It is common to hear single submissives complain about the lack of “good dominants” splendid submissives, the hard part is finding the right fit for you. The internet is filled with memes proclaiming what is or is not good dominance mixed with submissives sharing sad experiences so that devoted dominants can feel like a myth. So this conversation will be celebrating deserving d-types and some of the characteristics that make them amazing.

An easy thing to forget is that behind every blog, social media post, meme, and podcast there is a living, breathing human. With that in mind, this episode tells a little about the guy behind the podcast who as you are reading this probably in line, waiting for coffee. Plus there is a vexing question asked and your help is needed to answer it.

Because poly does not fit the traditional relationship methods most have been taught or experienced, it can easily be misunderstood thus making it challenging to explore with an open mind. In this episode, the conversation is about understanding a few basics about poly, the various styles/types of partnerships, terminology, and how even if one is not poly, the relationship skills positive poly partnerships possess can help monogamous relationships. So even if poly is not your cup of tea, there will be some coffee here to help your current or next relationship thrive.

Work, school, kids, family, friends, hobbies plus everything else has a nasty way of upsetting the dynamic between dominant and submissive. When all of these pressures start to compress on a partnership, the relationship can have the D/S pillar kicked out from under it. This episode is devoted to finding ways to counter these demands and how to make choices that keep the lifestyle building blocks firmly entrenched.

Ah, the vanilla world, what a pain the rump. It is always pressuring, pushing, and pulling away at D/S, especially in a relationship. One place, in particular, it can have a stinging impact, is on the accountability side of the lifestyle. In this episode, the conversation will revolve around how to uphold D/S responsibilities in the face of real-world pressures.

In this episode, the conversation will revolve around the most asked question in D/S, no the questions isn’t going to be revealed in the summary here, you will need to listen to discover it, plus in the first of this three-part series, the conversation will be around the importance of “P” in the lifestyle. Before anyone gets any unique ideas about P, it is twofold, people and partners which are key to finding success in a real world lifestyle relationship.

Safety and consent are two things that everyone must prioritize when engaging in D/S play. When it comes to play and how to do so in a safe manner, different acronyms describe the four main practices. In this episode, S.S.C., R.A.C.K., P.R.I.C.K., and the Four C’s are discussed and explained to help find which may be the right fit as well as to foster understanding of those who may engage in a manner differently than your choice.