🧠 Did you know? According to a study by UCLA, only 7% of communication is based on the actual words we say. 38% is vocal tone, and the remaining 55% is body language. That means your voice alone carries over five times more weight than your words when it comes to how you're perceived.

Let that sink in.

If you’ve ever shared an idea in a meeting, on stage, or even in a casual conversation—only to feel unheard or brushed aside—this episode is for you. The way your voice sounds has the power to shift how seriously people take you.

In this episode, we’ll break down:

• The 3 qualities of a confident voice: clarity, steadiness, and resonance
• Vocal habits that undermine your authority (hello, vocal fry and rising intonation)
• Key techniques to strengthen your voice: from pacing and tone to breath control and volume
• Why true vocal confidence starts within—and how health, mindset, and preparation all play a role
• A behind-the-scenes look at how I overcame shaky voice moments and the truth about preparation (spoiler: a one-hour keynote = 600 hours of practice!)

🎧 Whether you're prepping for a big presentation, leading a team meeting, or just want to sound more self-assured in everyday conversations, this episode is packed with practical tips and real talk to help you sound (and feel) like the most powerful version of yourself.

✨ Try this today: Pick a short paragraph and record yourself reading it with clarity, steady pacing, and tonal variety. Then listen back. You might be surprised by how much you’re capable of.

📲 Let’s take this further Share your practice or reflections with me on Instagram @commandyourpresence and tag me—I’d love to hear how you're showing up with more confidence this week.

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying these episodes. And next week, we’re diving into body language—yes, even if you're 5'1" like me. 😉 Stay tuned!

“You don’t go to Afghanistan for a vacation selfie.”

That’s the bold energy Paris brings as a tour guide leading groups through some of the world’s most high-risk destinations — think Syria, Iraq, Madagascar, and beyond.

As our second ever guest on the show, Paris shares what it really takes to guide people through intense, unpredictable, and often misunderstood regions. From managing grown adults’ expectations (and bowel emergencies ), to standing her ground in a male-dominated space, Paris gives us a behind-the-scenes look at a job that demands presence, grit, and a lot of guts.

This isn’t a tourism highlight reel — this is about leadership under pressure, cultural sensitivity, and learning when to stop apologizing.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How Paris stepped into her power after one disastrous tour
• The life-threatening moment that sharpened her mindset
• Why being “nice” isn’t enough — and when to start saying no
• The realities of guiding in conflict zones
• What changed when she started working for herself
• And yes... the logistics of desert bathroom breaks 👀

“You’re in my tour — not yours.”

Paris may be young and blonde, but don’t underestimate her. She’s been there more times than anyone, and she’s the one making sure you come back home safe.

Curious about exploring the side of the world we only see in headlines? Want to travel with someone who actually understands the ground you're walking on?

Follow Paris on Instagram and keep an eye out for the launch of her private tour company — where courage meets culture, and experience makes all the difference.

If this episode inspired you, share it with a fellow travel lover or someone curious about leadership in unconventional places. Don’t forget to rate and review the show — it helps more people discover these important stories.

Picture this: it’s five minutes before curtain at a major international festival. You’re the only person on stage for a 40-minute solo show. And you’re on the bathroom floor, projectile vomiting.

In this raw and unforgettable episode, I share the true story of performing my one-woman show Safety Banana under extreme physical stress and what it taught me about presence, preparation, and pushing through fear. From a broken tap shoe to blood dripping down my arm, this wasn’t just about "the show must go on." It was about being so prepared that your body can take over when your mind wants to give up.

If you’ve ever felt like nerves, imposter syndrome, or physical limitations might stop you from showing up powerfully, this one’s for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why preparation isn’t just about knowing your lines. It’s about knowing them in your body

• How performance and presence rely on resilience and rehearsal

• What to do when things don’t go as planned on stage (or in life)

• Why your audience doesn’t know what you didn’t plan and how that works in your favor

🎧 Listen now to hear how I got through that show, and what it means for how you show up in high-stakes moments.

👉 Ready to command the room, even under pressure? Follow the podcast, share this episode with a friend who performs or presents, and DM me your biggest takeaway over on Instagram @jacindapatty. Let’s keep building your presence, confidence, and impact one story at a time.

Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible? Or maybe you've seen someone instantly command attention and thought, “How do they do that?”

Here’s the truth: commanding presence isn’t something you’re just born with. It’s something you can learn, refine, and show up with—every single day.

In this episode, we’re breaking down what it really means to command presence and why it’s about so much more than being the loudest person in the room. Whether you're speaking on stage, leading a Zoom call, or just trying to feel seen in your everyday life, these tools will help you show up with authenticity, confidence, and connection.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• What commanding presence actually is (hint: it’s not about being perfect or pushy)

• The 4 key components: body language, voice, energy, and mindset

• The 3 core pillars of presence: authenticity, confidence, and connection

• Simple, actionable tools to build your presence right away

• Why practicing presence in everyday settings (yes, even at a barbecue) makes all the difference

• A behind-the-scenes look at how I learned to show up powerfully—even in uncomfortable moments

You’ll also hear honest stories, real-life examples (including teaching 3-year-olds), and simple ways to embody your presence no matter where you are or who you’re with.

