Chambua - Dissecting Ideologies Behind Relationships, Beliefs, Success, and Leadership.

The biggest challenge facing our continent is wealth creation. With the highest unemployment rates, we need to understand how wealth is created which will lead us to be self sufficient. We don't need outside help to save us from poverty. What we need is understanding how wealth countries created their wealth. In this episode you will discover how rich we are in terms of row material and resources that is needed to create our own wealth and employment. 

If you met the love of your life, would you confidently say you are ready for them? The truth about relationships is that we were never raised with necessary tools and knowledge that would prepare us for love and marriage. Most of us just know what we want but we have no clue what it takes to keep it and maintain it. The person you are searching for won't just happen by accident. And if they happened, do you know what it takes to meet their needs and maintain a long lasting relationships with them? Everybody knows what is good and great, but few of us want to be the best version of ourselves.

What if the person you've been looking for isn't from your religious background, race, or social class? For most of us, the issues isn't even finding someone who would love us. The issue is our biases, ignorance, and prejudice towards others. If we believe we are all human beings, then let's start acting and doing what we preach. If what we need is love, let be love and not our indifferences. This a compiling story of how two young people found love in the most unexpected places.

To sum it all up, if you want a long lasting relationship, start doing this. 

It would be foolish and unwise to ask for a job without proper skills and requirements. Why would you take on an assignment knowing well that you are not build to maintain it? Relationships are built. They are like a house that needs specific skills, commitment, and work ethic. You can't acquire an assignment and leave it unfinished or undone. Most of us think we lack good people, but what we actually lack is the ability to build whatever we sign up for. Are you ready to build what you signed up for? Are you even aware of the task that you have been assigned to? If you can answer these questions then you will know if you are a builder. You won't be afraid of challenges. You will be able to face anything because you understand that nothing good will happen unless you make it happen. The quality of your relationships is proportional to the amount of efforts and care you put in. 

How hypocritical of us for wishing to have relationships without problems? Wishing for relationships without problems is a childish and a sign of immaturity. It's also a sign that we are not ready to suffer or face whatever challenges we might face in life. Get comfortable with problems and you'll be able to face anything in life including solving relational or people problems. 

Listen to the story behind my father's loss of his front teeth. Relationships require a huge emotional investment. People are emotional beings and the secret to sustain our relationships with each other relies in our ability to manage our emotions. Unfortunately most of us are unaware of our emotional intelligence deficiency. We lack the understanding and awareness of our emotions. We lack emotional maturity and resilience. The ability to be around people without being offended or offending others starts by managing and taking control of our emotions first.  

If we claim relationships are essential to us, then why do we give them left overs? We need to understand one thing. Nothing in life worth having has ever happened without a sacrifice. If we want great relationships, we need to be willing to do whatever it takes to build and sustain them no matter what the cost might be. 

Relationships are important for a reason. In this episode you will learn why it's important to form long lasting relationships and the benefits of having great relationships.

The beginning of wisdom starts by knowing the root of your problems. We cannot fix problems we are unaware of. We need to start by pointing out all problems that have been stopping us from building and forming long lasting relationships.