Fr. Roger J. Landry
Saint Anthony of Padua Church, New Bedford, MA
Nuptial Mass of Daniel Bruce Marshall and Carina Ann Borges
May 14, 2022
Gen 2:18-24, Ps 34:2-9, 1 Cor 12:31-13:8, Mt 19:3-6
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The following text guided today’s homily:
In God’s providence, there are no coincidences.
From before the foundation of the world, the same Jesus who visited a wedding in Cana of Galilee made plans for May 14, 2022, to come here to Saint Anthony of Padua Parish in New Bedford, to unite you, Daniel Bruce Marshall and Carina Ann Borges, in the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony.
He formed each of you, just as much as he did Adam and Eve in today’s first reading, to be a “suitable partner” for each other.
He created you “from the beginning” so that you would leave your father and mother and cling to each other and become, by his power, no longer two but one flesh, in an indissoluble reality that no human being — or even all other human beings on the planet — will ever be able to separate.
He who brought you together, as an organist and a cantor, to provide music for the 2017 Diocese of Fall River Pro-Life Bootcamp, wants to help you continue to accompany each other and make beautiful music in a liturgy of life. This is the means by which, as we sung in today’s Psalm, you may together magnify the Lord, glorify and bless him at all times with his praise always in your mouth, savoring how good the Lord is, radiant with joy.
He knew, as you know, and as St. Paul reminds us in today’s epistle, that without the love he has placed in you for each other, your life, rather than becoming a canticle of self-giving, echoing the spousal love song of creation and redemption, might have ended up being just a “noisy gong and clashing cymbal.”
In God’s plan there are no coincidences and part of the complementary vocation he has given you to the Sacrament of Marriage involves his joining you on May 14.
In your plans, May 14 was chosen because it was the closest Saturday to May 13, the Memorial of Our Lady of Fatima, who began appearing to the three shepherd children in the Cova d’Iria on that day in 1917. It was God who inspired in you that desire and love for our Lady, who, in her final appearance on October 13, 1917 (exactly one hundred years before your first unofficial date!) came together with St. Joseph holding the child Jesus as the baby Jesus was blessing the 70,000 present. This happened, as Lucia dos Santos, one of the three shepherd children, later commented, to show the importance of the family by presenting before the world the model of the Holy Family of Nazareth. “God,” she wrote, “entrusted to the family the sacred mission of co-operating with Him in the work of creation, … a sacred mission that makes two beings one in a union so close that it does not admit of separation… [and from which] God wishes to produce other beings.” In a letter to one of my professors in Rome, the future Cardinal Carlo Caffarra, Lucia made plain just how important the family is in the plans of God, for which she believed Our Lady of Fatima appeared to appeal to us to take more seriously. “The final battle between the Lord and the kingdom of Satan will be about Marriage and the Family,” she firmly stated. “This is the decisive issue.”
And so it is beautiful, inspiring, and wise for you to want to consecrate your marriage today to Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart, to become warriors within the Church militant in that final battle between God and Satan, sanctity and sin, love and envy, life and death. Indeed, marriage and the family, made in God’s image and likeness,