Coffee with The Couple Cure

This one starts out talking about the partner's anger at God (it might just be something else). Then we talk about the addict's anger at God, himself… and the wife. And what he should do if he's angry with the wife.

This is a continuation of the last episode where we're covering how Lori responded to those who objected to how we've recovered.

This exchange, however, got a little nastier than the last one.

In this episode we give an example of how to respond to someone who is gentle, yet still misunderstanding the issues involved after betrayal.

Submission in marriage is regularly misunderstood, so this episode discusses what God meant it to look like in marriage… and what it might look like after betrayal.

This episode covers THE thing that can make a situation go from bad to traumatic. We also discuss things that can make the process less damaging for you.

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

Jay and Lori discuss self-deception and lies. Why do betrayers do this? Why did Jay lie to Lori?

They also cover some things you can do to overcome these behaviors and get to a better place.

Lori holds Jay's feet to the fire on one of his past beliefs. Then we speak directly to the guys.

Women tell me the lying is worse than the sexual integrity issue. Jay goes into the first lies he ever told, and Lori shares what she thought when he'd lie about certain things. He even shared some brand new truth the day of this recording.