Carrrnversations

In this very brilliant conversation Janis Brits who is a pastor and a teacher , we discuss gender roles . Janis differentiates between a good man and a nice man, and mentions the importance of gender roles in society . He mentions the issues society faces with manhood being watered down. He also states that men must be violent. A very incredible and rich conversation. Full of gems. 

In this conversation we have a conversation about what consent is . The importance of having a conversation before people become intimate . I have this discussion with my good friend Sonic. We discuss the importance of consent and how we can teach our upcoming generations of boys to do better and we discuss girls that might not know that they have been raped. A very insightful conversation.

This is a brilliant , gem filled conversation about defining emotional intelligence. In this conversation we discuss the importance of being emotionally intelligent , we discuss how that influences how we show up in relationships, friendships and our work spaces . We also discuss learning when to react and when not to react to a situation. Also how to appropriately react when one is triggered . This carrrnversations happens with my good friend of many years Thobani , who is also an Author of Leading Through The Mirror , an architect ad a TED X curator . He brings lots of gems and as with all other carrrnversations it is lots of fun.  

Today we discuss the myths and the facts around finding the one with my return guest and friend Siya Mazibuko. We talk about whether the one exists , and if they do how do we find them. We also go into detail about how to prepare yourself for that ideal realtionship that so many of us wish to have. 

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Lianca Kleynhans a sales consultant at the bank , a divorced young lady and a good friend of mine .  She came across a quote about sacrifice .We discussed walking away from a relationship while still being in love. Walking away because you recognized that you are toxic or the other person is toxic . The love that is required to walk away and the care that you should have for the other person to be able to walk away.

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Part 3 of this 3 part conversation, where Sena Madonsela - a law student, teenage mom, and former student of mine - shared her entire experience from when she actually started having sex, what she thought sex was versus what she thinks sex is now. She discusses how she found out she was pregnant at 16. Her fears when she found out and having to drop out of school for a whole year, the effect that had on her and her friendships. I did not allow her to speak about the father of her child as I felt it would not be fair because he was not present to speak for himself. Then we spoke about Motherhood and what it meant then and what it means now.

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