"we want freedom, but we are trapped by the things will give us freedom + they don't"

In this episode I talk about what to do if something doesn't work out with money or life the way you want it to. Because the reality is you will fail, you will make mistakes. You have to be willing to mess up and do it faster, rather than go slow and not willing to do anything at all. I talk about the 6 steps I've used to surrender and allow myself to handle what happens physically, emotionally, and mentally when something doesn't go according to plan with my money.

In this episode we touch on:

Takeaway:

Casual Potency- The more you think about

+ Action: Surrender, respond vs react

Find one lesson of something that "didn't work out"

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"Is it more expensive to spend on making your own money now or in a year when you still haven't made any money and what you're doing isn't working?"

I was someone who started with all the free stuff on how to make my own money.Then when that didn't work after a while I payed for small ticket. Still wasn't getting the results I wanted. Payed for medium ticket coaching still wasn't aligning to the lifestyle I wanted to live everyday. It wasn't until I paid high ticket to have someone teach me how they did it that I learned + could implement and take action. To be able to make my own money, feel good about it, and shift out of unclarity.

In this episode I talk about why it is less expensive to take a leap now rather than waiting and paying for all the smaller ticket ways of asking and receiving help. Because sooner of later the strategy of pulling so many different strategy's together doesn't work. What works for someone else doesn't work for you. So we discuss why going all in sooner if better. Because at the end of the day, my money didn't grow till I spent almost $10,000 on a coach who had done what I wanted to do the way I wanted to do it. So work smarter not harder. Learn from my mistakes. Because I spent more money on other things before that.

In this episode we touch on:

Takeaway:

Placebo vs drug- expectation does play a role

We become attached to your expectation

Find your biggest constraint!

+ Action: Find out what you want your rate of growth to be? How fast

You ok with going slow or you want to get it fast?

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"If you can do this, no shoving, no procrastination"

In this episode I talk about how we do not need to sacrifice or give something up. But yet to get what we want we must do less to make more money. A lot of the time it's not money that stops us. Because there is an old saying it takes money to make money. But I honestly don't truly believe that anymore. It is the emotion or the belief that stops you from accessing more and more income as well as retaining the income itself. So I step you into the biggest source of your wounds, Childhood. Because you may not realize you're already stuck in them and working from them anyway.

In this episode we touch on:

The 6 Simple Steps

Bonus: Write an Im sorry or an I forgive you letter. Keep it in first person and write with a real pen and real paper. Its important to write it out to really feel it. Flow with it.

Takeaway + Action:

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With Love, Elyse

"What are your values + are you willing to compromise your values for views?"

There is no guarantee that the views translate into cash. The point is hedging your bets and making your emotional connection with them strong. I care more than others, this is my GIFT. Because that customer or client is still going to purchase a solution from somewhere. Let it be from someone who cares the most.

I still have moments where I let my outer world shake my inner world. But I am human, then I go and I re-align myself.

In this episode I talk about a situtationship (situational relationship) I was in that had some constricting feelings come up for me. I was approached about a podcast guest in which I was so honored and flabbergasted that he was so famous and wanted to be on my show. I scheduled several appointments that somehow didn't align with this person's schedule. When I asked for my needs and shared that I didn't really feel like this person was interested in being a guest on my podcast or that it wasn't a priority there response was "how many viewers do you have". When my response was given, what I received was "let's just table this, sorry for wasting your time" I took that as your not important enough, or have a big enough follower count for me to make you a priority. So here I teach the 6 steps to what I do and tell my clients if something doesn't feel right when your marketing yourself or growing your audience.

In this episode we touch on:

6 steps to what I do and tell my clients if something doesn't feel right when your marketing yourself or growing your audience

1. Acknowledge your feelings (No shoving, your feelings are valid)

2. Where do the feels come from (current or childhood wound)

3. What are the feelings?

4. Ask for your needs to be met (don't assume everyone is like you)

5. Respond instead of reacting

6. No need to be the I told you so person )they will learn, doesn't mean you have to point the finger)

Takeaway + Action:

Use an experience that doesn't go the way you want + choose to find a lesson in it for you and for someone else.

Write out what is your non-negotiable for you in wanting to reach a bigger audience + growing?

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You need to know what you need. Then to ask for it. Then to keep asking for it Until it happens.

I want to share that this episode is something I fundamentally struggled with for many years. So don't get mad if it doesn't change within one day. I would get mad when I didn't get something on the first try, but Im not perfect. So I keep working at it, with my imperfections and all. This is a daily spiritual practice. You must repeat and instill it inside your body, vibration, frequency, and mind.

Learning from metaphors give us the opportunity to separate our current experience from something being about us. Allowing us to see what we can not from another perspective. So that it doesn't feel like it's about you at first. Allow yourself to receive.

In this episode I talk about the 6 different kinds of medicine that have helped me give out what I needed to make more money. I talk about the uncomfortable things that no one else talks about. I talk about your inner world, not your external world. I talk about what I would say in a 1 on 1 client session that you can not let your circumstances trump your priorities or you will repeat your circumstance hamster wheel over and over.

In this episode we touch on:

Takeaway + Action: When you work by your circumstances you repeat your circumstances. Making those a priority over what you want to be, do, have. Let that sink in. Write down one thing that you want more of?

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"Business isn't easy"

This was something I knew in my body, my mind, and deeply in my history. But what I now realize and know to be true, business is what you make it. It is about your priorities, what do you want?

