Captain Amit Bhandari

Aren't we all looking for the right intimate relationship. If this is  achieved you will solve 80% of your lifes problems because in a happy  relationship you will always want to do well and work well and set high  goals for self and your partner. Unhappy relationship only damage our growth and put us into depression. A  depressed mind cannot concentrate on work or look at growth.  I believe  relationship is the key to becoming a better to great person. After all  the only real deal of earth is to have others around us in flesh and  blood.

Should I leave my job? Should I leave my girlfriend? Should I leave him?  Should I join merchant navy? Should I stop sailing? These are various  serious questions which come across many in their life. In this episode I  am sharing another great simple concept that there are only 2 reasons  why we take actions in life.   LOVE or FEAR Its important to identify which reason we are taking an action out. Its  ok to take it out of Fear or a -ve emotion but important to identify and  accept the same. This will relieve you of lot of pain of the decision.  If the decision is made out of love or +ve emotion, then you will  yourself feel confident or relaxed. Watch the video to see how this eases our life and helps make better  decisions. Hypnotherapy can be used to ease a lot of pain which does not get  relieved by cognitive work. e.g. Many people still have the FEAR of  FLYING. But we still have to fly for various conveniences. In this  episode you will know how to ease this pain.   Many such concepts will be shared in future which will help make a  simpler, easier and great life.

Do you get angry? Do you lose control when you are angry, mouth runs dry  and mind blanks out? You are not alone. This video gives you 4  principles which will change the way anger with turn into discontentment  and disspointment.  You will remain functional and always be able to handle situations  better. There are 4 basic principals to handle anger. 01. Express yourself. 02. Monitor yourself like a satellite. 03. Dog in the mirror 04. Forgive yourself.  There are 3 types of people in this world.  Passive Assertive Aggressive  The person who remains assertive always will never suffer and always  express. He will never bottle his / her feelings like a soda bottle  opening effect.

Setting priorities right.   What area of my life comes above the other. The important in life is SELF, followed by RELATIONSHIP and finally its work. Never must these priorities. Never let a relationship go above you.   If you do not respect your own feelings, no one else will.   Work can never be above maintaining a relation. Because when you maintain good relations work will automatically happen. Happy people may perform, unhappy people may not perform.

Aren't we all looking for the right intimate relationship. If this is  achieved you will solve 80% of your lifes problems because in a happy  relationship you will always want to do well and work well and set high  goals for self and your partner. Unhappy relationship only damage our growth and put us into depression. A  depressed mind cannot concentrate on work or look at growth.  I believe  relationship is the key to becoming a better to great person. After all  the only real deal of earth is to have others around us in flesh and  blood.

Setting priorities right.   What area of my life comes above the other. The important in life is SELF, followed by RELATIONSHIP and finally its work. Never must these priorities. Never let a relationship go above you.   If you do not respect your own feelings, no one else will.   Work can never be above maintaining a relation. Because when you maintain good relations work will automatically happen. Happy people may perform, unhappy people may not perform.

This video is about the 9 signs of depression which need to be watched  for. These signs are clear indicators that someone needs help. If you  see these signs are in yourself, then get help. The video also gives  practical tips to come out of depression smoothly. Realise that life is great. Also Mind creates the problem, mind can  uncreate it  Only 10% of the world population has the willpower to take action  themselves. 90% will always need help from a Lifecoach, mentor or an  authority figure. Among the 9 signs are  depressed mood, fatigue, low interest in daily  activity,  weight loss or weight gain, restlessness, feeling of  worthlessness or guilt, lack of concentration and suicidal tendency or  wanting to end your life. Anger is also a depressive state along with alcoholism.   Among women depressive shopping may also be a sign when you want reward  yourself after a fight or change your mood. Get functional and get back to life. I am a REBT ( rational emotive behavior technique ) specialist and  believe in complete rationalism and actions in life.  Practical tips to correct depression are shared in this video. Email to write to me  [email protected]     Timestamp to jump to the solution of depression 05:40 Tips & tools to get over depression

Ships life also has nepotism. In this video I share how I was a victim of Nepotism and what I went through. What is the advise on how to handle Nepotism today and the advantages seafarers have today ? Upcoming videos will be on how Captain and DPA must handle this situation.

How to accept and deal with the news of losing a loved one when you are  out at sea and unable to get back home in time. The trauma of losing a  loved one when you are at sea is a feeling which only a seafarer can  feel for a seafarer. That frustration of not being able to sign off. The fact that there is  no real shoulder to cry on and you are unable to be with your family at a  traumatic time like this on the loss of a loved one.  This video is dedicated to all those seafarers who have been stuck at  sea when they got such dreadful news and could never even see the face  of their loved ones and could not be their for the last rites in time.