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  • Mary Jo Hoffman: Using the STILL practice to bring more happiness to your life & how life pivots can be just what we need

    Host Lorraine Toth speaks with Mary Jo Hoffman about the unlikely path from aerospace research scientist to artist photographer, and how a simple daily habit turned into a long-running body of work, a bestselling coffee table book, workshops, brand collaborations, and a more attentive way of living. They also discuss happiness, seasonality, and why it is not too late to begin something new later in life.

    In this episode: Mary Jo shares how she spent 20 years in aerospace engineering before shifting into art and photography in her mid-40s She explains the origins of her daily project, Still, where she photographs one found natural object each day She breaks down why daily practice works by focusing on “not breaking the chain”.

    The conversation covers how minimalism, attention, and mindfulness show up in her creative process Mary Jo describes how her project led to a Martha Stewart Living feature and later to her book Still: The Art of Noticing.

    She talks about the role of nature, flow, and active engagement in happiness Lorraine and Mary Jo discuss how life changes, including fertility struggles and a house fire, shaped the arc of her work.

    Mary Jo explains how her practice travels with her and how it deepened her experience in places like southern France and Florida.  She outlines the different ways people can work with her through workshops, talks, and her daily image practice. She shares recent collaborations, including work with Target, West Elm, and wall coverings.

     Key takeaways:

    • The transformative power of daily creative habits
    • How mindfulness and attention enhance life
    • The role of nature in happiness and flow
    • Balancing career, family, and personal growth in midlife
    • The impact of small, consistent actions on well-being
    • Mary Jo's Blog

      Mary Jo's Book

      Mary Jo's Instagram

      Steve's (her husband) Book

       

       

       

       

      Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction and waiting six months for the interview (00:39) Mary Jo introduces her path from aerospace science to art photography (01:34) The Still project and the success of Still: The Art of Noticing (02:07) How a simple blog and good design helped attract Martha Stewart Living (03:04) Twelve and a half years of daily photos and the house fire interruption (04:02) Why minimalism is harder than it looks (05:29) Why dailiness matters more than talent or complexity (06:26) The power of “not breaking the chain” (07:25) How the daily practice reduces perfectionism and overthinking (08:57) The practice as a mindfulness habit that changes how she moves through the world (10:08) Why engineering felt like the path of least resistance (11:37) Fertility struggles, role reversal, and choosing to become a hands-on parent (13:25) Building a creative career that can continue indefinitely (14:04) Why the practice must be portable and travel-friendly (15:02) How Still shaped her experience in southern France (16:25) A philosopher’s idea of happiness as active engagement in projects of worth (19:25) Why nature is the fastest on-ramp to flow and happiness (21:59) The 72 micro-seasons of the north and the metaphor of seasonal change (23:09) How to work with Mary Jo through blog, workshops, and talks (25:16) Collaborations with Target, West Elm, and wallpaper/wall covering projects (26:39) Why it is not too late to start something new later in life (28:03) Autumn in Minnesota and the intensity of capturing seasonal change Notable Quotes: “All I have to do is find one thing and literally I can step outside my front door and pick up a handful of grass and I've not broken the chain.” “Active engagement in projects of worth.” “It’s both easy and hard, like minimalism.”

      31 min
    • Brownell Landrum: The Art and Science of Wishing & How to Turn Desire Into Real Results

      Host Lorraine Toth talks with Brownell Landrum about how to turn a wish into something more expansive, grounded, and effective. Brownell shares her “cosmic wish” framework, explains the difference between wishes, goals, and prayers, and connects everyday rituals like birthday candles and shooting stars to neuroscience, symbolism, and collective intention. This episode is especially useful for anyone who wants to reframe a desire without desperation, make better wishes, and understand the science behind the process. Brownell also shares how she uses these ideas in books, classes, and corporate workshops.

      Key topics
      • Brownell Landrum introduces herself as a storyteller and Author of The Art and Science of Wishing, plus the children’s book Cosmic Wishes.
      • Lorraine shares how Brownell helped her reframe a high-stakes wish around an important media pitch.
      • Brownell explains the “expansive pivot,” which shifts focus from the thing you want to the deeper need underneath it.
      • The conversation explores how wishes can hold both control and uncertainty, allowing for yes, no, wait, or something better.
      • Brownell describes how wish-making can ease desperation and create more alignment in relationships, career goals, and personal desires.
      • They explore the science behind wishing, including rituals, anthropology, neuroplasticity, epigenetics, and the reticular activating system.
      • Brownell explains how birthday candles, shooting stars, and other symbolic rituals can train the brain to notice opportunities and solutions.
      • The episode distinguishes a goal, a prayer, and a wish: goals are within your control, prayers are for what you cannot control, and wishes combine both.
      • Brownell shares the “hitch hypothesis”: you can only take something so far before something outside yourself meets you the rest of the way.
      • Her eight-week program uses repetition to reinforce neuroplasticity and help people make stronger wishes over time.
      • Brownell discusses making wishes from a peaceful, positive, and purposeful state.
      • Lorraine and Brownell explore how to reframe negative wishes into positive ones.
      • Brownell explains how cosmic wishing can be applied to company culture, values, and shared goals.
      • Brownell's Websites:

        https://cosmicwishes.com/

        https://brownelllandrum.com/

        The Art & Science of Wishing on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CY3C574T/