What kind of business model do you want to have?

Im over anything that is unnecessarily hard. What about you?

Thats also because I know now, money DOES NOT come from hard work! Or else all the people working more than one job would have more than enough, but thats not the case. Is it? How would I know, because I worked more than two jobs for years. It never helped me in my long term strategy plan.

In this episode, I talk about how I want a business that is easy. How does business feel in your body? What I've learned from re-wiring my subconscious into what I want rather than what I know. The qualities that I believe are priority to an "easy" business model. You have to know what you want to hold as a priority, to implement it long term. If you don't choose structure or your identity as a business, promise someone else will do it for you. Im deeply passionate about mental health and mindset. I have created a business through which I offer business coaching and if your a long time listener you probably already know this.

In this episode we touch on:

Takeaway + action:

How are you feeling about business? What comes up in your body? Just become curious. Put a sticky note on your bathroom sink handle that says business is easy or money is easy to make. Say it everyday! (Be aware of your resistance or blocks)

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Today we chat with my biz besty and business partner Lo Fiducioso Body Image Coach, CEO of Adoration Studio, Founder of Black Shawl Cabaret Burlesque troupe, co-owner of the Brunch Box Food Truck, and Podcast host of No one puts baby in the corner, and multi passionate entrepreneur joins us today. She and I met in an intimate online program focused on growth and business. And we fell into a great relationship, stayed connected. Then had the lets date forever conversation. But only business date since she very married. 

I did business alone for a long time. Whether it was side hustling or building a brand.

I thought that if you were meant to be a business owner or build a brand then you should be able to do it alone. And if you couldn’t then you weren’t meant to do it. But that is a LIE. A stone cold LIE. 

I told myself many of these lies, my inner critic is like the Disneyland Monorail going round and round. Every time we do something new this self talk comes up again and again. When you do something that you have never done before, there is a lot of self doubt and questioning that arises. If not for Lo and all my close friends along this journey. I wouldn’t dream so big and actually achieve it. Your environment is so important to have people around who are growing at the same pace as you. 

Today we are going to give you a taste of:

-the lies we tell ourselves about business + money 

-How to have uncomfortable conversation 

-How to borrow someone else’s belief in you 

-What the rate of growth is in person vs. online relationships

-You are NOT alone 

-How to Grow together, with a friend who has a different business

We have been through massive trial and error. Like a lot. Learning how to communicate with one another. Being trigger by the other one, and not knowing how to communicate that it was a childhood trigger not a trigger about the other person. In learning this we have create a tried and true step by step to building a foundation by soulful connection. 

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We got you!

We are here to help you build and scale a foundation for your dream business 

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Your not going to want to miss this incredible event!

Transformation that happens in person is a quantum leap.

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We are doing a giveaway for a free ticket to our event because we believe in giving back to the community. Because we wouldn’t be where we are now, if it wasn’t for those who have helped us. 

So if you post in your stories about our event with the flyer and tag us you will receive on point. If you post in your stories with the flyer, the website, and tag us. You get 2 points. The person with the most amount of points will get a free sponsored ticket to the event on June 26th with an option to upgrade to VIP. We will announce the winner in the June 23rd at noon EST. 

Link to Lo’s Podcast:

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Instagram link:

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"It's Not About You"

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Taking things person has been something i've done most of my life in every part of my life. It's affect so much of me and my identity that I started doing it to everyone in my life. Saying "why do I always take things personally?" Then I realized me saying why do I take things personally probably didn't help my language.

“you did this so I did this in response or reaction to whatever you did.”

"You don't want to bleed all over the person that didn't cut you."

YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE IS IN A MOOD BUT YOUR NOT THE ONE WHO CREATED THE MOOD 

Things we will get a taste of today:

-Is this you if?

-Why is this hard for recovering codependents and recovering perfectionist

-Why communication is key 

-Why you must learn to ask for help if you are unsure (you will internalize it) to EXPLODE eventually 

-How to instill overtime its not about you 

-How to manage a reaction 

-What you can start doing right now 

EXIT QUESTION: What are you taking personal that's not yours?

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The Unknown!

"Introducing you to the idea of the unknown" "Your putting all your money on the line".

"Im laughing because of how much i've been scared in my life"

"Im willing to be wrong"

"I didn't realize I was so disconnected from my emotions"

"shove it so you don't have to deal with it"

-Elyse Alexander

What a topic, I already feel the tightness in my legs haha. But if you're looking to grow your dreams into a business that supports it, you're going to deal with the unknown everyday. Just like I do.

Well touch on these things:

We practiced the WIM HOFF breathe today.

EXIT QUESTION: What step can I make to make myself a little more comfortable in the stepping into the unknown?

Do something unknown this week!

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Are you struggling with taking action and bring your dream of building a business to life?

What if you could go to work with your best friend and get paid to do it?

Stepping into the unknown is scary, but whats worse is regret of what you wish you did when you no longer can.

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“if you do not remember that lesson you will learn that lesson again” - Elyse Alexander

“Learn faster, fail quicker” - Elyse Alexander

What you can look forward to hearing about is:

do you reflection everything or only the things you want to?

When should you reflect?

How do you know when you’re avoiding reflection?

What does reflect serve you?

movement creates change!

EXIT QUESTION: How do you reflect and is it working for you?

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