Pick one area this week to intentionally practice your presence. Whether it's a meeting, a casual conversation, or your next social hangout—show up with intention. Reflect afterward. How did it feel to be more grounded, more connected, more you?

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. Message me on Instagram @commandyourpresence and let me know what “commanding presence” looks like in your world.

Next time, we’re diving deeper into body language and how to project confidence without saying a word.  Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark.  You've got this. 

Emily is one of those people who leads quietly but powerfully. She doesn’t need the spotlight, but when she speaks, people listen. Over the last eight years, she’s gone from working in financial planning to becoming the heart of a 10,000-strong community of advisors. In this episode, she shares how she found her voice, not by becoming an expert, but by learning how to connect, listen, and truly see people.

In this episode, we cover: 🔥 How Emily went from outsider to trusted voice in a tight-knit industry 🌱 Why you don’t need to be the smartest in the room to be valuable 👀 What it really takes to command presence in a digital space 📹 The uncomfortable (but necessary) habit that skyrocketed her confidence 💡 How thoughtful follow-up and showing you care builds long-term influence

Emily has a gift for spotting what people need before they even know it. Her journey is full of grounded wisdom, hard-earned confidence, and practical insights for anyone looking to lead with more impact, on or off the stage.

💬 Enjoyed the episode? Don’t forget to follow the show, leave a cheeky 5-star review, and share this with your favorite community builder, quietly confident queen, or anyone who's on their own journey to owning their magic. Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark.  You've got this. 

🎙️ Studies show that 77% of people experience anxiety about public speaking. For many professionals, that fear doesn’t just show up on stage, but in meetings, interviews, and everyday conversations.

Welcome back to Command Your Presence! In this powerful solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my personal journey from dancer to solo performer to confidence coach and sharing the real, raw moments that shaped how I show up today.

You'll hear what it felt like to stand in the spotlight of my first solo show, why commanding presence has nothing to do with being perfect, and the role storytelling, self-awareness, and support systems play in truly owning your voice.

Whether you’ve ever felt too scripted, not prepared enough, or just unsure if your message will land, this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why presence is a learned skill, not an inborn talent

• How to reframe fear as a sign you’re stepping into growth

• The importance of having your own "brain’s trust" to support your message

• Why authenticity beats perfection every time

🎧 Tune in and learn how to start showing up with confidence in every room you enter.

👉 What’s a pivotal moment in your life that shaped who you are today? DM me on Instagram @Commandyourpresence and let’s start a conversation.

And don’t forget to follow the show for more practical episodes on building presence, boosting confidence, and making your voice unstoppable.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation, a presentation, or even a simple introduction wishing you had spoken with more confidence?

Welcome to the very first episode of Command Your Presence! 🎙️

Do you ever feel like you’re too scripted, or not scripted enough, when you speak? Maybe you worry about forgetting your words or not making the impact you intended? You're not alone. Presence isn’t just about being in the room, it’s about how you show up, how you communicate, and the confidence you radiate.

In this episode, I will share my personal journey from dancer to solo performer, highlighting the pivotal moments that taught me how to truly command presence. From my first production in the Melbourne SpiegelTent to developing solo shows like Safety Banana and Tinder Cindy, I will uncover the lessons that helped me transform from a performer into a confident speaker and storyteller.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why commanding presence isn’t an inborn talent but a skill you develop ✔️ The power of storytelling and how it makes your message unforgettable ✔️ How to overcome fear and step into the spotlight with confidence

🎧 Listen in and start owning your voice!

👉 Before we dive into future episodes, take a moment to reflect: What’s one time in your life where you wish you had commanded your presence? DM me on @commandyourpresence and share your story I’d love to hear it! 

Until next time, keep showing up owning your voice and making your mark.  You've got this. 

Your presence can make or break your message. It’s time to own the room before you even say a word.

Hey there, I’m Jacinda Patty, and welcome to the trailer episode of Command Your Presence! I’m so excited you’re here.

This podcast is all about helping you speak with confidence, communicate with clarity, and show up with impact. In each episode, I’ll be sharing actionable strategies, expert insights, and stories that inspire so you can feel grounded, focused, and powerful whenever all eyes are on you.

Whether you're prepping for a big presentation, pitching your ideas, leading a team, or just want to feel more comfortable using your voice, this show is for you. I truly believe presence is something we can all build, and I’m here to help you do exactly that.

In this kickoff trailer, you’ll hear:

• Why I started Command Your Presence

• What you can expect from future episodes

• Who this podcast is really for (spoiler alert: probably you!)

If this resonates, I’d love for you to follow the show so you never miss an episode. And if you’re feeling generous, leave a quick review and share this with a friend who’s ready to step into their power, too.

Want more? Come hang out with me on Instagram @jacindapatty for more tips and behind-the-scenes goodness.

Let’s command our presence together. I’m so glad you’re here!