With the dawn of 2022, I have had a few friends proclaim that this year was going to be the year of their last first kiss or maybe a better way to say with more than a hint of lifestyle is a last first spanking. Since I have heard this phrase, it has stuck in my mind which caused me to think more about those who are looking for a lifestyle partner and how it can feel challenging to meet new people. So in this episode, I chat about some ideas on how to meet a perfectly imperfect lifestyle partner.

“Why Are You So Upset? I Was Only Joking!” Or “I’m not mad. Fine, Whatever!” These are phrases most of us have heard before and may recognize signs of passive-aggressive behavior. In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, I talk about identifying common examples, what to do when confronted with this behavior, as well as what it could mean if your partner is being passive-aggressive towards you.

Would You Like Soup, Salad, Submission, Or Dominance With Your Entree?

In this episode, I am going to chat about some of my thoughts on picking sides. I am not going to be offering advice on if soup or salad would complement your dinner but on the process of discovery that leads a person to call one side of the D/S slash home and how that decision may evolve. So grab your salad, soup, or both and join me in conversation about picking your side.

It is the holiday season and so let’s celebrate. This episode is about celebrating the successes of a D/S partnership, rather than focusing on the consequences of flubs, dubs, and broken rules.

People say that wisdom comes when a person embraces their biggest mistakes, so with that in mind, I chat about some of my missteps in the lifestyle with the hope that others will use my blunders to create wisdom for themselves.

I understand that many were in a frenzy for my next podcast to drop so here it is and on this episode, I chat about being in a lifestyle frenzied state along with how to safely handle navigate things should you find yourself there.

In this podcast, I chat about some of the things that I believe all D/S relationships need to have to create a successful partnership. So much of social media and lifestyle sites are filled with horror stories of relationships going wrong, I wanted to talk about positive ways to craft a thriving D/S partnership. Also, because I am a superstitious ice hockey goalie, I could not bring myself to use a number that shall not be said in the title, thus the reason this is episode 12.5 :-)

In my twelfth installment, I want to chat about a few of the things I would change if I should ever be anointed king of kink, even for a day.

Welcome to the eleventh installment of my D/S lifestyle-themed podcast. In this episode, I will be discussing the danger that dominant 'trainers' bring to new or newer submissives and how mentors are a much better path for lifestyle growth.

On this episode, I chat about lifestyle play, consent, understanding yourself as well as the joys of toys, and the best part of all the lifestyle fun and games, aftercare.