        Timestamps

        00:00 - Welcome to Choose the Happy Day with Brownell Landrum

        02:19 - What Brownell means by an expansive pivot
        03:12 - Why wishes should allow for “something better”
        04:51 - Removing desperate energy from relationships and goals
        05:43 - How birthdays, shooting stars, and rituals engage science
        06:52 - Why repetition trains neuroplasticity and the brain
        07:54 - Using symbols to activate the reticular activating system
        08:55 - Breath, fire, symbolism, and the deeper roots of wishing
        09:59 - The difference between a wish, a prayer, and a goal
        10:33 - Cosmic collaboration and the hitch hypothesis
        11:48 - Reframing goals through cosmic wishing
        12:58 - Why Brownell built an eight-week wish program
        13:30 - The daily practice of peaceful, positive, purposeful wishing
        15:15 - Why sometimes “no” is the best answer
        16:09 - The most important daily habit for turning a wish cosmic
        17:17 - The problems and pitfalls of wishing
        17:43 - How to wish for something, not against something
        18:36 - Reframing “I wish my sister would leave me alone”
        19:26 - Turning pain, frustration, and weight loss into positive wishes
        20:08 - Living as nomads and staying nimble with life decisions
        22:31 - The blue balloon phenomena and how meaning gets assigned
        24:45 - Bringing cosmic wishing into companies and teams
        25:15 - Turning company values into active wishes
        26:46 - Brownell’s books, show, and two websites
        27:25 - TEDx talk updates and where to find clips

        28 min
      • Jen Wyatt: The Pear Ritual That Attracted a Relationship in Two Weeks & Other Manifesting Tips
        In this episode, special guest Jen Wyatt shares her inspiring journey of manifesting a first class plane ticket to Paris as well as her powerful rituals for attracting love and success. Discover practical tips on manifestation, presence, and overcoming inner resistance to create a life you love during this conversation.

        Here is Jen's brief bio: Jen Wyatt, founder of Wander Free Wellness, is a ritual guide weaving myth, archetype, and seasonal wisdom to awaken intuition, aliveness, and authentic expression. She creates mythopoetic, imaginative, nature-rooted spaces for women to embrace their winding life path, shed old skins, and come home to themselves.
         
        Key Takeaways:
        • How she manifested a first class trip to Paris
        • Using rituals to attract love and success
        • The importance of clarity in manifestation
        • Overcoming resistance and fear through inner work
        • The role of community and retreats in personal growth
        • The significance of presence and sensory awareness
        • Creating space by releasing old energy
        • The impact of belief and leap of faith
        • Manifesting through symbolic acts like eating fruit & more
        • Upcoming Costa Rica retreat for deep transformation
        • Jen's website:

          https://wanderfreewellness.com/

          Use code: Choosehappy for 10% off her November Retreat to Costa Rica.

           

          Chapters

          00:00 Introduction and technical difficulties

          02:26 Jen shares her manifestation of a first class trip to Paris
          07:35 The blessing comes after the decision
          08:32 Using award tickets and taking leaps of faith
          13:43 How magic and presence create synchronicities
          16:43 The power of rituals and symbolic acts
          19:13 Manifesting love with a ritual involving a pear
          22:35 Releasing energy and clearing the path for new love
          24:24 The importance of clarity and writing goals
          27:17 Overcoming scarcity mindset and trusting the universe
          29:49 Working through inner resistance and blocks
          33:21 Helping women manifest their desires and the power of community
          36:58 Costa Rica retreat for deep immersion and transformation
          40:04 Upcoming retreat details and special discount
          41:00 Ways to work with Jen Wyatt
          42:21 Connecting with Jen on social media
          43:00 Closing remarks and encouragement to choose happiness

          41 min
        • Dave McLachlan: The Relationship Tool That Exposes Red Flags Before You Waste Years & the importance of Non Negotiables in Relationships

          In this episode, Dave McLachlan shares his innovative unemotional assessment tool designed to help women identify the right partner and avoid costly relationship mistakes. We explore how to use the 'Is He Worthy' system to save time, prevent heartbreak, and foster healthier relationships.

