After a few days, the younger son got everything together and journeyed to a distant country, where he squandered his wealth in wild living. — Luke 15:13
Before we ever turn toward home, God has already turned toward us in Christ. Jesus' washing, sanctifying, and justifying work defines our identity, no matter how far we wandered. God made us alive with Christ while we were dead in sin, so grace, not our past, has the final word over who we are.