Call Me When You Get Off

What's up y'all this is episode 10 and Gigi and I have some things we would like the man to stop doing. There are some things women do that. They need to stop doing also but this is not about them. We might do an episode about that or one of my Pod Fam men can do an episode about what women need to stop doing.

For the time being please do not take this as we are bashing all men because we are not. It's just some things that we have noticed through our own experiences that if men came correct, they will still have us. But because you did not, we had to exit left.

Sometimes men are just not aware, but hopefully by the end of part one in part two you'll be more aware of what you do and what you say. This is an episode for the girls, but to educate the guys. #CallMeWhenYouGetOff #ForTheGirls #DoBetter #ChristmasEve

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We have to respect our time. We have to respect our peace. We have to respect us just being human.

Jobs will take and take, push and push, if you allow it.

Work, Life, Balance starts with you deciding if you value yourself enough to do it different.

Our grandparents worked hard and barely knew what relaxing was. Our parents thought giving a job 30 plus years of their life was commendable. We live in a time where human needs are not valued. AI is replacing people, Layoffs are happening daily and that job will look you in the face, knowing Monday will be your last day.

While your family depends on you, your home has a mortgage thats too high and those school loans need to be paid.

We are the generation, that has to job hop for survival, pivot faster than we would like and choose ourselves.

That's 3 different generations, working in different value systems.

We can't keep giving jobs more than we give ourselves... That's the point of it all.

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pt 2.

They need love too.

What we talked about:

• How to set friendship boundaries: keep your balance without burning bridges
• Why people stay with cheaters — ego, status, and the truth about validation
• When helping becomes enabling: how to stop bailing out toxic friends and partners
• How to help a delusional friend: support them without enabling or losing yourself
• How love blinds a delusional friend — spotting the red flags you’re rationalizing 
• Why shrinking your friend group as you get older makes you happier and more resilient
• When honesty costs a friendship — choosing self-love over toxic loyalty
• When 'no' is a blessing: reframing setbacks as protection and new possibilities

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They need love too.

What we talked about:

• How to set friendship boundaries: keep your balance without burning bridges
• Why people stay with cheaters — ego, status, and the truth about validation
• When helping becomes enabling: how to stop bailing out toxic friends and partners
• How to help a delusional friend: support them without enabling or losing yourself
• How love blinds a delusional friend — spotting the red flags you’re rationalizing 
• Why shrinking your friend group as you get older makes you happier and more resilient
• When honesty costs a friendship — choosing self-love over toxic loyalty
• When 'no' is a blessing: reframing setbacks as protection and new possibilities

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We gotta take some ownership and do things better by a certain time in life.

The Blame Game will not get us through...

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The Blame Game is old and tired...

We got a list of opinions, thoughts and stories.

Happy belated to Gigi... her work at the bar story was crazy.

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The last bit...

So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.

People are not for keeping, they are for experiencing.

Don't forget it.

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There is More...

Break up to makeeeee upppppp thats allllll weee doooooo.... woooooooo weeeeeeee. Some people break up because they are too different, they fight a lot, they may not work well together...Maybe someone is just not ready for what the other person needs... who knows but people be breaking up man. But what happens after? Do the calls stop? Do the texts stop? Do yall automatically hate each other?

Letting go may feel overwhelming asf, but remember that every ending brings a new start. So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.

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Break up to makeeeee upppppp thats allllll weee doooooo.... woooooooo weeeeeeee. Some people break up because they are too different, they fight a lot, they may not work well together...Maybe someone is just not ready for what the other person needs... who knows but people be breaking up man. But what happens after? Do the calls stop? Do the texts stop? Do yall automatically hate each other?

Do you properly let go?

What we talked about:

1. Acknowledge Your Emotions
2. Create a Support System with Friends
3. Declutter Your Space
4. Invest in Yourself with Learning or Working Out
5. Embrace the Quiet
6. Seek Therapy if Needed
7. Find Closure in Your Own Way w/o Reaching Out
8. Stay Open to New Connections
9. Embrace Your New Single Change

Letting go may feel overwhelming asf, but remember that every ending brings a new start. So take a deep breath, embrace your self, and step out and enjoy yourself.

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Can we speak on these moves in a safe place?

Part 2, to ep 4.

Disclosure: This is for grown ups !!!!

The things I stated were experiences from decades ago… Had to clear my name Gigi !!!!

Every sex position you see ain't for you…

Did you stretch?

Do you have enough to reach the goal?

Are your floors clean?

Should we talk about that first before I do it?

Do ya'll know each other's sexual status?

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