          KEY TOPICS:

          The creation of the 'Is He Worthy' assessment system

          How to score potential partners unemotionally
          The importance of non negotiables in relationships
          Red flags to watch for in dating
          The impact of emotional attachment on decision-making
          Using data and patterns to evaluate partners
          The role of self-awareness and wish lists in dating
          How to protect yourself from costly relationship mistakes
          The significance of ongoing assessment beyond marriage
          The emotional and financial consequences of poor relationship choices

          Sound bites:

          "The relationship world needs a tool to stop bad behavior"

          "It's like taking a master culinary class without the pots and pans"
          "This system can save you years of heartbreak"

          Dave's website here

          Dave on Instagram here

          Buy Dave's book on Amazon here

          36 min
        • Greg Pituch: Practicing Stillness, Recognizing Emotional Triggers to Free You from Spiraling & Unlocking Your Highest Self

          In this episode, Greg Pituch shares his journey of spiritual awakening, channel writing, and how to live more mindfully by connecting with your higher self. Discover practical tips on overcoming emotional patterns, holding your power, and embracing stillness.

          Topics:

          • Greg Pituch's spiritual awakening and channel writing journey
          • How to recognize and break free from mind loops and emotional patterns
          • Practices for holding your power in challenging interactions
          • Reframing situations with gratitude and trust in the universe
          • The process of writing a book through higher self guidance
          • Techniques for achieving stillness and connecting with your higher self
          • Greg's website

            Greg's Instagram

             

             

            Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Greg Pituch and his spiritual journey

            00:22 Greg shares his background as an ultra runner and spiritual writer 01:36 Manifesting Greg's interview opportunity through intention

            02:24 Recognizing and shifting mind patterns and emotional loops

            03:25 Questioning emotional triggers and childhood wounds

            04:26 Embracing and honoring emotional states instead of pushing them away

            05:27 Holding your power during difficult interactions with others

            10:07 Shifting from asking 'Why is this happening to me' to 'What is the lesson?'

            16:28 Greg's experience of writing his book through channeling and trust 24:24 Practicing stillness and connecting with the higher self

            27 min
          • Michelle Johnson: Solo Travel, Overcoming "Stuck-Ness" & Using EFT to facilitate change

            In this episode, Lorraine interviews Michelle about her journey of self-discovery, solo travel, overcoming stuck-ness, and using EFT to facilitate change. They explore how to embrace uncertainty, trust intuition, and live unconventionally to create a fulfilling life.

            Key Takeaways:

            • When you move away and come home to visit - the exhaustion & you are not the same person when you left
            • Solo travel as a tool for self-discovery
            • Overcoming feelings of stuck-ness and autopilot living
            • Using EFT tapping to release subconscious blocks
            • Trusting intuition for life decisions
            • Living unconventionally and embracing uncertainty
            • Resources:

              Buy her book:

              Shift Your Standards by Michelle Lynn Johnson 


              Michelle's TikTok Here

              Chapters

              00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

              02:03 Travel, Exhaustion, and Emotional Impact
              03:57 Feeling Stuck and Inner Battles
              06:01 Addressing Fear and Subconscious Blocks
              08:04 Small Changes and Their Impact
              09:05 Recognizing When You're Out of Alignment
              11:02 The Danger of Living on Autopilot
              12:12 Pivoting and Not Being Attached to Outcomes
              14:04 Meeting New Versions of Yourself Through Travel
              16:11 Building Self-Trust and Confidence
              18:00 The Power of Not Predicting the Future
              20:04 Introduction to EFT and Its Benefits
              22:02 Demonstration of EFT Tapping for Change
              23:55 Michelle's Future Plans and Living in Alignment
              26:00 Trusting the Unfolding of Life
              27:59 Recognizing Intuitive Hits and Acting on Them
              30:08 The Universe Supports Aligned Decisions
              31:53 Michelle's Work and Content Creation
              33:58 How to Connect with Michelle

              38 min
            • 4 minutes of Manifesting Tips from the Queen of Manifesting: Lorraine Toth (Bonus Episode)

              Some of my Manifesting tips that I use daily and that also worked fabulously for me today! I am known as the "Queen of Manifesting" having manifested free travel around the World last year, my Airstream and now living for free in Naples Florida while my ideal tenant rents out my home in NY! Here are a few things you can do to help you manifest what you want in your life.

              I recorded this right after recording an episode of my show the "Choose a Happy Day" Podcast in my Airstream named "Fifi La Roux".

