Chasing Happy

What if the uncertainty, the in-between, the WTF even is this phase... was the point all along?

In this episode, I’m talking about the discomfort of not knowing — where you’re headed, what’s working, what’s next — and the real cost of always trying to get out of the waiting room instead of learning how to be in it. From fertility and business to moving and starting over (again), I’m sharing what’s been raw and real for me lately… and what I’m finally learning about staying put long enough to find clarity inside the mess, not after it.

Takeaways

• Angela shares her emotional journey with her fertility journey.
• She reflects on the discomfort of transitions in life.
• Angela emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty.
• She questions the need for clarity in decision-making.
• The conversation highlights the challenges of her fertility journey.
• Angela discusses the complexities of moving and finding a home.
• She explores the idea of control versus acceptance in life.
• Angela acknowledges the pressure to escape discomfort.
• She encourages listeners to support themselves in uncertainty.
• The episode concludes with a reminder to embrace the present moment.

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You say you want more—more success, more peace, more love, more money—but what happens when it actually starts to show up? In this episode, we dive into the concept of the upper limit problem and why we subconsciously sabotage ourselves when life gets too good. I share a personal story that wrecked me in the best way, and we explore what it really takes to expand your capacity for joy, instead of contracting back into chaos. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the struggle even when things are looking up… this one’s for you.

Takeaways

• The upper limit problem is a tendency to self-sabotage.
• People often feel more comfortable in their struggles than in happiness.
• Our subconscious can limit our capacity for joy and success.
• Recognizing our comfort zones is crucial for growth.
• We can become addicted to our struggles and discomfort.
• Embracing small wins can help expand our capacity for joy.
• Shame keeps us stuck and does not facilitate growth.
• Understanding our upper limit signature moves can aid in self-awareness.
• Visualizing safe success can help in overcoming upper limits.
• Asking for help and support is essential for personal growth.

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What do hot dogs in mac & cheese, building a dream business, and silent meditation retreats have in common? They all live somewhere on Maslow’s hierarchy. In this episode, I’m breaking down this classic psychology concept—minus the textbook vibes—and exploring how it actually shows up in our real, messy lives and businesses.

From survival mode to self-actualization (and all the funky middle zones), we’re asking:
 ✨ Where are you on the pyramid right now?
✨ Can joy and healing really coexist with unmet needs?
✨ And how do we stop chasing “someday” and show up for ourselves today?

Spoiler: There’s no gold medal at the top. Just deeper questions and a lot more compassion.

Takeaways

• Joy can be accessed at any level of life.
• Slowing down is essential for healing and feeling.
• Maslow's hierarchy is a useful framework, but life is messier.
• We often pressure ourselves to self-actualize too soon.
• Presence is key to experiencing joy.
• Basic needs must be met before higher needs can be pursued.
• Joy can exist in the middle of life's challenges.
• Self-actualization is not a linear process.
• We can work on multiple levels of needs simultaneously.
• Joy and purpose can emerge from hardship.
  
  
  

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What happens when you get everything you thought you wanted… and it still doesn’t feel like enough?

In this episode, I unpack the darker side of the chase. From building the dream business to buying the dream home to traveling the world solo—on paper, I had it all. But behind the scenes, I was burned out, disconnected, and drowning in champagne and credit card bills.

We’ll explore what happens when we skip the inner work, how personal development can become another escape, and why slowing down might be the most radical move of all.

This isn’t about demonizing the dream—it’s about learning how to live it without losing ourselves.

✨ Are you chasing happy... or running from yourself? Let’s explore.

Takeaways

• The joy you're looking for might already be right here.
• Chasing happy can sometimes lead to more misery.
• Success does not guarantee happiness.
• Self-care is essential for personal growth.
• It's important to question what truly makes us happy.
• We often chase external validation instead of internal fulfillment.
• Healing is a continuous journey, not a destination.
• We need to slow down and appreciate the present moment.
• Creating a life that feels good is more important than ticking boxes.
• Self-acceptance is key to true happiness.

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What if wanting more isn’t the problem—but the way we chase it is? In this episode, I explore the beauty and burnout of always reaching for “happy,” through stories of surviving rock bottom, walking the Camino de Santiago, sitting in silence at a 10-day Vipassana, and doing the deep work through psychedelics. This is chasing happy—in all its mess, meaning, and everything in between.

Takeaways

• Chasing happy can be both a light and dark journey.
• The light side includes setting goals and having purpose.
• The dark side involves feelings of never being enough.
• My health struggles prompted me to pursue happiness.
• Success does not always equate to happiness.
• Finding balance is crucial in the pursuit of happiness.
• Traveling helped me step out of my (uncomfortable) comfort zone.
• Psychedelics can aid in deep emotional healing.
• It's important to be ready for the journey of self-discovery.
• Questions about happiness can lead to deeper understanding.

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This is your official welcome to Chasing Happy.

A real, raw podcast about questioning the chase, unlearning the noise, and figuring out what actually makes life worth living.

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