Fr. Roger J. Landry
St. Joseph Church, Farmington, Missouri
Nuptial Mass for Brent Cunningham and Emily Damba
January 2, 2021
Song of Songs 2:8-10.14.16; 8:6-7, Ps 34, Rom 12:1-2.9-18, Jn 17:20-26
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The following text guided the homily:
A Marriage Not Just in Farmington, but in Bethlehem
Today we are marking the ninth day of Christmas and we cannot help but remember, as we look at the beautiful Christmas crèche, that when God took on our humanity so that we might participate in his divinity, when he came — as the first reading prophesied — “springing across the mountains, leaping across the hills” in order to say to the human race, “Arise, my beloved, my beautiful one and come!,” he deliberately chose to do so within a family. He was conceived and born within a family of an already committed husband and wife. He could have come as a 30-year-old adult, or a teenager, or a 90-year-old. He could have chosen to be born of a single mom, or raised by two bachelors or two girl friends, or some other arrangement. He chose, however, to be born within a family comprised by a marriage of a man and a woman. Why? Precisely in order to redeem the family and make the family an instrument of salvation and sanctification. The family, made in the image of God, is meant to be the world’s greatest sign of God as a communion of persons in love, a living representation of the loving union for which Jesus prayed in the Gospel we just heard, a tangible reminder of the love that exists between Christ and his Bride the Church.
That’s why it’s so beautiful and important, Brent and Emily, that you chose to get married within the short Christmas season. Because of that decision, everyone of your anniversaries, like your wedding day, will be marked by poinsettias and Christmas lights, by praesepios and mistletoes, and perhaps, as we’ve experienced over the last couple of days, by snow, ice and cold. But much like Joseph, Mary and the infant Jesus huddled together in love in the cave of Bethlehem, all the elements of the Christmas season including the weather will be an opportunity for you and, we pray, the family with which God blessed you, to draw closer in the domestic Church the Lord is making of you here and now.
And so today in this beautiful Church of St. Joseph, within the Year of St. Joseph to mark the 150th anniversary of his being named patron of the universal Church, during a nuptial Mass in which after Holy Communion you will consecrate yourselves in a particular way to the Blessed Virgin Mary as Queen of the Family, and as Jesus is preparing to make of your love through the Sacrrament of Matrimony something sacred and sanctifying, it is fitting that we ponder a little the lessons you and every couple can learn from the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph.
Saint John Paul II wrote in his beautiful document on the family 40 years ago, “Through God’s mysterious design, it was in that family that the Son of God spent long years of a hidden life. It is therefore the prototype and example for all Christian families. … Its life was passed in anonymity and silence in a little town in Palestine. It underwent trials of poverty, persecution and exile. It glorified God in an incomparably exalted and pure way. And it will not fail to help Christian families-indeed, all the families in the world-to be faithful to their day-to-day duties, to bear the cares and tribulations of life, to be open and generous to the needs of others, and to fulfill with joy the plan of God in their regard” (Familiaris Consortio, 86). Thanks to the cooperation of Mary and Joseph,