              Have a happy day! Lorraine

              Learn more about the show here

              Buy the Daily Gratitude Journal I wrote here

              This is the App I use to do my "walking meditations" here

              5 min
            • Nick Carbuto: Embracing Spiritual Evolution and Manifestation
              Embracing Spiritual Evolution and Manifestation with Nick Carbuto

              Join us in this enlightening episode as we explore the transformative power of intuition, manifestation, and spiritual growth. Nick Carbuto, a seasoned intuitive medium and sound healer, shares profound insights on how to trust signs, elevate your self-speak, and harness the collective consciousness to create your reality.

              In this episode, we discuss:
              • The significance of signs from spirit and how to interpret them
              • How to build your psychic dictionary through signs and symbols
              • Trusting intuitive downloads and acting on them to manifest your desires
              • The difference between psychic readings, mediumship, and channeling
              • Personal stories of spirit communication and automatic writing
              • Practical methods to connect with your guides for clarity and guidance
              • The law of attraction and detailed manifestation techniques
              • The spiritual cycles of humanity and the purpose of our current ascension
              • How stepping out of your environment can catalyze growth and authenticity
              • Services offered by Nick including hot topic readings, sound healing, Reiki, and sonic Reiki sessions
              • Timestamps:
                00:00 - Welcome and intro to Nick's journey and expertise
                02:00 - Trusting spirit messages and the role of signs in decision-making
                05:00 - Building a psychic dictionary of symbols and personal meaning
                08:30 - Personal story of spirit visitation through a moth and butterfly
                12:00 - Asking guides for signs and messages, including specific example of hawks
                15:00 - The power of self-speak and the I am journal in manifesting
                18:00 - Rephrasing negative thoughts to empower your reality
                21:00 - Differences between psychic readings, mediumship, and channeling
                24:00 - Channeling experiences and automatic writing stories
                29:00 - The role of collective consciousness and humanity's spiritual cycles
                33:00 - How environment influences spiritual growth and personal shifts
                36:00 - Nick’s therapeutic offerings: hot topic readings, sound baths, Reiki, sonic Reiki
                38:00 - Final thoughts and ways to connect with Nick for guidance
                Resources & Links:
                  • Tranquil Heart Nick - Official Website
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                    Connect with Nick:
                    • Website
                    • Email
                    • 40 min
                    • Mary Alice Stuart: Navigating Empathic Sensitivity & Shielding Yourself from Negative Energy

                      Episode 50- SO happy to announce my most recent Podcast guest, Mary Alice Stuart! In this episode I chat with Mary Alice Stewart, a gifted intuitive, medium, and clairvoyant with over 33 years of experience. The conversation begins with light-hearted banter and leads into a deeper discussion about empaths and their unique sensitivities to negative energy people (energy Vampires). Mary Alice explains how empaths can absorb the energies of those around them, often leading to physical symptoms like headaches or fatigue. She shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how empaths can protect themselves from negative energies, including visualization techniques and the importance of setting boundaries with energy vampires. Mary Alice also emphasizes the significance of nature in grounding and cleansing one's energy. She shares insights on how deceased loved ones communicate through electronic devices and the presence of orbs, which are often seen as signs from the spirit world. The episode wraps up with practical tips for listeners on how to tap into their own intuitive abilities, the importance of maintaining a positive mindset, and how to seek guidance from the spirit realm. This enlightening conversation is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone interested in spirituality and personal growth.

                      Key Takeaways:

                      • Empaths can absorb others' energies, leading to physical symptoms.
                      • Visualization techniques can help empaths shield themselves from negative energy.
                      • Nature is a powerful tool for grounding and cleansing one's energy.
                      • Deceased loved ones often communicate through electronic devices.
                      • Maintaining a positive mindset is crucial for manifesting desires.
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                        Mary Alice's WEBSITE

                        31 min
                      • Dreya Blume: Unlocking Life Clarity with Tarot and Self-Discovery Techniques

                        Unlocking Life Clarity with Tarot and Self-Discovery Techniques

                        Discover how tarot cards can serve as a powerful tool for gaining clarity in life decisions, understanding your subconscious patterns, and navigating significant transitions. This episode features expert insights into intuitive tarot reading, shadow work, and harnessing universal messages for personal growth.

                        In this episode:
                        • Dreya shares her 20+ years of tarot experience and how her relationship with cards has evolved from traditional to intuitive approaches
                        • Practical steps to use tarot for making important life decisions
                        • The role of childhood trauma and beliefs in shaping relationship patterns
                        • How to identify and break recurring negative cycles in relationships and life choices
                        • The importance of trusting your intuition and understanding the messages of the universe
                        • Live demonstration: Using tarot to navigate a major personal decision (moving house and finding a tenant)
                        • Tips for beginners: how to shuffle, focus, and interpret tarot cards at home
                        • The connection between shadow work, belief systems, and attracting aligned experiences
                        • Resources & Links:
                          Dreya Bloom - Website

                          Dreya Tarot Website

                           

                           

                          45 min

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