. Business is relationships, relationships are business. I believe in the importance of longevity. So We have guests who teach us to help close the generational wealth gap. We focus on accountability and optimal health + wealth. 

"Work is love made visible"

Monica combines the spiritual world with personal Growth and the business world. 

Monica Ducu is a lifestyle business Coach, Business Growth consultant with 15+ years growing businesses, Business Book Author, and Mindvalley Ambassador. Monica's instagram is @monicaducu she is from Romania, so her link tree is in Romanian 😂

I met on her circle call on the Mindvalley community live calls, we instantly hit that shit off. I joke with Monica that Im waiting for her book of metaphors because she has the BEST ones. We resonate more with metaphors because of the way we understand them in a way that is slightly separate, but in a way that we can relate to! 

So today we are being truly AUTHENTIC + through out the WHOLE episode we CANT stop laughing. 

I cant believe this is MY LIFE, so much abundance! Let's get to the mountain top together. 

You remember things more with:
When you laugh 
When you connect with people 
+ in Community 

Are you doing what you're meant to do? 
What lights you up everyday?
As well as gives you revenue?

Today we touch on:
What are the first steps in business are?
#1 Thing in the way of growing?
The difference between Being + Doing?
Why investing in yourself is important?
What do you like to do to have fun?
What is the biggest block to someone creating a business?
Where is the Magic happening in your life?
How to anchor into Wealthy into a good state of being?
Why is surrendering important?

"don't let people fail when there is still value that they can give"

Monica is currently writing her book of her story of corporate life manager turned Coach. To show its possible to recreate your life even after 30-40 years old. Be sure to come back to buy Monicas book when its ready! 

We have guests like Monica once a Month in the Burning Pure Community so that you can learn from different experts that make business feel good to you. Monica trains on what 1 thing are you going to do everyday to grow your business. We are big on accountability in the community. So let's track our baby steps together!

To discover more about the Burning Pure Community, book a call!
https://calendly.com/burningpure/discovery-call-for-burning-pure-community

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Episode 17: Can you have it all, all at the same time, You bet your ass you can with Special Guest Lawrence Tuazon. 

Like F me. Im so excited to launch this episode. Lawrence is the Total Health Coach Founder, EverCoach & Mindvalley Chief Life Officer. He is a Health Coach, started Total Health Coach advanced Readers Group. Oh and if he wasn't already AMAZING he also is the Co-author of Total Health For Extraordinary living. His IG is @iamlawrencetuazon

I met Lawrence on a Mindvalley call, as he said who is this lady walking, haha.

"Freedom to do everything you want to do in that particular time, day, season."
"To do all the things you want in the day, period, or season."
"well being comes from everyones input, not just yours, as a family."
"Its not about the money its about the depth of connection."


In this episode today expect to hear the REAL life of an Entrepreneur, Partner, Author, Brand Creator from Scratch, Dad of 2, world traveler, Coach, and comedian ( I think😂)

-How health isn't = to how much money make 
-How your beliefs dictate the way you create money 
-As someone who wants to be both an entrepreneur + dad what is his definition of Wealth in 2023?
-The SECRET to integrating wealth, business, + life. (Location FREE job)
-How to manifest your Vision Faster together 
-Priority of freedom + time location to be a good parent and husband with CONNECTED relationships 
-How to put yourself first that makes you wealthy?
-What legacy he wants to leave for his kids?

He thought you had to work hard to climb the corporate ladder to get all the things he wanted, and have guaranteed security. Like the same reason why people go to college to make more money, with the safer guarantee that you will get a job offer of a higher salary right out of school. Ya ok, this is no longer accurate. The idea of 40 years years of work for 40 years of retirement NO LONGER EXISTS. People are needing to work longer with the rate of inflation going up so dramatically fast and so much per year.

He was like me in the giving giving giving. Till we all reach BURNOUT. Also till the relationships around us ask you to pick which is more important the JOB or US?
He picked the PRIORITY, His family.

"I couldn't take care of my daughter because I was busy being busy" 8:24
"she started to notice he's not working 9-5, so it gives her the default setting of something out of the norm."
"Its actually better money, and working less hours than I did before." 17:50 
"Your life affects others." 22:40 
"Tell your partner what you want, what you need, what you desire. " 24:30 
"What do you want to put on the vision board. I asked my daughter where did she want to go with me this year..... Disneyland. haha. 25:15
"Giving giving giving actually paralyzes my daughter." 26:30
"Autonomy and vision board of where do you want to go" 27:00

Also Lawrence is a JOY to spend time with, he says "when we laugh we remember more."

