In my twelfth installment, I want to chat about a few of the things I would change if I should ever be anointed king of kink, even for a day.

Welcome to the eleventh installment of my D/S lifestyle-themed podcast. In this episode, I will be discussing the danger that dominant 'trainers' bring to new or newer submissives and how mentors are a much better path for lifestyle growth.

On this episode, I chat about lifestyle play, consent, understanding yourself as well as the joys of toys, and the best part of all the lifestyle fun and games, aftercare.

The thoughts for this episode came out of a question about long term lifestyle partnerships and will touch on the pitfalls of lifestyle love which, spoiler alert, are not normally lifestyle issues.

So often all of us can get caught up in a sea of no. Often, saying no can be easier than yes but saying yes, especially in a D/S relationship has so many benefits. With that in mind, I chat about the power of saying yes.

Within the D/S lifestyle it is so important to agree to disagree while learning from the journeys of others, even if we do not practice things the same way.

On this episode of my podcast, I chat about what I think are the five most common mistakes people make when they are starting a new lifestyle relationship. I hope that sharing these mistakes will help others avoid these pitfalls.

I am joined by my friend Ali and we have a conversation about being Wordie, lighthouses, and of course the D/S lifestyle. To learn more about Ali, please head over to her blog, alibabe48.tumblr.com (You must be signed in on Tumblr).

Welcome to episode four of my podcast. On this episode, I chat about red flags and why these are things to be aware of, look out for, and to step away from. 

In this episode (said in my dramatic TV voice), I chat about coming to and going away from the lifestyle and how it is a beacon of light, not darkness.