Chambua - Dissecting Ideologies Behind Relationships, Beliefs, Success, and Leadership.

In this episode, I talk about HOW and WHY;

- I quit playing and leading music

- Dropped out of college

- Stopped going to church

- Stopped hanging out with people who drained my energy

- Started my side hustle.

- Moved to Africa

I DID IT ALL to protect my mental health because I was struggling with depression and loss of six family members including my father and our last born. Being unaware of mental health, grieving process, and support from my family and community, I had to solve this problem on my own. - I started eating healthy, sleeping early, hanging out with my close friends, and going in nature. 

More in this episode:

In her Tedx talk, Lisa Rankin talks about the origin of all illnesses and what makes us more prone to them. Things like stress, lack of rest, lack of fulfilment and purpose, lack of spiritual lifestyle, lack of healthy relationships, lack of great sex, lack of healthy food, lack of emotional health etc...All these things are important for our well being. When they are not fully met, out immune system becomes weak. When our immune system is weak, that's when we get sick. Dr. Lisa discusses how you can heal yourself. In this episode I discuss what I did to become healthy. 

Tedx link:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWQfe__fNbs

Did you know Amazon started as an online book store. They sold books only. Today Amazon sales almost anything you can think of. One of the reason why we fail to create change is wasting our time, resources, and energy waiting for our calling and passion to be revealed to us. The truth is, finding one's calling is about engaging and trying all the talents and ideas given to us. If you want to know what you're meant to do in your life, start by pursuing anything you're interested in. 

"The truth is that we are lazy and want the outcome without sacrifice and hard work." Irakoze Gisele.  

As a founder of Ndabaga Impact, a university student, and first born, Irakoze Gisele shares how she went from being told she could be a computer programmer, lawyer, and now management to becoming an activist who helps young people. It all started with herself ignoring society's prescription of success and dive deep in her heart to find out what she was made to do. In this episode you will learn her path, tricks, struggles, and what worked for her. You will also learn how to concur your fears, build strong work ethics to pursue your dreams. Hope you enjoy it. 

"The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want now."~ Zig Ziglar

The biggest obstacle between our desired best life can be narrowed down to self control. 

Join Sauti Zetu Team discussing the difference between being civilised and being open minded. This our first episode together face to face since we started working together last year. 

Most complaints and disagreements come from lack of understanding. When we fail to listen carefully what the person is saying, they remain unheard which leads to feeling dissatisfied. Our job in any relationship is to understand other people's needs and find a way of meeting them since we are the only people who promised to meet their needs. This goes both ways. 

Most relationships fade not because of lack of passion but because of lack of attention and intentionality. To be able to maintain a long term relationship one needs to be able to self regulate, correct, and lead in supporting and meeting their significant other's needs. If you can control your attention and what you do with it, you can definitely build a long lasting relationship. It all begins with ourselves. We blame others while we can't even notice what's going on with people in our lives. 

If you want to be a billionaire, you need to reach a billion of people. There is a system to wealth creation and job creation. In this episode you will discover the most obvious system behind wealth. No one becomes rich by accident unless they've won lottery. 

There is a reason why Jews believe they were meant to be rich. This doesn't mean all Jews are wealthier. But those who are rich, are those who believe they were destined for greatness. What you tel yourself determines the quality of your life. You cannot become successful is you believe your salvation will come from outside. You will never be free if you believe it's someone else's duty to create that. Those who are wealth, free, and happy in life, are those who believe they have what it takes and can create anything they want in life.