In the Burning Pure Community You get access to trainings + Q and A from special guests once a month like Lawrence to ask questions in a group of other like minded Entrepreneurs who want to collaborate, co-create, and connect for a common vision of Service to have lasting Impact and create billions of dollars worth of change. So that you can create a powerful, authentic, profitable, personal lifestyle brand.
https://calendly.com/burningpure/discovery-call-for-burning-pure-community

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Episode 16: Fear of Success (Last episode in the fear series)

Fear of success is far more DANGEROUS than fear of failure, because the subconscious mind works to prevent that which it FEARS. People may fear success because of low self-esteem and feeling of not DESERVING it; because it will increase what others expect of them. Fear of success shows up as anxiety, indecision, avoidance, procrastination or acceptance of mediocrity.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are POWERFUL beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that, that most frightens us. 

Procrastination is the fear of success. People procrastinate because they are afraid the success they know will result if they move ahead now. Because success is heavy, carries a responsibility with it, it is much easier to procrastinate and live on the “someday ill’ philosophy. 

What you can look forward to in this episode:

-You must know what your truly motivated by

-Why fear of successs causes resistance

-What are the signs you have fear of success?

-Where do we get this from?

-Why are limiting beliefs so powerful 

-How to overcome fear of success

The DEFINITION is that we are CONCERNED that when we ACHIEVE something NEW, we will be INCAPABLE of SUSTAINING it or we may SUFFER because of it. 

When we cant say no because of our codependency now to our parents, we cant help them in the future. 

I used to be worried that it was just going to get taken away. So if I didn't have anything nothing can get taken. 

EXIT QUESTION:

What would you regret not trying or doing in business or life on your death bed?

Is it trying entrepreneurship?

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Think about how much you have overcome, all the evidence that you have about starting over and continuing to keep going in business and life. Ive overcome so much, as I know you have to. 

You can start anew at any given moment. Life is just the passage of time and its up to you to pass it as you please. -Charlotte Erickson 

When you can no longer think of a reason to continue, you must think of a reason to start over. 

You're never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.

What is consistent in life is beginnings and endings and when you embrace that reality. Starting over doesn't seem so daunting. 

A fresh new start isn't a new place its a new mindset.  

Summary of fear of Starting over:
+Why starting over is normally the last business option?
+Why have you been avoiding it?
+How to hit it head on, even if you don't know what your gifts are, or what business you want to create.
+How to ground your body when starting over?
(my pain body + shadow fell back into flight or fight and shaking)
+Signs to know when to start over in business?
+Manifesting blind faith into your dream 
+What kind of evidence do you have?
+Did I waste time? Was it all for nothing?
+How to be Flawesome! (listen till the end)

There is one thing for sure. You will fall down, do you have the tools to get back up? 
To start over again?

EXIT QUESTION:
How much have you already overcome that you're forgetting about?

Applications for my Burning Pure 3 Month Private Coaching program close next Friday. Don't know where to start in business or making the BIG dream come true? No BS just real honest strategy,  mental + emotional mastery. But strategy isn't the most important, it's releasing the limiting beliefs that we received from who raised us. 
Surrendered manifestation is the way to go. Instead of how most of the world does it be manipulated manifestation. I got you. 

Here is the link for the 3 Month Private Business Mindset Coaching application!
 Don't know where to start as a new entrepreneur, Start with mindset. 

https://wxh8pmlrvbj.typeform.com/to/gyodKEdl
 
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Where does it all come from, IDK my childhood probably just like everything else. -Val

Let me introduce to you Valerie Banks Podcast host, Entrepreneur, Leader, Mother, and Speaker. We are going to deep dive into the mother wound today. Val shares how the memories of childhood affect us radically as adults. Find @valeriebanks on IG!

What you can look forward to hearing about is:
-Do you worry about turning into your parents?
-How to get past what your parents have said to you!
-How to put yourself first, even when you don't know how to not be your parents
-Why people pleasing is the death of a female Entrepreneur
-Secrets to longevity in business
-Why we reject the things that remind us of our parents
-Why as an entrepreneur we need to make friends with the word NO
-Fear of wanting to disappoint, also involves money..
-Why being an over-giver is TOXIC to entrepreneurship longevity

The fear of being our parents has actually showed us:
-It turns us into our parents ( which is what we say we don't want)
-How not wanting to SERVE the men made you want a different (position)
-That we shrink or get stuck as entrepreneurs when we do not feel the love or support from the ones that were 'supposed' to love them.
-How to accept our stories
-You are haunted when you don't accept any part of your story
-Its exhausting doing for others what you never do for yourself 
-People pleasing can cause you to NOT take care of yourself (because if you love someone you put them before you)
-Why its hard to go against our original mindset training 

The MORE you FEAR. The more your manifesting the fear!
We use the coping skills of our parents when we don't have any others to choose from.

