Catherine Lorimer's Guide to Life

On this weeks podcast I chat about why its a really good idea to get a dating buddy who you can chat to about guys profiles, where you should meet, what things are concerning you, check their behaviour. 

Chat about how you feel about someone and chat about well generally anything.  It also means you will be less likely to message the new man in your life as much which will give him the space that he needs.

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On this weeks podcast I chat about about getting unwanted sexual messages on dating apps and how to spot the profiles that might send you these types of messages.  If you get a message then just don't interact with them, just block them as they will feed off the attention of the reply that you sent them.

I also chat about deception and people who lie and types of lies, at the end of the day if you lie you are going to get caught out eventually, its always better to tell the truth although the occasional well meaning white lie is ok.

I also chat a bit more about Romance scams and if you met a bloke in the pub and started dating, at which point would you lend him some money or give him a copy of your passport and driving license? Probably only if you were applying for something official or applying for a holiday visa, so why would you give this information to a face of someone that you have never actually met?

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One this weeks podcast I find out whether Dating App Addictions are a thing.

I run through the top ten mismatched expectations in a relationship and why its important to spend sometime working out what sort of person you are and what you are looking for in a relationship.

I also chat about communication challenges, communication in a relationship is one of the most important things and if you can't talk to your partner about sexual things or about emotions that at some point its going to be a real issue.

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On this weeks podcast I chat about Ghosting and Catfishing and also online dating fraud.

I delve into how to avoid being ghosted and what we should be doing rather than ghosting someone.

I discuss what catfishing is and how to spot a catfish dating profile and also touch on dating fraud, the upshot being that you should not be giving money or personal details to anyone that you have not been intimate with.

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One this weeks podcast I chat about Breadcrumbing and Paperlclipping in dating, what they are and how you should call people out on their behaviour or stop someone from behaving like that towards us in the first place.

If you are interested you are interested but I for one am done with someone chucking my breadcrumbs to try and keep my interest while they are making their mind up.  If they can't make their mind up, then move on, they are not worthy of you in the first place.  

This is why you need to be strong and emotionally ready before you start dating.

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In this weeks podcast I am chatting about what we as women need to be aware of as men seeing as a red flag and what red flags we should look out for in men.  I also question some of the red flags as to whether they are valid or not.

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This week I am chatting about how to get though the ups and downs of dating. What sort of mindset you should be in before you date and also how to set boundaries about what behaviours you will and won't accept.  

Have a great week everyone :)

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For this weeks podcast I spent a week online dating on Bumble.
Have a listen to my podcast to see how it went, for hints and tips and get an idea of just how many guys you need to chat to, be it real or bots to find someone that you actually want to meet?

Its an online dating platform so keep that in mind and not a social networking platform, so yea chat for a couple of days, then ask them if they want to meet for a coffee in a public location.

There are lots of safety hints and tips, beware of the guys who just want to hook up though and make sure that you use video, if guys can see what you are like then you are more likely to get a match.

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This week we have had a fair amount of snow and some horses will not have had any access to turn out. With this in mind this weeks podcast is about how to stay safe out hacking, being courteous to other road uses, wearing high viz and also some hints and tips for other road uses on what you might be passing on the road, i.e. a horse that has been in a stable for 23 hours, or a horse that has just been clipped and might get a bit silly when the weather turns cold. 

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In this weeks podcast I am looking at what to look for when buying a horse trailer, why weights and dimensions are more important than the colour.  

I also chat about towing vehicles and what you should look at and think about when buying a tow vehicle.

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