Fr. Roger J. Landry
St. Patrick Parish, Huntington, New York
Nuptial Mass of Joseph Peter (JP) Von Uffel and Victoria Rose Giardina
September 5, 2021
Tob 8:4-8, Ps 127:3, Eph 5:2.21-33, Mt 19:3-6
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The following text guided the homily:
It would have been great, if JP’s and Victoria’s original plans for us to celebrate their marriage with them in Malta had come to fruition, to be able, on that island first evangelized by Saint Paul, to enter more deeply into what God inspired the Apostle to the Nations to teach about the beauty and meaning of Christian marriage, as he does in today’s second reading from his Letter to the Ephesians.
But we can be grateful for the consequences of pandemic travel restrictions that led JP and Victoria to decide to hold their wedding here at St. Patrick’s in Huntington, because, I believe, this likely was God’s preference from the beginning.
St. Patrick’s is fitting because Joseph Peter von Uffel was baptized here by Father James Richter, on May 3, 1992, and baptism, as you know, is the foundation of Christian marriage, when we enter into the Church’s spousal bond with Christ Jesus the eternal Bridegroom. If baptism, however, were the only criterion, it would have been just as fitting for this wedding to take place at St. Agnes Cathedral in Rockville Centre, where Msgr. Robert Mulligan baptized Victoria Rose Giardina on May 9, 1993.
St. Patrick’s is fitting also because JP and Victoria have often come for Mass here together on the Lord’s Day and the Eucharist is the consummation of the marriage bond between Christ and his the Church, when we become one flesh with Jesus through the awesome gift of Holy Communion. But if that were the main reason, we could have had the wedding in any of the various other Churches, where the two of them, as faithful Catholics, have similarly gone to Mass, depending upon their schedules.
The reason why St. Patrick’s is so fitting for their marriage is because of what happened here in 2013. It was soon after JP had rushed through the door for work at Joe’s Jeans in Soho and had caught sight of Victoria for the first time. They were both working part-time to make money during college and, even though JP said he disliked the work, one particularly beautiful co-worker made it tolerable. “Instead of dreading my workday,” JP told me, “I began to look forward to it, since it meant that I would get to spend more time with” Victoria. They began to enjoy each other’s company so much that their manager had to start separating them at the store. JP got the courage to ask Victoria if she’d like to spend some time together outside of work. Victoria accepted and they went out on a few dates. But then Victoria suggested that they cool off, since she didn’t feel it was right at the time, and they decided to remain friends.
JP’s response was to come here to St. Patrick’s. Looking back, he says it was “perhaps [one of the] most important” decisions of his life. Here, he said, “I pleaded with God that, if his will would allow for Victoria and me to be together, that he please bring it to fruition.” God heard his prayer. Victoria soon recognized, as she told me, that “distance makes the heart grow fonder!” They started back again, had their first official date on December 1, 2013, grew ever closer, and began that joint preparation for marriage that today reaches its culmination as God joins them for the grace-filled adven...