WHAT DO YOU WANT?
-I wanted to be there for them. (My family)
-If you dont put you first, whos going to?
-You cant ignore something FOREVER
-If something doesn't work its not failure, its learning
-Our parents lives help us see what they DON'T WANT
Why the phrase i don't want to be my mother. Comes back to a belief that we have not learned anything new or anything from their mistakes. It's not about not wanting to be them.

EXIT QUESTION: Can you meet your mother where she is at?
Each of us is entitled to our story. The way we saw things. 

Ill be closing applications next week for my 3 month private business mindset coaching. Im only opening 5 spots this time of the year. The first 3 will also receive an incredible amazing bonus, a full free session to be enneagram typed by Tracy O'Malley. I believe that getting typed by Tracy truly helped me see what I was really motivated by instead of lying to myself. 

Together we will create : 
A wealth Map for you and your next generation 
What kind of day to day life + lifestyle you want to live as an entrepreneur
What kind of remote work/ live in person work you'd like to do and have fun doing Map on how to work backwards from our annual revenue goal 
How to Hustle less + Flow more framework 
How to maintain Consistency + longevity in Wealth Building
Clarify Who you help 
Discover your natural Gifts 
The gift of service, not selling 
Passive income strategy /Discover your limiting beliefs around Wealth + entrepreneurship
How to receive payment for your gifts /Worthiness Training

Here is the link for the 3 Month Private Business Mindset Coaching application!
https://wxh8pmlrvbj.typeform.com/to/gyodKEdl

Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts. If this episode resonates with you, please leave a comment or review. Id love to hear your thoughts or suggestions on future topics! You can follow Elyse on Instagram @burningpure on Facebook @Elyse Alexander and watch her Podcast episodes on F*ck The Generational Wealth Gap Podcast by Elyse Nicole Alexander on YouTube.

WOULD YOU COULD YOU HANDLE REJECTION? 
WHAT YOU REPEAT TO YOURSELF IS A CHOICE!

I will make sabotaging myself unfamiliar. And believing in myself familiar. Whatever we focus on, we move towards and get more of. Right behind the person who says no, is someone says yes. -Marissa Peer 

What are your Beliefs? -Elyse Alexander 

What you can look forward to hearing about is:
What is fear of rejection?
How does it impact your growth + rate of Growth in your life and in your business?
How it's sneaky sometimes?
How it shows up as a core wound in money and abundance?
How to BOUNCE BACK from rejection?
The evidence we need to change....

Fear of rejections has showed us:
-WE LEARN WHAT WE LIVE
-When you question your belief it no longer becomes true 
-Beliefs only exist in your mind. Your beliefs are not real they are not based on fact
-Why strategic messy action is a way to prove to yourself you can do anything
-Why planning to plan or someday isn't a good answer 
-You will benefit from listening to the NEW evidence I give you to bounce back from rejection ( its needed to be an entrepreneur)
- in the body + mind 

Exit Question: 
What are you most afraid people would reject about you if you were completely no masked in your business?

Im stoked to have opened applications this week for my 3 month private business mindset coaching. Im only opening 5 spots this time of the year. So this is truly exclusive, applications close in mid December. 

So don't wait to start asking yourself. Am i willing to wait any longer on how to get to the next level? How much longer will I wait to start? If you knew everything would work out in your greatest good why haven't you gone all in yet? Don't know where to start? Mindset!

Together we will create : 
A wealth Map for you and your next generation 
What kind of day to day life + lifestyle you want to live as an entrepreneur
What kind of remote work/ live in person work you'd like to do and have fun doing 
Map on how to work backwards from our annual revenue goal 
Create an offer that makes you feel excited, fun, and unique 
How to Hustle less + Flow more framework 
How to maintain Consistency + longevity in Wealth Building 
Clarify Who you help 
Discover your natural Gifts 
The gift of service, not selling 
Passive income strategy 
Discover your limiting beliefs around Wealth + entrepreneurship
How to receive payment for your gifts 
Worthiness Training 
Resilience Daily practices/Community

The first 3 who are accepted will also receive an incredible amazing bonus. I will purchase a full free session to be enneagram typed by the Goddess herself Tracy O'Malley. This is so special because Tracy is an expert in this and is the real deal and worth every penny. So i'm offering this bonus because I really believe that getting typed by Tracy truly helped me see what I was really motivated by instead of lying to myself. 

Here is the link for the 3 Month Private Business Mindset Coaching application!
Don't know where to start as a new entrepreneur, Start with mindset. 
https://wxh8pmlrvbj.typeform.com/to/gyodKEdl

Please Follow + Subscribe to my podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts. 
If this episode resonates with you, please leave a comment or review. Id love to hear your thoughts or suggestions on future topics! You can follow Elyse on Instagram @burningpure on Facebook @Elyse Alexander and watch her Podcast episodes on F*ck The Generational Wealth Gap Podcast by Elyse Nicole Alexander on YouTube. 

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